George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Jeff after living in a home for many years it is very hard to put emotions aside and treat things like a business transaction, BUT no matter how hard it is it has to be done.

Jan 24, 2017 01:47 PM
Belinda Spillman
Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado - Aurora, CO
Colorado Living!

Very good advice.  Sellers need to put on another hat when getting ready to sell.  They should enter through the front door and tour the house as a buyer would.

Jan 24, 2017 01:49 PM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Jeff - This is excellent advice. It's something we tell our sellers all of the time, and now we find ourselves struggling with it as our home is on the market. It's hard to embrace that mindset, as our current experience reminds us, but it's the right approach.

Jan 24, 2017 01:55 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

If yoiu are selling a house you have made the detachment that many people hold onto.

Jan 24, 2017 03:39 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Jeff, this is a must read post by every home seller. Once they make the decision to sell, their home becomes a house, I look at it as a business transaction.

Jan 24, 2017 04:26 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I try and differentiate that for my sellers - the difference between house and home. Home is what you MAKE of a house!

Jan 24, 2017 05:54 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi George Souto  - it definitely can be a hard thing to do, even for those of us in the business who deal with this daily. The emotions can really get in the way sometimes.

Belinda Spillman  - absolutely. And I always talk with sellers about that. Some find it easier to do than others.

Jeff

Jan 24, 2017 08:57 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Dick Greenberg 

Thank YOU for the kind words. I wish you the best of luck. I have been through a purchase and sale 10 times (primary homes) and it is always a good learning experience. And it seems that while we can give great advice it becomes more challenging following it ourselves. Selling gives us a great appreciation for what our clients are going through. Hope all goes well!

Jeff

Jan 24, 2017 09:00 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

William Feela  - it's important to make that detachment!

Good point Beth Atalay  - it really is a good way to think about it.

Jeff

Jan 24, 2017 10:19 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Debe Maxwell 

I always talk with sellers about this as well. It's often a perspective they haven't thought about.

Jeff

Jan 24, 2017 10:20 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
Best Connections Realty, Inc. - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824 CRS, ABR, GRI,ePR

Jeff Dowler What an informative post this is.  I think Debe Maxwell summed it up best - "Home is what you make of a house."  

Your ideas of uncluttering and emotional attachment are so important for sellers to understand.  Buyers come in and are looking at the essentials - layout, flooring, kitchens, baths, etc.  They can be easily sidetracked by photos, collections of anything, etc.

Jan 25, 2017 04:00 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Jeff... this is exactly what I tell my sellers... once they decide to sell their home it becomes just a house for sale--basically a commodity that hopefully is special enough for another buyer.

Jan 25, 2017 04:57 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Jeff Dowler ,

Well said..I always try and tell my sellers we now are marketing a house which is a product to sell and we need to position in the market place as the best buy available at this time.

Jan 25, 2017 06:00 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Elyse Berman  - Thanks for the compliment. These are tough issues for sellers but they can really get in the way of a sale

Hi Nina Hollander  - that is so true. It's an important discussion to have I think

Dorie Dillard  And I bet they listen to you on this!

Jeff

Jan 25, 2017 05:56 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Jeff

An outstanding post . .  . That's right on the money.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 25, 2017 08:07 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Lou Ludwig 

Thank you for the kind words. Much appreciate your stopping by.

Jeff

Jan 26, 2017 03:55 PM
Mick Michaud
Distinctly Texas Lifestyle Properties, LLC Office:682/498-3107 - Granbury, TX
Your Texas Lifestyle is Here!

Thinking like a seller.  If they don't get it, one great way to get them to do this is to take them to view open houses.  And get them to notice the change in their mindset.  Hopefully, you'll get the "Aha" moment from them.

Feb 24, 2017 06:29 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good Morning Jeff - you spend time making a house your home and then you have to deconstruct that when you sell.  It is tough to put the emotions aside but necessary to get it sold.

Mar 11, 2017 05:13 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Grant Schneider 

It can be a tough thing to do, but I think it's pretty important in order to do what needs to be done. Thanks for stopping by!

Jeff

Mar 11, 2017 07:29 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

Some of my marketing pieces actually say "It's not your home now, it's a product that must be strategically marketed."

It's so important for sellers to really understand this. Buyer are looking for a home....THEIR home, not yours!

Mar 13, 2017 11:03 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Sharon Tara 

I think it can be difficult for some sellers to understand this, and even more to act accordingly. Thanks for your perspective - no doount you run across this all the time.

Hope things are not TOO wintry there - sounds like a pretty ugly storm coming in! Be Safe!!

Jeff

Mar 13, 2017 11:19 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

Great post Jeff, love the angle you came from and you put it so very well.

Mar 13, 2017 12:34 PM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

Yes, this is such a great tip. Thinking of our home as a structure can help take the emotion out of the process.

Mar 15, 2017 03:25 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks Nick & Trudy Vandekar  - selling can be tough for anyone but some homeowners seem to have a harder time putting themselves into SELL mode effectively than others. It's especially difficult when you haven't sold before or haven't for some time. And the seller's market makes some think it's not necessary!

Jeff

Mar 15, 2017 08:10 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks Kat Palmiotti 

It's something I talk with seller's about and it seems to make sense to them, even though in reality it may be hard to do. The emotions can really get in the way!

Jeff

Mar 15, 2017 08:12 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co. Notary Services, retired Realtor

Excellent post Jeff Dowler , I can only remember one house I was eager to leave and even at that I loved the house but I could not wait to get out of the town it was located in.

Mar 16, 2017 01:52 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Bob "RealMan" Timm 

I think even if you want to move it's still tough to do everything that needs to be done and not let emotions get in the way, at least for most people. I've had a couple of houses where, while I was not necesairly eager to leave I had no regreats about the decision. And one I wish we never had sold, even now 12 years later!!

Jeff

Mar 16, 2017 02:47 PM