Building Relationships with Birthday Greetings

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Building Relationships with Birthday Greetings

 

If you are among those who systematically mail out birthday cards with your personal messages to your circles of contacts, I encourage you to continue that practice. 

For the rest of us who have imperfect records on birthdays and fail to send out those cards and notes, there is another approach that is easy to use and involves no cost other than a few minutes of time each day.

One of my initial activities each morning when I go to my computer is to send birthday greetings to my friends on Facebook. Go to Events, then go to Birthdays and then to Today's Birthdays for the daily list. Make this activity a daily habit.

One measure of your success with this Facebook activity is the number of birthday greetings that you receive on your birthday. For example, last year I received over 500 birthday messages on Facebook. This year, I received over 600 birthday messages. I make is a point to acknowledge each message that I receive. 

Try these activities as an element of building your social network and meaningful relationships.

 

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Roy Kelley, Associate Broker

Realty Group Referrals (Retired from RE/MAX Realty Group)

6 Montgomery Village Ave., Suite 200

Gaithersburg, MD 20879

Main Office:  301-258-7757 (You will not reach me at this number)

Send an email message if you need my phone numbers. I will be happy to recommend a real estate professional if you are moving to the area.

Comments (19)

Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Realty - Topsfield, MA - Georgetown, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Roy Kelley 

First, what a great shot. You could design your own card series using the pictures you take. You are correct about building relationships.

Aug 31, 2017 04:11 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Glad it works fr you Roy. We all have our own ways of reaching out to others on social media...

Aug 31, 2017 04:14 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
Exceptional Agents, Outstanding Results

Good morning Roy.

I get notification when someone has that special day.  I usually wish them a Happy Birthday, usually that is.  I know I've missed some of them

Aug 31, 2017 04:26 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Roy... I'm big on congratulating people on Facebook or LinkedIn or AR on important dates like birthdays and anniversaries. But for anyone for whom I have a mailing address who is in my data base, they also receive a personalized card each year.

Aug 31, 2017 04:45 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Thanks for sharing how to find those birthdays on Facebook. I make a point to ask for birthday and anniversary dates a closing while the other side Issigning something 

Aug 31, 2017 04:55 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for your comments. It is always good to hear from you.

Aug 31, 2017 05:12 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Roy. Don't think I am as conscientious as you but have been getting better. Enjoy your day! 

Aug 31, 2017 05:37 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Roy, I have a system in place each month, and send birthday wishes to past clients, and have for the past 20+ years.

Aug 31, 2017 06:27 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

This is where a CRM with an action plan is very helpful and of course you need the dates.

Aug 31, 2017 06:38 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing your successful business practices.

Aug 31, 2017 07:00 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Aug 31, 2017 07:09 AM
Brian England
Vacasa - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Facebook has definitely helped out with birthday greetings and when I see that a friend is having a birthday, it reminds me to call or text message them!

Aug 31, 2017 12:20 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

Birthday greetings are usually a welcome gift to those who receive them.  Great idea, Roy!

Aug 31, 2017 01:01 PM
Anita Clark
Coldwell Banker Access Realty ~ 478.960.8055 - Warner Robins, GA
Realtor - Homes for Sale in Warner Robins GA

Roy: You really do understand that being social on social media pays dividends. Kudos to you.

Aug 31, 2017 03:18 PM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning to all. Have a great day and an outstanding weekend.

Sep 01, 2017 04:14 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Sep 02, 2017 07:17 AM
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Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Sep 04, 2017 04:40 AM
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Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

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Sep 07, 2017 04:59 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

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Sep 08, 2017 05:45 AM

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