Do You Have a Problem or an Opportunity?

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Tammy Adams ~ Realtor / Podcaster "...once you make that switch to seeing every problem as an opportunity, you will make better decisions. They are more thought out and they aren’t emotional decisions."

Right on target - and - re-blog!

Original content by Tammy Adams ~ Realtor / Podcaster BR645115000

Your View Point Might Be Hurting You Ability to Resolve

 

In real estate, it seems that we are always running into problems. It is rare that a deal goes through without some type of hiccup. There are agents that can’t handle these problems and others handle them extremely well. So, what is the difference between these two agents?

 

I’m a big believer that is it due to how they each view the situation.

One only sees the problem, the other sees the opportunity.

 

LESSONS LEARNED EARLY ON ABOUT OPPORTUNITIES VS PROBLEMS

Some of you know, that I spent 22 years with Home Depot and when I was a young department head, I had this problem vs opportunity concept drilled into my head. While I heard this saying often, the first time I actually “learned” the lesson, I was running the ceiling fan department. Not only was I in charge of the ceiling fan inventory, but also the regular oscillating fans. Being in southern California where we don’t always have air conditioning, we sold the crap out of these fans.

 

Now keep in mind, I was in a department of 4 people. Myself, an older gentleman, this young girl and a guy who felt he was always stuck doing the heavy work. LOL. The problem was, with so few people, we rarely overlapped and often worked alone. Normally, I knew what freight was coming, so I could plan and schedule accordingly.

 

So one day, I’m working and all of a sudden pallet after pallet of oscillating fans starts to show up. Big ones, little ones, square ones, you name it. The entire area was being over taken by these fans. If I recall, it was something like 46 pallets of fans.  All I could think about was what the heck was I going to do with all of these fans?

 

My assistant manager just happened to be there walking the plumbing department with that department supervisor. Now, keep in mind, I think I was 21 or 22 at the time, so in a panic I go up to him and tell him we have a HUGE problem. I’m sure I was rattling off how horrible it was, and how I had no idea where to put all this stuff and I was by myself, and going on and on and on. He just stood there staring at me.

 

 

Then calmly goes, Tammy, you don’t have a problem. You have an opportunity. Now, this wasn’t the first time he had told me this as I mentioned. However, I also remember thinking, you may think it is an opportunity, but to me it is a big Freaking problem. LOL

 

THE LESSON LEARNED

While I had no belief there was solution to this huge, crazy 40 pallet problem, what happened next, taught me two valuable lessons that day. My assistant manager, gathered a few other employees from around the store, came up with a gameplan on where all the fans would go and then we all built some end caps, changed out the seasonal swing area and made a few other homes throughout the store. Needless to say, by the end of the day every single pallet was taken care of.

 

So, what were those two lessons?

Lesson #1- A Problem is Like a Puzzle to Be Solved

Even after hearing my assistant manager say many times that we didn’t have a problem, but we had an opportunity, I never quite believed in my heart that this was true. However, after seeing how this huge problem went away, I started to realize there was something to his saying. Each problem really was just a puzzle to be solved. 

 

Now, when I’m faced with a problem, both personally or professionally, I look at them differently. Since I love puzzles, I start to think of the various solutions and how they might play out. I’ve been doing this for the past 30 years now and I realize, how critical this skill has been to my success through the years.

 

So, what was the second lesson that I learned that day?

 

Lesson #2 – Always Remain Calm During a Crisis

Remember how I was saying I was freaking out when I was talking to my manager and he just stood there calmly and helped me realize that we had an opportunity to solve this problem? His calmness and his certainty helped me calm down and believe that we would fix the problem.

 

I realized that in order for me to become a better leader, I needed to learn that skill. I needed to always remain calm during any storm that might present itself. And you know what? I think I’ve done a pretty darn good job on this one as well. Want to know what the trick is? Realizing that every problem was an opportunity. It gives you a calmness that everything will be ok.

 

DO YOU SEE PROBLEMS or OPPORTUNITIES?

So let me ask you? When confronted with problem, how do you see it? When your employees come to you with problems, how to handle their emotional request for help? When a loved one calls you up in a panic and doesn’t know how to handle a problem they have, are you the calm one that helps them realize everything will be ok?

 

Do you believe in your heart that you will find a solution?  Do you see it as a puzzle to be solved? If the answer is no to any of these questions, don’t you think it is time that you changed your approach to problems?

 

Trust me, once you make that switch to seeing every problem as an opportunity, you will make better decisions. They are more thought out and they aren’t emotional decisions.  You might not always like the solution but you will have the most well thought out answer.

 

So, my challenge to each of you is to step back and next time you are faced with a problem situation, pay attention to how you not only view the problem, but how you are handling it. Are you calm, cool and collected? Are you looking at the problem as something to be solved?

 

By the way, if you do see problems as opportunities, that is freaking awesome. Hopefully you are making it your mission, just like I have, to help others master this same skill just like my old mentor, Tim did all those years ago.

 

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Originally Shared on my Podcast – The Local Small Business Coach

 

 

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Tammy Adams
Realtor®, Associate Broker, GRI (Graduate REALTOR® Institute), SRS (Seller Representative Specialist), ABR® (Accredited Buyer's Representative), ePro

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If you are considering a Traditional or Short Sale of your home in Phoenix, Scottsdale or any location in Maricopa County Arizona, you owe it to yourself to talk with Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty to determine whether Tony and Suzanne Marriott are the best real estate Brokers in the Phoenix and Scottsdale metropolitan area to help you with the Successful Sale of your home.

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Comments (10)

Larry Brewer - Benchmark Realty llc
Benchmark Realty LLc - Nashville, TN

One of my favorite discussions with new agents. I blame part of this on our media and the amount of drama that they try to create at every opportunity. We shouldn't have drama in our jobs, it's bad for our clients by causing a lot of stress that they shouldn't associate with the process. With the exception of credit problems, I haven't had any situation that I couldn't evercome in my 15 years in the business. Calm down, our jobs are not that hard.

Apr 13, 2017 05:38 AM
Randy Hilman REALTOR® Associate Broker
Randy Hilman Homes - Moultonborough, NH
Guide & Mentor to Home Buyers & Sellers

Thank you Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers for reblogging this "mindset" subject.  We learned in sales training a long time ago that adversity in any circumstance is an opportunity to build relationships. People generally are forgiving of problems and mistakes.  It's how well we respond to them that makes the difference.  Tammy Adams' piece aptly illustrates how mindset impacts the outcomes of all adverse scenarios.  My take away is the impact of mindset on customer relations.  Long before I was in sales, I learned a valuable lesson from my then employer, country music star Barbara Mandrell, who told me after one of my heated arguments with her father, "in our family," she said, "father is right even when we all know he's wrong."  Sounds similiar to what old-school sales people used to say about customers.  Cheers.

Apr 13, 2017 05:46 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Tony and Suzanne. Tammy makes some great points. Enjoy your day!

Apr 13, 2017 05:47 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Agreed Larry Brewer - Benchmark Realty llc - thanks for stopping by with a comment!

 

Apr 13, 2017 09:10 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

You are most welcome Randy Hilman, Associate Broker, GRI, CBR - thanks for a detailed and interesting comment!

Apr 13, 2017 09:11 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

She does indeed Wayne Martin - thanks for stopping by with a comment!

 

Apr 13, 2017 09:11 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

This is a wonderful post and focuses on looking for the possibilities not the obstacles. Have a great day Tony.

Apr 14, 2017 05:35 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Tony and Suzanne.  Great choice for a re-blog and the right way to look at situations.

Apr 15, 2017 04:41 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

It does indeed - you too Debbie Reynolds - thanks for stopping by with a comment!

 

Apr 15, 2017 09:57 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Thanks Gabe Sanders and - thanks for stopping by with a comment!

 

Apr 15, 2017 09:57 AM

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