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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Endre Barath, Jr. - I have that same delicate position here in Carmel-by-the-Sea with buyers and sellers from all over the world. Beyond telling people I have a daughter and two grandsons, I don't delve into my personal life. Clients like to hear that I am animal friendly, doesn't matter what kind. And, yes, I have 3 dogs who are very jealous when I go pet someone's cat.

Apr 17, 2018 12:53 AM #1
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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
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Morning Endre.

Politics and religion are two subjects I stay away from.  Good call on your part.

Apr 17, 2018 02:29 AM #2
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Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, Blackstone Realty Group - brokered by eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

I totally agree with your philosphy towards public persona. 

Apr 17, 2018 03:38 AM #3
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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Property Manager

Hi Endre,
This is why it is so important to understand EVERYTHING we put online is out there for anyone to see... and make judgments and decisions accordingly. 

Apr 17, 2018 03:59 AM #4
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Thank you for the great tips about what to post on social media.

Apr 17, 2018 04:01 AM #5
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
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Good morning,  Endre.  We have two ears and one mouth for a reason...yet another reason why your post made me think of that familiar saying.

Apr 17, 2018 04:17 AM #6
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

People want to know more than what you know...but also who you are....and those who follow you...know exactly that !

Apr 17, 2018 04:38 AM #7
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Endre. Great position you take! Enjoy your day.

Apr 17, 2018 05:01 AM #8
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Endre. It is a very delicate balance my friend but I think you do it very well.

Apr 17, 2018 05:11 AM #9
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Nina Hollander
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Charlotte/Ballantyne/Waxhaw/Fort Mill Realtor

Hi Endre... I check my on-line profiles regularly, but certainly not daily. I actually also maintain my personal persona as privately as possible... but I think people always can tell alot about me from what I write about and how I write it.

Apr 17, 2018 05:17 AM #10
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre,

We agree and we have lines we don't cross.  Wishing you a wonderful day.  Cheers, A

Apr 17, 2018 07:32 AM #11
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Curtis Van Carter
Better Homes & Gardens Wine Country Group - Yountville, CA
Your Napa Valley Broker Extraordinaire

Endre

You made me do so and I found a couple of interesting site when I Googled my name. Couldn't figure out why, cheers cvc

Apr 17, 2018 09:47 AM #12
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Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
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Good afternoon Endre - you reflect my sentiments here as well.  I do not wish to alienate anyone.

Apr 17, 2018 10:16 AM #13
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Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker
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Endre I think many of us 'regular' rainers feel as you do. You do an awesome job of mixing things up and making it interesting.  I feel like I do know you for that  very reason.

Apr 17, 2018 01:49 PM #14
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Margaret Goss
Baird & Warner Real Estate - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Taboo. Certain subjects are simply taboo as a public persona. Those that don't get it could pay a high price.

Apr 17, 2018 03:19 PM #15
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Such great points. So many topics are very socially charged these days and more than ever. Leaning on positions or opinions that do more to unite than divide is the trick, or craft worth practicing. 

Apr 17, 2018 03:57 PM #16
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Corey Martin
Martin Presence Group - Ruston, LA
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There are some subject that should not be broached with anyone but our closest friends. Religion, politics, and bias should never enter the business setting. Thank you for sharing.

Apr 17, 2018 04:06 PM #17
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George Souto
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Endre I agree it is a delicate balance but it is a balance must be maintained in this business.

Apr 17, 2018 04:43 PM #18
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Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

I like how your mix your posts... I try to do the same.

Apr 17, 2018 04:44 PM #19
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Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
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Endre Barath, Jr. good stuff great mix lots of Featured posts

Apr 17, 2018 05:48 PM #20
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Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
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Dear Endre,

When people ask me directly, I am honest about my political beliefs or religion, but neither are at the forefront of my repertoire of conversation. More interesting to find out, what clients need & want, so I can help them fulfill their needs.

Apr 17, 2018 07:27 PM #21
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Endre

I like your philosophy and it resembles mine. There are also certain topics I just don't feel a need to spend time talking about in the public domain, even though I have my thoughts about them.

I also check my name regularly and also check potential clients, vendors and others.

Jeff

Apr 17, 2018 10:22 PM #22
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Congratulations on your featured post and stating your position. I think those who know you know you strike a professional balance. 

Apr 18, 2018 03:59 AM #23
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Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Congratulations on your feature. Figuring out what to share in social media is a hard balance to strike for many people. You either get it or....

Apr 18, 2018 04:58 AM #24
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Tim Maitski
Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage - Atlanta, GA
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I wonder why mentioning religion or a political belief is usually described as "spewing dogma"?  It's like a switch is flipped when some topics come up.  I like red wine and you might like white wine.  Can two people discuss their different preferences?

Do people see real estate agents who warn of the dangers of FSBO and such as spewing real estate dogma?

Apr 18, 2018 05:33 AM #25
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John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

For my own benefit, I try to live with just one persona.

I have many strong beliefs and opinions that I try to keep in check and not come across with a bad attitude.

I am who I am. 

Apr 18, 2018 05:59 AM #26
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Endre.  I try to keep my private persona, private.  I only try to do business when on-line.

Apr 18, 2018 06:01 AM #27
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Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Just being ones self says it all...The tough part is believing this so

Apr 18, 2018 06:45 AM #28
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Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Endre Barath, Jr. - Congrats on the gold star!  Staying neutral is something everyone who has a vested inerest as a business person should do.  I am actually amazed that a lot of people don't do it. 

I add one step in the google process. I actually have it on my "Meet Sheri" page with a button "Google Sheri Sperry". In addition, I put "Google Sheri" (with the search 'Sheri Sperry" link in my signature area of my email. 

I actually just closed on a luxury home with a top level I.S. person from a Silicon Valley Tech company who "googled" me and chose me for my website and content. 

Apr 18, 2018 07:15 AM #29
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

100% in agreement with your attitude about blogging and sharing our personal lives. Neutrality is a very good thing at times. 

Apr 18, 2018 07:56 AM #30
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Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Agreed! And guess what? I don't know anyone who has changed someones' mind about politics, religion, or any other controversial topic. I'm an expert in real estate. I have my hobbies that hopefully will interest a buyer or seller and encourage them to call me. My differing political beliefs will not.

Apr 18, 2018 11:10 AM #31
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Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Endre, Your posting is the right mix, a reader get a sense of who you are, and what your business is.  It is true, certain subjects should be avoided so as not to alienate potential clients.

Apr 18, 2018 08:52 PM #32
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Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Realtor Top 1%
RE/MAX Gold - Sacramento, CA
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Since these are troubling times and many people are seeking out like-minded people who share their core values, I don't mind sharing my progressive ethics and principles. Some people might see that as political, but those are the very people who would not get along with me anyway, so I still win. 

This keeping silent in exchange for compensation is confusing to me.

As for your searching every day on Google, Endre, you know you can set up automatic Google alerts for whatever search terms you want, right? You can ask Google to send you reports on Endre Barath, Jr. as its own search term. 

Apr 20, 2018 08:58 AM #34
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
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Oh, I couldn't agree more, Endre! I try to do that routinely as well because I've gotten great feedback from it! Funny but, I posted tonight that Ray & I were celebrating our anniversary at a restaurant in a community that I know quite well and have a few clients there also. A couple (past clients) popped in and had a drink, wishing us a happy anniversary on their way to an event this evening!

People want to know you and a 'stiff' persona who boasts about how 'great' they are in business just doesn't get it for me...or any consumer!

BTW, great wine in the shot! 

Apr 20, 2018 10:52 PM #35
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Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Ditto on all counts!  Although I'm allergic to most short haired animals!  Wine, books yes; politics and relgion no.  Simple!

Apr 26, 2018 09:17 PM #37
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®  you are too young to have grand children:) only the four legged ones should be yours:))Endre

Apr 26, 2018 11:13 PM #38
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

James Dray  we are on the same page, Endre

Apr 26, 2018 11:14 PM #39
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Kat Palmiotti   I am not surprised, over the years I saw we had similar views on many subjects...Endre

Apr 26, 2018 11:15 PM #40
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Carol Williams  I try to be disciplined about my comments, but there are times I slip a little, Endre

Apr 26, 2018 11:16 PM #41
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Will Hamm just reposted this - I find that perfect timing! LOL

...because you know you're preaching to the choir here, Endre! 

Oh and did I say, love the wine choice! 

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