Don’t be an Ostrich When It Comes to Door County Real Estate

Real Estate Agent with Door County Realty Inc.

Ostriches and Egos: How We Create Our Own Realities

     Information avoidance is a common human tendency. If you are looking to buy or sell Door County real estate, that avoidance could be costly.

     Don't be an OstrichIt doesn’t seem to matter that we’re living in a hyper information age. We listen to news that supports our point of view, avoid information we don’t want to hear, and convince ourselves we have the facts we need in order to make informed decisions—even when we don’t.  Realtors have more information available to them about market conditions than we ever have—information we should share with our clients.  

     In an article detailing recent research conducted by Carnegie Mellon University (CMU), Shilo Rea explains that people “are remarkably adept at selectively directing their attention to information that affirms what they believe or that reflects favorably upon them, and at forgetting information they wish were not true.”  This can be so easy to do, we want to tell the client what they want to hear, we want to hear what we want to hear!

     In other words, we tend to create our own reality—because we like it that way. We choose what we want to believe and ignore what we don’t. Apparently, ignorance is bliss after all. Writer Chris Fleisher notes, in an article for the American Economic Association, “This behavior drives economists nuts. Ideally, we should absorb all the information we can get so that we can make rational decisions. But it doesn’t work that way.”

     In Psychology Today, Alain Samson calls it “the ostrich effect.” Referring to the work of the CMU researchers, he writes: “Information avoidance has immediate benefits for people if it prevents the negative (usually psychological) consequences of knowing the information.” And while we all like to think of ourselves as savvy information consumers, we may be more like ostriches than we’d like to admit. Even more embarrassing, we’re probably egoists too. Says Samson: “Information avoidance is particularly pertinent when ego threat is involved.”  A seller who thinks their house is best no matter what, a buyers who consider themselves expert negotiators, and Realtors who make the transaction all about THEM instead of what’s right for the seller or buyerour egos, no matter who we are do get in the way. 

     I’ll always put my ego aside, and instead of avoiding the facts and inevitable I’ll face the challenges of a transaction head-on—and that will mean a win for the sellers and buyers I represent.

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Lisa Bieri
Door County Realty Inc.

I am a full time Broker Associate with Door County Realty, Inc. in Fish Creek and represent both sellers and buyers.  My Mission is to provide real estate excellence to my clients, customers, fellow Door County Realtors and other real estate professionals is my hallmark and I truly believe that “If I am not fired with enthusiasm…I can be fired, with enthusiasm”. 

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I am active in my local community serving on the Sevastopol School Board, the Land Use Committee for the town of Jacksonport, and am a past president and director for the Door County Board of Realtors.  I live in Jacksonport with my husband Bob, with our three children and their spouses (and grandchildren) living not more than two hours away.  I am a lucky person!

If you are a seller, I promise to aggressively market your property to all buyer prospects and Realtors, when we have an offer I will negotiate to preserve the equity in your investment.  As a buyer, I will always be focused on what’s important to you until we find that perfect Door County home or property 

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