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Good thing I wasn't rude and obnoxious.... like I normally am.

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Real Estate Agent with Jameson Sotheby's International Realty

Following the vein from yesterday's post where an email I sent out fell into my seller's hands.  At least with decent results.

I placed a call to city hall... 'cause my parking permit had expired.  I ordered a new one in December... and it still hadn't arrived.  I called a couple of weeks ago to inquire, and they told me they had been behind schedule... due to "reasons"... and they would make sure not to ticket me for continuing to park in the lot, even though my sticker had expired.

Yesterday I called, yet again, to let them know my sticker had still not arrived.  The woman who answered was pleasant, and in return so was I.

I simply said "I called a couple of weeks ago... and my sticker still hasn't arrived".  She dealt with my issue... it turns out the sticker had returned to them, 'cause they had my address wrong.

Then came the kicker... she said "This is Monica... Debbie's sister."  She could clearly hear my blank stare... "Debbie who works in your office!"....

Good thing I was nice to her.  I  wouldn't want her complaining to Debbie that this Alan-guy was mean to her sister.... right?

ya just never know.

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 ALAN MAY, Realtor®   
Specializing in Evanston Real Estate and North Shore Real Estate

Jameson Sotheby's International Realty, 2934 Central Street, Evanston, IL 60201
Office: 847.869.7300      Cell: 847.924.3313      Email: Almay@aol.com

Evanston Real Estate & North Shore Real Estate
Licensed in Illinois

   

Comments(22)

Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

So, Alan what happened were you sick? is that why you were nice and not rude and obnoxious??:))Endre

Jan 25, 2018 07:40 PM
Alan May

I musta been off my game.

Jan 25, 2018 07:45 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Sometimes you have to just be kind instead of being overly critical and all of that jazz. I’ve been there myself. Good post!

Jan 25, 2018 09:55 PM
Alan May

You get more flies with honey?

Jan 26, 2018 06:08 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

good morning Alan. This too is another example of you never know, so always be kind.

Jan 26, 2018 08:54 AM
Alan May

yep... seems to be a theme, here...

Jan 26, 2018 12:00 PM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

thank goodness you dodged a bullet on that one my friend.

Jan 26, 2018 12:24 PM
Alan May

I'm doin' a lot of tap-dancing, these days.

Jan 26, 2018 12:54 PM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

This is another example of the two degrees of separation.

Jan 30, 2018 03:59 PM
Alan May

I loved that movie.

Feb 01, 2018 05:30 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Always act like you're being watched by someone who is going to grow up to be "just like you."  Being a mom helped me learn to treat everyone with dignity and respect, especially during a challenging moment. Ha. Glad you minded your manners, Alan. ;) 

Jan 31, 2018 07:49 AM
Alan May

So, am I.

Feb 01, 2018 05:31 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Wow! You never know who you know who is going to read your emails, and who you don't know who knows someone you don't know she knows.  

Feb 01, 2018 05:25 PM
Alan May

you know?

Feb 01, 2018 05:31 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Oh wow, it truly is a small world. The older we get, the smaller it becomes. And, of course being nice is always the better road.

Feb 01, 2018 06:30 PM
Alan May

being nice is always better.. not always possible, but always better.

Feb 01, 2018 07:49 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Alan, When I first started working on the production floor in 1991, I quickly discovered LOTS of the assembly line workers were related.  Mother, daughter, another daughter, all with different last names.  There were aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, inlaws and outlaws.  To this day I don't think I ever got to know all the different connections   What I did understand pretty quickly was be very careful about what was said and to whom.  Bill

Feb 01, 2018 07:26 PM
Alan May

one never knows who one's talking to, and who they know

Feb 01, 2018 07:53 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

well next year when you call... you know who to ask for to get your sticker on time.

Feb 01, 2018 07:47 PM
Alan May

I sure do, Tammy.  I sure do.

Feb 01, 2018 07:53 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Alan, you are right, it's a small world and you never know who knows you!

Feb 02, 2018 05:29 AM
Alan May

... you just never know.  Care must be taken.

Feb 02, 2018 06:28 AM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

Alan, it is a small world where we live. You never know when you're going to run into a neighbor, so-worker, kids teacher, someone from church, past clients etc. Glad it worked out ok.

Feb 02, 2018 05:37 AM
Alan May

I'm glad, too.

Feb 02, 2018 06:28 AM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Exactly and a lesson i once learned the hard way Alan May 

Feb 02, 2018 05:44 AM
Alan May

ooooh... there's a story there, Scott.

Feb 02, 2018 06:28 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Hi Alan.  If you want, I can call on your behalf and be rude.  No one will blame you.

Feb 02, 2018 05:47 AM
Alan May

There's always someone out there to blame me.

Feb 02, 2018 06:28 AM
Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

That's the same lesson I get from my terrible driving behavior.  I'm impatient, beep a lot, and glare at people.

I learned to tone it down when a family member told me how a woman was incredibly rude to him while he was driving. She had a vanity plate (!) and I immediately knew who it was!  

Feb 02, 2018 07:18 AM
Alan May

yep... we're public figures... we gotta be careful.

Feb 02, 2018 11:45 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

So I am waiting for the rest of the story ...............what happened next

Feb 02, 2018 11:37 AM
Alan May

it's a pretty boring ending.  I got my sticker.

Feb 02, 2018 11:45 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Nice story, you never know who you are talking to. I got a text a couple of days ago asking if I could help them find a home and it was a little garbled so I was wondering who it was. Today, I got an email and I put 2 and 2 together it is the father of a client of mine, so glad I was not rude either as they want to move to the area and want help buying a home.

Feb 02, 2018 02:18 PM
Alan May

and that's good... I'm glad, too.

Feb 02, 2018 02:22 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Alan May ,

You obnoxious? Rude? How about funny and looking at things from a different perspective than most! A good reminder you never know who you are talking to....and its a small world!! Happy Friday!

Feb 02, 2018 02:54 PM
Alan May

I know... totally unbelievable, right?

Feb 02, 2018 03:33 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

So true! You just never know where that next client is coming from or who knows you because of who you know! 

Feb 02, 2018 11:19 PM
Alan May

or which person you're going to offend, and who they know.

Feb 03, 2018 05:48 AM
Marney Kirk
Cummings & Co. Realtors - Towson, MD
Towson, Maryland Real Estate

Hi Alan, you are right, you never know who you are speaking with - very important lesson!

Feb 03, 2018 06:48 AM
Alan May

very important, indeed.

Feb 03, 2018 11:40 AM