I recently followed up with client who I first met in 2015. The first few sentences out of his mouth dealt with the concern of how everyone who has come into his life to help him, has made things worse. In other words, he was constantly blaming others for everything going wrong in his life. From the time we meet in 2015, to the updated on site consultation of last week, it was clear only three changes were implemented out of 20 suggestions. Plain and simple, this is not good.
Living the lifestyle of Feng Shui creates an agreement to welcome change into your life for the better and to become accountable for your actions and choices. Yet, we all have free will. From a Feng Shui perspective, if you choose not to test out any of the suggested changes, release habits of behavior and thinking that are clearly un-beneficial, you are limiting your opportunities for transformation.
Do not blame others for the choices you make.
Long story short, I wrote up a new batch of extensive notes, fused with tough love. If you choose to hire a Feng Shui Consultant or other professionals noted to help you change, please do not resist that help. Be open minded and willing to at least test out the suggestions. If you have been looping certain patterns of behaviors and thoughts, while marinating in the same environment and receiving the same results, then its time to change the program.
