"Go With the Flow"- What Does That Even Mean?

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The best way I can illustrate my understating of this common saying is though words of my mother, Carole Provenzale. 

She said, think of "going with the flow" as planting seeds (ideas). After planting your seeds and knowing you have done everything possible in your power (taking action) to help them grow, and eventually the seeds that are ready to be harvest will crop up. I could not comprehend what she was talking about until about 4 years ago.

I began to understand "Going with the flow" requires patience, creative thinking and taking action as needed while also being keen on knowing when to step back and not force the issue (what ever that may be). To have faith in the process and be ready to harvest those opportunities when they presents themselves. Going with the flow means you are in constant motion of learning about yourself and learning how to navigate the goals and challenges you have created.

Going with the flow is discovering your own universal rhythm. This is my interpretation of what it means to got with the flow based of passed down wisdom and experience.



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Laura Cerrano is a second-generation Certified New York City Feng Shui Consultant Expert. As a full-time Feng Shui consultant, Laura provides bicoastal consultations and workshops for residential, commercial, real estate developments, Fortune 500 companies and healing faculties. In addition, Laura is a resident teacher at the Metropolitan Institute of Design in Syosset, NY. She has been featured in highly respected publications and TV networks such as Bravo's "Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen," PBS, CBC Television, BBC Radio and The New York Times. 



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No sense in fighting with the wind-go with the flow is good advice.

Jan 15, 2017 07:22 PM #1
Lou Ludwig
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Your mother was a wise lady.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 15, 2017 08:07 PM #2
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
BVO Luxury Group @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Serving Scottsdale, Phoenix and Maricopa County AZ

I remember your mother from the early days in the 'Rain Laura Cerrano - go with the flow - but make your own flow!

Jan 16, 2017 04:57 AM #3
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

hmmm...sometimes it feels as if life is like a big beach ball blowing down the beach...it is going to do exactly what it wants to...so just enjoy the ride!

Jan 16, 2017 08:24 AM #4
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Laura - this is very well written.  It can be applied to many areas of life.

Jan 17, 2017 10:39 AM #5
Fred Griffin
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

   I can paddle my canoe upstream, which can be difficult and exhausting.  Or, I can go downstream with the flow.  The journey is much more enjoyable when I let the river carry me along; with just a bit of guidance and steering from me.

Jan 17, 2017 05:54 PM #6
Nick & Trudy Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtors, Philly Main Line

A good explanation, I like Fred's analogy of the river and guiding the canoe but allowing the river to provide the impetus and energy for the journey.

Jan 17, 2017 06:06 PM #7
Jeff Dowler, CRS
Solutions Real Estate - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude - Carlsbad


I think that's a pretty wise way to think about "going with the flow." So often we can do anything anyhow so why obsess about it!


Jan 17, 2017 06:41 PM #8
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Hi Laura.  I've always thought that it was easy to go with the flow.

Jan 19, 2017 04:30 AM #9
Sondra Meyer:
Star View Real Estate - Colorado Springs, CO
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This is actually VERY thought provoking.   It will probably end up being my question that I ponder on today as I'm driving about.    I had always thought of that saying as try to get along with people in general.   No need to upset someone needlessly.   You have me rethinking it.   I liked the comment above where someone mentioned your mom talking about also making your own flow.



Jan 19, 2017 05:15 AM #10
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
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Yes, going with the flow means to just take it easy and let the current take you on it's course, and don't try to fight the current which will only wear you down.  Go with the flow and seize the opportunities that come your way... like a life raft or a log to cling to.  Then you will have the strength and ability to get out of the water and not drown!  lol

Jan 20, 2017 11:49 AM #11
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