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Are You A ReGifter?

 

It'Sugar

 

Earlier this month while in Old Pasadena, this sign at the It’Sugar store caught my attention.   I thought to myself -- Uh, Oh.  Busted.  Yes, you see I have regifted candy.  Not just a piece but the entire box, mind you.  

 

I admit I have regifted other items over the years.  Isn’t that one of the reasons behind the creation of the White Elephant?  But I do know the rules. Even financial guru Dave Ramsey has a suggested list of rules when it comes to the subject.   And if you are Seinfeld addict like me, you certainly know this episode:  

 

 

 

 

So are you a ReGifter?

 

In future posts, I plan to discuss the merits of other Seinfeld terms that have more relevance to the world of real estate including my take on the close talker, double dipping and yada yada yada.   In the meantime, regift wisely and Happy Festivus in advance.

 

Published:   December 22, 2016(AKA Festivus-Eve)

 

Are You A Re-Gifter?

 

 

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

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Mike Bjork
Evolve Bank & Trust - Redondo Beach, CA

I have to admit that I'm not much of a re-gifter myself.  I tend to try and purchase items that make me think of that individual.  I like to make it personal.

Dec 27, 2016 10:36 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

I like re-gifting.  "One man's junk is another man's treasure"...I have always heard.  LOL

 

Dec 27, 2016 12:16 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I love to watch Seinfeld reruns. Thanks for the reminder and the video. 

Dec 27, 2016 12:41 PM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Legacy - Cary, NC
NC Realtor - Senior & Luxury 919-602-8489

Michael, great blog! I have re-gifted but, not often. I feel guilty letting a perfectly good item stay stuffed in a drawer or cabinet when someone else can use it. 

Dec 27, 2016 01:14 PM
John Meussner
Mason-McDuffie Mortgage - Fair Oaks, CA
#MortgageMadeEasy Fair Oaks, CA 484-680-4852

I have regifted but usually only from one white elephant party to the next.

Dec 27, 2016 02:22 PM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Re gifting is not to be just a way to get rid of something you do not want.

But if a gift is not useful to you it may be very useful and appreciated by others.

Re gifting should be done with great care.

Dec 27, 2016 05:54 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

I re-gift at times; like John, #74, says,  do so with care. If I happen to receive 3 or 4 boxes of candy, spreading the joy (and the calories!) seems like a wise thing to do.

Dec 27, 2016 06:18 PM
Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Michael,

Candy is something, I might regift. Kinda picky about what I like, so before it sits there for a year or two, better have someone else enjoy it. Now, the pickled herring, I keep mostly to myself. Too good to share, unless the other person really enjoys it too.

Dec 27, 2016 06:48 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thank you everyone for sharing your thoughts on regifting(or not), Seinfeld and the rules of life.    

Dec 28, 2016 08:37 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Love this post. Yes, I have regifted before, usually something I know the recipient wants.

Dec 28, 2016 05:29 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

I wouldn't never re-gift candy!  Share it, yes.  But, it's mine   Other gifts, absolutely.  I re-gift to the Goodwill all the time . . . 

Dec 28, 2016 06:08 PM
Kathryn Acciari
NewFed Mortgage Corp. - Shrewsbury, MA
Mortgage Loan Originator

I overheard a grand debate on whether taking to a holiday dinner the candy that one had received as a gift should be considered re-gifting. The sharer thought she was being generous to offer others the goodies she had received. Her friend thought not.  I am on the side of the sharer. Who needs an entire box of candy to themselves? Share it with friends!

Dec 29, 2016 04:59 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Thank you very much for your comments.  

Dec 30, 2016 10:16 AM
BARB KELLEY
NextHome Realty Center - Cypress, TX
The 'Golden' Experience Team!

Great tips! At 59, I don't need more 'stuff' and being 30 lbs overweight, I re-gift expensive food items and other misc things that others (usually younger people) need and want. And my family and close friends have found we'd rather make memories together rather exchange gifts. Cuts down on stress, we get together and have fun! Happy New Year!

Jan 01, 2017 07:28 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

BARB KELLEY -- making memories and new experiences are the best possible gifts in my opinion.   Add in "less stress" makes any day even more ideal.  Happy New Year to you as well.  

Jan 01, 2017 10:18 AM
Eva B. Liland Century 21 Doug Anderson
Century 21 Doug Anderson - Lancaster, CA
Glad to be of Service 661-714-1643

Hardly ever but I will re-gift this humongous scarf I got this year. Have to wait and think who would actually love it though...

Jan 03, 2017 01:34 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

That makes a lot of sense and is quite considerate too, Eva B. Liland with Century 21 Doug Anderson.

Jan 03, 2017 01:12 PM
Tyra Hatcher Mitchell
Alliance Realty - Portland, ME
Southern Maine Realtor

If you're a New Englander and blessed with Yankee frugality not only have you regifted but you have received regifted items and praised the gifter for the thoughtful sharing.  It seems even more special when a beloved friend offers to share their bounty with you because they know "you'll just love it/ use it/ enjoy it/ never buy it for yourself."  ***Proud regifter since 1975***

Dec 10, 2017 06:39 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

"Thoughtful sharing" is a very nice way of describing the practice -  Tyra Hatcher Mitchell --- it's nice to see/learn new perspectives.   

Dec 10, 2017 06:46 AM
Dave Martin (703) 585-4687
Local Ads Easy - Fairfax, VA
Local Exclusive Leads for Local Businesses

Only very rarely when I knew the person receiving it would truly appreciate the gift.

Dec 21, 2017 05:29 PM