Bad Luck Is Sometimes Good Luck

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Real Estate Agent with Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage GREC #208281

 

That's Good. Perhaps.  That's Bad. Perhaps.

Key Points

  • It's never as good as it seems
  • It's never as bad as it seems
  • It's all good

 

A Zen koan that I see play out many times.

"Once upon the time there was an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. “Such bad fortune,” they said sympathetically. “We’re so sorry”. “Perhaps,” the farmer replied.

The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. “What great fortune!” the neighbors exclaimed. “Perhaps,” replied the old man.

The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune. “Perhaps,” answered the farmer.

The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son’s leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out. “Perhaps,” said the farmer…"

Sometimes I'm accused of not caring because I might not show much emotion, either happy or sad. I guess I've just seen too many instances of what that farmer experienced.

Many times it's difficult to really know whether something is good or bad until you see how things eventually play out and you have the benefit of hindsight.

One of my favorite movies is a prime example. "Cinderella Man" is a true story about James Braddock, a down and out boxer, coming back against all odds. He breaks his right hand in a fight which then almost keeps him from being able to earn a subsistence living working on the docks.

You pity the poor guy. Why can't God give this guy a break? He has to cover up the fact that he has a broken hand so he doesn't lose his job. It's during the Depression and his family is just about starving to death.

But a short version of the Zen koan above is

"God works in mysterious ways".

When is a broken right hand of a fighter actually a blessing in disguise? When it forces him to develop an incredible left hand which then eventually allows him to beat the "man killer" Max Baer for the heavyweight title.

I think of this when I hear about so many teenage suicides. They give up the fight too soon. Who knows what great things were in store for them. It's never as bad as you think. What seems to be a "bad" thing might just be getting you ready for the great things to come.

 

I think of this with the recent celebrity suicides.  

So my advice is to never give up.

Don't get too excited and don't get too depressed.

It's all good.

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About the Author:  Tim Maitski has been a full time Realtor since 1999. He has sold several hundreds of homes in areas around metro Atlanta.  Tim started with RE/MAX Greater Atlanta and is now with Atlanta Communities Real Estate Brokerage.

 

Along with blogging on ActiveRain, he provides one of the best real estate websites in Atlanta at www.HomeAtlanta.com .

 

His proprietary  "Maitski Line Reports" chart out the absorption rates over the past 14 years in 37 different market areas.  Know when it's a good time to buy or a good time to sell.    

 

His online Property Tax Calculator allows you to compare property taxes in many counties and cities around the Atlanta area.  He provides the Atlanta MLS Power Search Tool that allows searches of homes using over 35 specific criteria.

 

Over the years, Tim has optimized his business so that he now can offer a huge 50% commission rebate to his buyers.  The more experience one gets, the easier the job becomes.

 

Tim also has a "Five Days to Sold" System that uses an intensive marketing blitz to create a showing frenzy that creates urgency and offers.

 

Tim is always looking to LinkIn with anyone who is interested in building their social network.

 

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Mott Marvin Kornicki
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If it weren't for bad luck - I'd have no luck at all. Many misfortunes are actually blessings in disguise. Nice Post! Tim Maitski  

Jun 13, 2018 08:48 AM #1
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Liz and Bill Spear
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We just never know what's next.  I recently had a deal where the buyer backed out on my seller.  It was crushing to her, but we had faith that it would still turn out okay.  As it turns out, better than okay.  Back on the market with 4 offers the first day, the net was she's coming out $7,000 ahead of the original contract.  And on a $125k home, an extra 7k is a huge difference. 

Jun 14, 2018 07:36 AM #2
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Tim. This is thoughtful and very on the mark. Well done.

Jun 14, 2018 08:03 AM #3
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Ezra Beyman
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I love it! Take negative experiences and turn them into positive opportunities. Thanks for sharing!

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Tim- I love how your mind thinks! You are so right, though, you never really know how things will turn out until they do. 

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