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DO YOU FACILITATE THE DEAL?

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People have a perception of a salesperson as a pushy person trying to convince someone to buy something he or she does not need.

But now what is your perception of your doctor when you have a problem or a pain? If you are going because of stress, anxiety, or pain you are looking for the doctor to relieve your pain and solve your problem. This is the exact opposite image that you might feel about sales? Is it the profession of sales or is it something else? It is something else and here is why.  Your doctor facilitate the solution to your pain or your problem.

If you visit your doctor because you have a pain in your back the doctor does a complete examination and asks you many questions including, “Where does it Hurt? How long has it hurt? What activity were you doing?” and so on.  Your doctor acts as a facilitator.  She may then suggest some of the possible causes such as a torn tendon. Then she asks if you have experienced unusual activity that might be related to your pain. She is helping you discover the root cause of your pain so that you will understand the need for a prescribed treatment. No surprise. These were your expectations when you came in. You did not expect her to greet you at the door and say, “You are in luck today because we are running a special on back surgery. You would be running the other way if you heard that.  Why not follow your doctor's example and  be a sales doctor.

In real estate you are facilitating the deal. You are assisting people with solving their needs. Doesn’t that make much more sense than trying to sell your client something. You will be more successful in the role facilitator or even of assistant buyer.

In the past salespeople were taught to concentrate on making the sale and closing the sale. Since today’s buyers are no longer willing to be sold do you wonder why you experience resistance when you use this method? Instead of being the salesperson you should become the doctor or the assistant buyer. You are assisting your prospect in determining her wants and needs and, only then, are you offering solutions. Ask questions like a doctor diagnosing their needs.

Listen to your prospect’s wants and needs. Then ask some REWARD questions. For example, how will this new home improve your family's quality of life?  What are some of the aspects of a new home that would do that?

Next ask some CONSEQUENCE questions. For example, what will happen if you fail to move to another home?  How will your family plans be affected?  Will the smaller space work ok with your growing family?

 

By alternating questions, you are assisting your prospect in diagnosing pain and deciding on the right solution. Congratulations. You are an assistant buyer.  Go to our web site for a similar post titled HOW TO ASSUME THE ROLE OF ASSISTANT BUYER.

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Comments(67)

Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Grant

As the real estate we have to successfully facilitate all the moving  parts of the transaction.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jul 04, 2017 07:01 PM
John Dotson
Preferred Properties of Highlands, Inc. - Highlands, NC - Highlands, NC
The experience to get you to the other side!

Grant, helping someone see the forest from the trees is just good business and doing what we should be trained to do.

Makes my skin crawl when someone refers to me as a salesman!

Jul 04, 2017 07:48 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Great post and yes, Grant, I'm a facilitator (a.k.a. Project Manager).  You can't push a home on a buyer; instead you ask the proper questions and LISTEN to them...then, introduce them to the perfect home!  

Jul 04, 2017 08:09 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Congratulations on your feature. I am going to try to incorporate more questions into my consultations

Jul 05, 2017 03:25 AM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

When I built my niche with Senior Adults, I quickly understood that they do not like salespeople.

They want a "facilitator" or as I call it a "project manager". 

I find that for all ages that this is a "best practice".

Thanks for sharing.

Jul 05, 2017 05:55 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Love this post Grant, none of us likes to be sold to...but we all tend to like to buy and a facilitator who helps us gets referred to friends and family.

Jul 05, 2017 07:14 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Sham - it is a lot less stressful being an assistant buyer.

Lou - yes, and there are plenty of moving parts.

John - good way to put it.  Helping people see the forest from the trees.

Debe - that is a good description--project manager.

Lise - incorporating more questions is a good idea.

John - project manager sounds perfect.

Lise - 

 

Jul 05, 2017 07:40 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Nick and Trudy - thank you.  That is right, no one likes to be sold. 

Jul 05, 2017 11:00 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

What a wonderful post Grant Schneider this is the kind of sales person I pride myself in being . I want my clients to be happy and make the right decision for them

Jul 05, 2017 02:19 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Grant very wise words indeed. Forcing sombody to buy a home they aren't happy with makes no sense to me. The point is to create long term, trusting relationships - not make a sale. We've built our business on trust and honesty and it's a joy to work with our folks!

Jul 05, 2017 05:13 PM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

We definitely facilitate deals. My clients often ask my opinion, which I'm willing to give, but I always remind them that I'm not paying the mortgage. So, it's really their call. I only interject when it is a really bad deal. 

Jul 05, 2017 06:34 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Good post as always Grant, sales have always been easy for me since I look at myself as a problem solver filling the needs and desires of those I serve.

Jul 05, 2017 10:57 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hannah - When you do it this way there is no buyers remorse.

Anna Banana - relationships come first and they come from building trust.

Mike - it is important to point out that it is their decision.

Bob - that is certainly why.  Being a problem solver takes off the pressure.

Jul 06, 2017 05:49 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

This is an amazing concept and post, Grant Schneider ... I would SO welcome having this relationship with more clients.  Perhaps introducing this mindset/advice into my conversations would prove helpful ... I'm certainly going to give it a try!  Thank you ...

Gene

Jul 06, 2017 12:08 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Gene - once you do this it removes pressure and you start to enjoy what you are doing much more.

Jul 06, 2017 01:31 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Grant -- what a great post and the approach is much effective in getting to the truth.  

Jul 07, 2017 08:44 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Michael - thank you very much.  I does help get to the truth.

Jul 08, 2017 07:47 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

I've always considered myself a facilitator instead of a SALESperson, because when you put the clients needs first instead of your own, you are truly focused on them. If you do that, you will not come across as pushy or trying to "sell" them.

Jul 11, 2017 07:00 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Grant Schneider 
One of the best things about AR is how much we can learn. And, when I go to one of your posts, I know I will learn something valuable! "Assistant Buyer" - gotta love it! All the best - Lynn

Jul 12, 2017 03:16 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Pat Starnes -   yes you are exactly correct.  Being a facilitator means focusing on others.

Lynn B. Friedman - thank you so much. I am flatter and appreciate that.

Jul 15, 2017 10:00 AM