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Keep going ..... anyway.

By
Real Estate Agent with ReMax Realtec Group

2018! Time to reset or start the year. Inspired at the start of the year with the vision of unprecedented success. We are inspired to occupy the throne of the one who endures to the end, to have that which life promises.

 

But the "having" follows the "doing." And most stop well short of having anything. Why?

 

They did not know what to expect on the way.

Whether starting a new business, a relationship, marriage, raising a family: knowing what to expect along the way becomes essential to endure to the end, and ultimatley to the 'having."

 

I am a runner. What I have come to know in regards to running is what happens along the way of EVERY run that wants to make me stop. 

At the very start the knees hurt and legs weigh 500 lbs each! I'm too old for this, I tell myself...but keep going anyway.

 

At 3 miles my body is warmed up and ready to go, I'm not too old, the knees and legs silenced....It is  great to be alive! Not a time to rest and slumber so,  I keep going.

 

At 6 miles I get the side stitches. Oh crap, I really want to stop. This is not supposed to hurt! Why am I doing this? I control my exhale, push through the pain and I keep going anyway.

 

At 8 miles my heart is pounding out of my chest. It's supposed to get easier. I don't want to do this every time I run, but I know my body is lying to me and I keep going anyway.

 

At 12 miles my knees re-announce they are done with this! I push through the roaring noise, and I keep going anyway.

At 17 miles I'm starting to believe I can finish this. Then the cramps begin in the calves. The wrinkle in my sock feels like a thorn in my Saucony shoes. Every little thing become a cacophany of noise to keep me distracted...to convince me to quit...but I keep going anyway.

 

At 20 miles, I'm spent. Nothing to fuel the legs. All I can do is think only of the next foot placement. I contemptuously ask myself, "Are you having fun yet??  I need to stop. There's noting left in the tank. And I keep going anyway.

 

3 miles to go! My form has disintegrated. I am in great peril of  injury. This isn't fun anymore. "Go ahead, walk. No one can see you!" the temptation rattles about in my mind. But I keep going anyway. 

 

Then I hear them. 'Finish big Annette!" they shout along the way. "Almost there. Great job!"  'You are awesome! Keep going!" they shout.  Then someone with courage shouts, 'Pass someone and finish BIG!"  Then I realize, "I'm not done yet!" And now I keep going.

 

And from the fuel of 'nothing' the legs reach further, the toes kick a little harder, head lifts taller, and the finish line disappears behind me because I kept going. ANYWAY.

 

Look at your life.

Take account of your 'anyways.'

You DO NOT raise a family, sustain a marriage, start a career, get a degree, lose substantial weight, face your fears without overcoming. Without knowing your greater purpose that powers YOU to prevail over whatever crosses your path, YOU just keep going anyway.  You won!

You did it! Not someone else.

 

Find your voice. Tell your story. Because that is the story the Universe needs to hear. 
Your over-comers story has prepared you for such a time as this!

 

And here in the real estate business, it is the steady and sure that endure to the end, not the fleet and flighty. But you need to know what to expect along the way. Then when the speed bumps arrive. you keep going. When you encounter a failure, you know that is not defeat...you learn and keep going anyway.

 

When you fear the devouring lion waits around the bend, you learn to pull its claws, learn to defang the beast and ignore the roar because you see the beast can not harm you and holds no power over you...and you keep going anyway.

 

Within you already exists the strength to keep going anyway.

 

But you do need a plan.
I don't run without knowing where I'm going. It is also a good idea to start a business with a map. Your real estate agent business plan is your map. The map outlines the way to your "having" and alerts you to what you must "DO" to make it a reality. Without a map, one hardly knows they are lost.

 

Every athlete will share one little tidbit that is the secret.

Runners don't run to the finish line, they run to the next challenge.

Ball players don't focus on the score but on their execution of the next play.

As business owners the challenge is to focus on execution. It is in the doing that the having becomes inevitable. 

Success is always earned & never given.

 

2018. Make it your year to "Keep going anyway!"

 

 

 

 

Best of Success,
Annette Lawrence, Broker Associate
Remax Realtec Group
Palm Harbor, FL
727. 420. 4041

 

Comments(11)

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Good points all Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041 . Reminds me, "When the going gets tough, the tough get going"! 

Dec 29, 2017 10:07 AM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

Too often one can lose sight of their 'overcoming' history and see their future as daunting. The reality is, we have all overcome.


Not all are runners. 


Not all have overcome life threatening illness.


Not all have been touched by the voids of grief.


But in all of our lives, there is VICTORY and we need to SEE it and know we have been prepared and fully able at such a time as this.

Jan 01, 2018 05:09 AM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home is where the hearth is.

I am thoroughly impressed. (of course I'm easily impressed, but what the hey)... any/all of those reasons are enough to not only stop me, but to actually keep me from even attempting to run.

More power to you!

Dec 31, 2017 09:54 AM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

For each runner it begins the same way.


The path travel has the same challenge gates.


But each runner runs for a different reason. Some will say it is for their health, but that is simply what they know the listener will accept and the questioning ends.


The trails and walkways are filled with those wearing sneakers and facing their challenge, but each one is on a very unique and personal journey.

Jan 01, 2018 05:13 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hi Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041 I, too, am an athlete (weight lifter and stregnth training) and it take focus and discipline when one is 71....

you know how to get the job done....I hate running.... but I do a few laps around the track in between heavy lifts.... it's like a break.

Dec 31, 2017 09:58 AM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

On 'off' days I engage in bone stress with the stretchy bands. Those things are no joke.


Exercise, such as eyeing that new weight or the +10 reps, correlates to new goals or directions in business. For me knowing how far I've come, as compared to what lies ahead, creates greater energy and results in more positive expereince.


At 71 or 61 or 51 or 41, we bring a vault of gold, the reward for doing what life has required of each of us, and with that empowerment can step into the future just doing as we always have,knowing the reward is earned not given.

Jan 01, 2018 05:20 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

I did the Anthony Robbins Firewalk many many years ago.  You have to focus on the destination, not the hot coals to get there.  It was a most powerful experience to overcome fear of any kind.  

Dec 31, 2017 01:29 PM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

Now THAT is how you pull the fangs, declaw the roaring lion and silence the threatening roar.


Such an overcoming experience is indeed powerful and life-changing if we remind oursleves,'I am able!"

Jan 01, 2018 05:23 AM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

Picked up and packed 8 bags of wooden colored chips and drop off at the garage. I had to take a nap and still feel on my joints. 

It was hauling 3/4 ton of gravel on a wheel barral that I realized I had physical limittations.   

Dec 31, 2017 06:01 PM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

Sometimes, Mother Nature, likes to remind us of our mortality.


On the otherside of 50, She frequently suggests we are not kids anymore.

Jan 01, 2018 05:25 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

What an excellent example of "finish what you started".   Enjoy the run!

Dec 31, 2017 07:44 PM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

Everyone has their own story. 


Whether it is wrestling with self-doubt, single parenthood or digging out of poverty or the working out their truth, the race has been run and finished. We each are well served by know what we have overcome to get to where we are. In the process, we may also know that for which we must be grateful.

Jan 01, 2018 05:28 AM
Dennis Swartz
Full Circle Property Management - Columbus, OH
MBA, GRI...experience counts!

I have had many challlenges to overcome in over 30 years of a career that I got into to make some easy spending money, and yet here I sit-still pumping away. Is it because I am dedicated, enduring, and inspired, or because I don't know what else I could do? 

Jan 01, 2018 04:44 AM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041

I would suspect you are 'still pumping away' because what you are doing IS bringing the life fulfillment you need. 


Real estate is but a vessel to carry out ones greater purpose.

Jan 01, 2018 05:30 AM
Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

Good for you, I hope you have a good orthopedist on the sidelines rooting for you and his next patient. I will opt for the elliptical at the gym!

Jan 02, 2018 07:44 AM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041 "And here in the real estate business, it is the steady and sure that endure to the end, not the fleet and flighty. But you need to know what to expect along the way. Then when the speed bumps arrive. you keep going. When you encounter a failure, you know that is not defeat...you learn and keep going anyway."

Right on target - and - re-blog!

Jun 28, 2018 06:48 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Annette. I think your analogy is apt. I can't believe you do marathons and I am impressed.

Jun 28, 2018 07:59 AM
Mott Marvin Kornicki
Waterway Realtors® • Notary Public & Apostille - Sunny Isles, FL
Miami Notary & Apostille 786-229-7999

Anything never started - never gets finished. Perseverence is the magic ingredient to making it to the finish line. Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041 

Jul 14, 2018 10:30 AM