What makes a house a home? It's memories!

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Real Estate Agent 0225218019

Have you ever moved into a house and felt out of place? It was like something was not quite right?  I remember moving into a house that had been built to our specifications. I had even drawn up the original draft of the floor plan on a computer program. 

 

The first night in the house I could not sleep and spent a long time wandering around feeling almost lost.  The next day I realized that the house just didn't feel like our home. 

 

A few years later when faced with having to move to another state, I could barely stand the thought of leaving that home.

 

 

So how did that strange place that seemed so unwelcoming on that first night become the home I didn't want to leave?   My family and I lived in it for several years and made memories. 

 

When I look at photos of that house now, I remember the good times shared there as if they happened yesterday! 

 

So it occurred to me one day that a house is not a home until you make memories in it. A few years ago I was taking a continuing education class that was being led by a standing president of the Virginia Association of REALTORS®. 

 

During the class I made that statement; he looked at me as if a giant light bulb had just gone off in his head.  Then he asked me if he could use that quote. 

 

So if you move into a new house and it just doesn't feel like home yet, remember: A house is not a home until you make memories in it!

 

      kitchen 500 Beechwood

 

This picture is of the kitchen in the house that Walt and I bought last year.  Mind you the counter and island are never this neat now, but I remember many enjoyable meals that we have prepared and eaten there so now it is our home!

Posted by

Sybil Campbell, REALTOR®, ABR, SFR, SRES

Long and Foster, REALTORS®

(757) 876-0140

WHATEVER THE DIRECTION SYBIL CAN HELP YOU LOCATE THE HOME OF YOUR DREAMS

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Comments (63)

Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thanks Kathy Streib have a great Christmas.

Dec 20, 2017 06:14 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Scott Seaton Jr. Bourbonnais Kankakee IL Home Inspector, I know right?!

 

Dec 20, 2017 06:29 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thanks Dorie Dillard, have a great Christmas.

Dec 20, 2017 06:30 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

Yep, it's just a house, it's up to us to make it "home." Your home is lovely and I'm sure you have wonderful memories around that gorgeous island in the kitchen. Thanks for the post, Sybil, and Merry Christmas. D 

Dec 20, 2017 07:16 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

When we built our home we visited the site every single day. Our grown children visted quite often too to see the progression. We moved in the week before Christmas. I was afraid that first Christmas wouldn't be our usual holiday, but as we sat there opening presents on Christmas Eve we all agreed it was wonderful! It felt like home the second we moved in. We already had memories...memories of watching it grow!

Dec 20, 2017 07:37 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thanks for stopping by, I changed out the lights above the island, that was a litle too much bling for me Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD!

Dec 20, 2017 08:52 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD

I would have likely done the same. :) 

Dec 20, 2017 08:53 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Sharon Tara, Most of the houses that my ex and I owned we had built and yet they still did not feel like home at first.

Dec 20, 2017 08:53 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Sybil, I love that quote and agree with you. we have to make the house a home ourselves over time.

Dec 20, 2017 02:22 PM
Jill Sackler
Charles Rutenberg Realty Inc. 516-575-7500 - Long Beach, NY
LI South Shore Real Estate - Broker Associate

The same thing that turns a house into a home then makes it really difficult for some homeowners to sell. They don't want to leave their memories behind plus they'd like to be paid for them.

Dec 20, 2017 02:40 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Mike Frazier, thanks for stopping by and I hope you have a great Christmas.

Dec 20, 2017 08:38 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Jill Sackler, That's what makes our job so difficult, we have to help our sellers separate emotionally from that home.

Dec 20, 2017 08:39 PM
Nathan Gesner
American West Realty and Management - Cody, WY
Broker / Property Manager

My memories are never comprised of square footage, quality/type of flooring, or other features of the home. It's the people inside it that create memories with me. Congratulations on the feature!

Dec 21, 2017 05:25 AM
Leslie Currle
Alcova Mortgage LLC - Luray, VA
With you, every step of the way

Such a true statement, Sybil.  Stuff is just stuff, but memories last forever!

Dec 21, 2017 05:44 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thanks for the comment Nathan Gesner.  On a different note, I bet it is really cold in Wyoming.

Dec 21, 2017 06:51 AM
Nathan Gesner

It's only 5 degrees but it should warm up to around 20. :)

Dec 21, 2017 07:11 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Hi Leslie Currle, Memories are forever and most of us have photos to prompt the memories.

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Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

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Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

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Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

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