It's All OK Now - Next Stop, Wedding

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Real Estate Agent with Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 BRE# 01494165

It's All OK Now - Next Stop, Wedding

 

This beautiful girl will be my newest daughter-in-law this summer. Actually, she already is because she and my daughter are registered as domestic partners.

But in July, we're having the formal ceremony and epic reception!

But the last couple months have been tough. A routine PAP Smear found evidence of cervical cancer. Less than a month later we were in the hospital coffee shop waiting to see her after a hysterectomy on December 12th.

She was 33 years old!

It was the result of the HPV virus and very scary. 

She came home and seemed to be enjoying the holidays, but on Christmas she started feeling ill. At first we thought it was the flu, but an early morning text asking me to come help her on the 27th made it clear something was wrong. 

The girls live in San Diego which is a little over an hour away. By the time I got there it seemed best to go to the ER. She was admitted with a severe infection and spent the next 5 days recovering in the hospital. Fortunately, she was at Sharp Hospital and her room was private with a nice fold out sofa for my daughter to stay. But not where she wanted to spend New Year's Eve. 

Yesterday, she had a post-op check up and all is well. The results of the biopsy taken during surgery shows they caught it very early and as of now she is cancer-free. It seems that most of the cancer was gathered in the area originally tested and so it seemed far more advanced than it turned out to be. 

We are incredibly grateful!

Now....onto the party, the huge....over-the-top party. Tasting next week! 

Finally, nothing but joy on the horizon!

Comments (9)

Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

HPV is one of the leading markers on cancer these days and with my cancer they also found HPV. The good news is she seems Ok and you will have a healthy and pretty daughter in law. My congratulations on the upcoming wedding that shows the world how two people can love and support each other.

Jan 07, 2017 12:52 PM
Ed Silva
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Much too young to have so much illness.  Hopefully the new year will find her healthy and looking forward to a brighter future

Jan 07, 2017 01:08 PM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Access - Schertz, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

So glad to hear that everything is on the mend and a wedding is upcoming!  Congrats to your daughter and your new daughter in law to be :)!!

Jan 07, 2017 03:01 PM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, CRB, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Karen thank goodness it was discovered and on her way to a healthy and happy life.  Congrats to both of them - and you of course!!  It will be a wedding day with so much meaning and love!!

Jan 07, 2017 03:33 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

The news your daughter had cervical cancer and underwent a hysterectomy at age 33, had to of been very worriesome, Karen.  I'm glad that is behind her, and a wedding is upcoming.  There's lots to celebrate!

Jan 07, 2017 04:32 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Karen- your newest daughter-in-law is lucky to be part of a loving family and a very caring mother-in-law.  I am so glad that she is healthy and about to have the best celebration anyone can  hope for. 

Jan 07, 2017 04:46 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate

Karen,  I have goose bumps all over my body. Feeling thankful it was caught and despite the infection ... all is well now and the wedding and party will follow. 

Many blessings to be counted here. 

Jan 07, 2017 06:32 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster REALTORS®, Gainesville, VA - Bristow, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

So glad your daughter-in-law (soon to be so officially) is going to be okay.  That must have been quite a scare.

Jan 08, 2017 02:25 PM
Ryan Huggins - Thousand Oaks, CA
https://HugginsHomes.com - Thousand Oaks, CA
Residential Real Estate and Investment Properties

I'm glad she's cancer free now and over the hurdles.  That's a tough place to be at.  Glad your daughter was able to be there with her, there can be complications visiting when you're a domestic partner, especially in the ER.

 

Enjoy the wedding!

Feb 09, 2017 06:59 PM

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