Confidence in One Area Can Carry Over to Another Area

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Confidence in One Area Can Carry Over to Another Area


A few years back, I worked with a guy who had a passion for football.  He played on his high school football team as a defensive cornerback.  He was a good athlete, which he displayed on our company softball team.  Although, he had never played softball, or baseball, he quickly took his attributes of strength and speed and developed into a good member of the team.


At our company, he worked as a quality control inspector, but he did have ambitions to go further, however, in spite of the fact that he did an adequate job, he was always tentative about his abilities and about whether or not he was doing things properly.


He did not go to college, so he never had the chance to test his football skills on the next level above high school, although he would liked to have had the opportunity.  Short of playing in college, or even possibly in the pros, he decided to try out for a semi-professional football team.  A colleague questioned this move.  Why would you want to risk getting hurt for something that was not going to be in your professional future.


It was not about his future, nor was it even about football, but rather, it was about confidence.  He had to know in his mind, with some proof to validate his thoughts, that he was good enough.  Good enough for what?  Just good enough.


He made the team and after a few practices he decided to leave the team.  Simply making the team gave him the confidence that he was seeking.  It validated to him that he was, indeed, good enough.


He eventually, at another company, went on to become the quality manager.  The confidence that he received from proving to himself that he was good at football, carried over to his outlook on life in general.  He believed that he was capable of being more than a quality inspector and he went out and became more.


Confidence is important not only to ourselves, but to those around us who count on us for our knowledge and experience in professional and in personal settings.


Do you have confidence or is the lack of it holding you back?





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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good afternoon Ron. I get this and think it matters. Nice post and it touched me.

Jan 10, 2018 12:15 PM #1
Kathryn Sparks
Zenith Realty - Baltimore, MD


Good post.  He was fortunate that he knew the trigger that would give him that confidence boost.

Jan 10, 2018 04:23 PM #2
Karen Krzniak
Zenith Realty - Towson, MD


It is a very interesting thought.  On one hand, it shows the complexity of humans and, on the other hand, it shows how basic things can be.

Jan 10, 2018 04:26 PM #3
Kristi Allison
Bel Air, MD


Some times people get stuch in a rut and do not know what actions will motivate them.  Perhaps just doing something to a level of satisfaction is all that is needed.

Jan 21, 2018 11:49 AM #4
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