3 Things You Should Never Say When Negotiating On A Home

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Mortgage and Lending with Benchmark Mortgage NMLS# 247026

Buyer's Remorse: 3 Things You Should Never Say When You're Negotiating to Buy a HomeThe prospect of finding the home you've always dreamed of can be such an exciting time that it's easy to forget all about the process of negotiating. However, it's important to keep a few things to yourself when it comes to the art of making the deal. If you're currently searching for the right place and preparing to sign on the dotted line, here are a few phrases it's best to avoid.

Declaring It Your Dream Home

There's nothing wrong with finding the ideal home and getting enthusiastic about the prospect of owning it. But it's very important not to say too much to the homeowner or the homeowner's agent. While it's certainly welcome to be a polite home viewer and mention some of the features you like, giving away too much will inform the homeowner of just how much leverage they have with you. This can mean they may request a higher price since they know how interested you are.

What You're Willing To Pay

It might seem up front and honest to declare the price range that you're willing to spend on a home. But if a homeowner knows what your limitations are, they'll likely push you past them. While you may be willing to pay more for a home you truly love, it's important that you're investing a reasonable amount into the home and not paying much over market value. Instead of being too forward, keep your offer to yourself until it's on the table.

Critiquing Their Price Point

If you're truly interested in a home, it can be pretty difficult to realize that it's not within your price range. However, it's unnecessary to mention this to the buyer as it's entirely possible that the price is comparable to other homes of a similar style in the neighborhood. After all, there's always a chance that the home will stay on the market and drop down in value, and this may be the point at which you can get your foot in the door.

When it comes to buying a home, the process of negotiating can be fraught with stress for many people. However, it's important to keep your price range and your impressions to yourself so that you can get the best deal possible. Benchmark Mortgage

Comments (9)

Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I don't have a problem with people saying these things as long as it's a private conversation with buyers and their own agent.  But totally agree you never say them to the other side (agent of seller or to the seller)

Feb 14, 2017 09:57 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Diane

Well said! These are fine to discuss with your trusted buyer agent but certainly you, as the buyer, do not want to given away any information that can harm your ability to negotiate.

Jeff

Feb 14, 2017 10:03 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Diane,  I so agree with your blog,  If sellers are home, it can be a big mistake to discuss with them.

 

Feb 14, 2017 11:13 AM
Mike Bjork
Evolve Bank & Trust - Redondo Beach, CA

In other words, make sure you have a great Poker face! ;)  Well said, Diane!

Feb 14, 2017 03:43 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

Those are excellent points to make about playing your cards closer to your chest when it comes to negotiating on a home, Diane!

Feb 14, 2017 04:18 PM
Debra B Albert, PA - Keyes Realty
Keyes Realty Treasure Coast, 34986 - Port St Lucie, FL
Ron and Debbie 772.708.3292

Great Blog Diane - On point - I concur! Deb

Feb 15, 2017 06:21 AM
Curtis Van Carter
Better Homes & Gardens Wine Country Group - Yountville, CA
Your Napa Valley Broker Extraordinaire

Diane

Thank you for the follow, cheers cvc

Feb 18, 2017 06:31 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I hope home buyers will read this post and learn from it. Thank you for sharing 

Mar 19, 2017 07:51 PM
Kathleen Luiten
Resort and Second-Home Specialist - Princeville, HI
Kauai Luxury Ocean Home Sales

You named my top three no-no's for buyers commenting in the presence of the sellers. It's one reason I avoid having those parties in the same room. Great post!

Mar 19, 2017 09:26 PM

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