Many years ago, a newlywed young man was sitting on a couch on a hot, humid day,
sipping frozen juice during a visit to his father.As he talked about adult life, marriage,
responsibilities, and obligations, the father thoughtfully stirred the ice cubes in his glass
and cast a clear, sober look on his son."Never forget your friends," he advised, "they will be
come more important as you get older.
""Regardless of how much you love your family and the children you happen to have, you will
always need friends. Remember to go out with them occasionally, do activities with them,
call them ...""What strange advice!" Thought the young man. "I just entered the married
world,I am an adult and surely my wife and the family that we will start will be everything
I need to make sense of my life."Yet he obeyed his father; Kept in touch with his friends
and annually increased their number.
Over the years, he became aware that his father knew what he was talking about.Inasmuch as
time and nature carry out their designs and mysteries on a man, friends were the bulwarks
of his life.After 50 years of life, here is what he learned:Time passes.Life goes on.
The distance separates.Children grow up.Children cease to be children and become independent.
And to the parents it breaks the heart but the children are separated of the parents.Jobs
come and go.Illusions, desires, attraction, sex ... weaken.People do not do what they
should do.The heart breaks.The parents die.Colleagues forget the favors.The races are over.
But, true friends are always there, no matter how long or how many miles they are.
A friend is never more distant than the reach of a need, barring you, intervening in your
favor, waiting for you with open arms or blessing your life.When we started this adventure called
LIFE, we did not know of the incredible joys or sorrows that were ahead. We did not know
how much we would need from each other. Love your parents, take care of your children,
but keep a group of good friends. Dialogue with them but do not impose your criteria.
I wish you and yours a Happy and Prosperous 2017
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