I had a listing appointment this morning that has really stuck with me all day. First all I can say is that I really feel for the guy and would like to help him but I am not sure I can.
The neighborhood was in bad shape but the house was 10 times worse. I approach the door and there is a sign that says "Warning: Flea Infestation!" I stood there debating where or not I should even continue and go in the house and decided I should. I told myself that I agreed to meet with this guy about selling his home and thats what I should do.
I knock and after a few minutes he opens the door and it is worst than I expect. My potential client looks awful and is really struggling. He is emaciated and his eyes do not seem to like the light. He invites me in and we walk to the kitchen. The home is filthy, dirty and packed with everything imaginable. His large dog is friendly, smells and is covered with fleas.
Basically his wife died a year ago from breast cancer and he is broke and needs to sell the home. He has no money and can barely afford to pay his bills. I am sure he can't afford care for himself not to mention the dog. He speech was slow and he struggled with his thoughts. I could smell booze and beer and I noticed track marks on his arm. Unfortunately he is not named on the deed. The probate court has ordered him to share all proceeds 50 percent with her 4 children. He says the children did not care for her and basically disowned her. (I talked to a daughter later and she confirmed the story). They all want to sell the home but the children just want their share from what I can tell.
The big issue is the man's well being. I was only there 45 minutes and left covered in fleas. I bolted home where I undressed in the garage, carried my clothes to the washing maching and quickly showered. I felt guilty about the visit because all I could think about was leaving! The smell was intense and the whole situation bothered me.
I have left my father-in-law a message about the man and what I can do. My father-in-law is a retired social worker who was the county director of DSS in my area. I am not sure there is anything they can do or if I should do anything. My concern is the man's well being. I am not even thinking of the home yet.
So my question is what would you do? I am going to talk to my father-in-law and make my decision. Should I call DSS or tell the gentlemen I am unable to help or what?
Thanks for your hep.
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