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Moms, Girlfriends and Gab - the 13,000 word gap we fill for each other!

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     On this Mother's Day I, of course, am so thankful for my four kids and for my own great mom, and my mother-in-law, and the rest of my family. But I'm also thankful for all the moms who I'm honored to call my friend. Without these women in my life, I just don't know what I'd do.

     Girlfriendology celebrates that amazing bond. It's a wonderful site, and the founder, Debba Haupert, embraces her inner daisy as much as I do. (See her website, and the cover of my book.) We just did a podcast talking about the importance of friends, and much much more.

And why do we need girlfriends so desperately, especially in these frightening economic times? As I learned during the recent Marketing to Women conference, we women personalize and internalize stress. And when we worry, we connect. (Men isolate.) And one of our favorite forms of connection? Talking. Women say 20,000 words a day, while men speak 7,000 words. And that's just out loud!! Add in email and well, you've got the picture.

     So if you're feeling stressed, gab with a friend. It's the best therapy. Happy Mother's Day to all of you great friends out there.

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Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Lovely, Kaira!  Thank you!  I'll check all of these out. 

I love the name "Girlfriendology"!  Very adequate. 

I love reading your blogs and I'm glad to see them here on the Optimist board!

May 11, 2008 02:19 PM
Kaira Sturdivant Rouda
Real Living - Malibu, CA

Thanks so much!!

I love bveing here!

Optimists rule :-)

May 12, 2008 11:52 AM
Jim Hirschhorn
Real Living Real Estate Solutions - Orlando, FL
GRI, Real Living - Orlando

When I first read this, I was thinking about equal time for guys. I curiously went to www.boyfriendology.com and the bells started going off from the censors. (kidding). There isn't such a website, (not that there's anything wrong with that). Having lived with a "girlfriend for the past 8 years, I do truly believe that women have different bonds than men do. The Venus and Mars thing is all well and good but if you look at the inherant differences between the sexes, it tells you a great deal about relationships.

Showing homes to customers, it is always fun to pick up on each couple's dynamics. I am quickly able to tell who is in charge, who has more clothes and even who let's who walk in the door 1st!

May 13, 2008 03:05 AM
Mirela Monte
Buyers' Choice Realty - North Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach Real Estate

Kaira:  I would love to see some more of your blogs on our Optimist Board!  Whenever you have the time, would you mind finding some Optimist material and posting it here?  We would love to have it!

Jun 07, 2008 05:35 PM