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A Marine Mother's Perspective and Gratitude....

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty NRDS # 146013739

Post 9: Ten Gratitude Posts - courtesy of Debbie Reynolds

 

Remember Me

By Lizzy Palmer

Remember Me from Rick & Sheri Sperry on Vimeo.

 

A Marine Mother's Perspective

My children were born during peacetime in the 1970's, and I never thought one of them would say that he wanted to join the military. But one did!

I Thought It Was A Phase

 

My son Ryan, spent a year out of high school studying every aspect of the service and decided to join the Marines. 

A Young Boy Leaves And Returns A Marine

I was not prepared for my son to leave for a 13 week boot camp that did not allow us any contact with him. Other than him going overseas, this was the most excruciating time a parent must endure. 

The Middle East Before 9/11/2001

Ryan become part of the elite Marine Security Guard and went overseas to protect the Bahrain School in the Middle East.  At the time, Bahrain was considered the third highest world wide threat to our troops.... Iran was visible across the Persian Gulf. 

Attack of the USS Cole

 

While Ryan was in Bahrain, the USS Cole was bombed and he volunteered to guard it. He was on duty and was turned down. Marines were pulled from Bahrain because it was the closest point to the terrorist attack in Aden Yemen.

You Lose A Piece Of Your Heart

When your children go overseas to protect the interests of our nation, a piece of your heart goes with them. Every night and every morning you pray for their safe return. As a mother, you are helpless to protect them. You put their safety in your country's hands. There was no Skype or Face-time to communicate with him. After securing leave at Thanksgiving in 2000, his Papa passed away on the day he was to return to duty. It took some doing, but he was able to get emergency leave to attend the funeral. We were so happy and full of gratitude that he could be here for this somber occasion. Ryan had a special militar bond with his Papa.

Enduring Gratitude...

So I have a deep understanding of what it is like to be a military mother.  I know what these families feel when their loved ones serve our country at great risk.  My gratitude for our military is unending. Thank you for being the Heroes you are. 

 

A Tribute To Honor Our Veterans and Military

 

Thank you Veterans

 

We Are All Connected!

I would think that everyone in our country is connected to our military and veterans in one way or another. Many of us have relatives who serve or have served. These veterans may have fought in wars as well as served in peacetime. But all of them served our country knowing they could give the ultimate sacrifice protecting us...and many have.

Baby Boomers

As a "baby Boomer", our fathers and mothers came back from WWII and the Korean War and settled down to have families. About 3.5 to 4 million babies were born every year from 1946 to 1964 before the "boom" tapered off. This was 20% more babies born than 1945!  It stands to reason that a good percentage of our parents had served in the military! Both Rick's father and my father, and our 8 uncles and others of my age had family who served in WWII and the Korean War. One of my uncles was a Japanese POW. Rick's father was awarded the Bronze Star for heroism in battle, recapturing an American machine gun nest that had fallen into German hands.

Vietnam

Most older "Boomers" either served in Vietnam or know people who did. Many of us heard the horror stories first hand of what happened in Nam and also know how the veterans were treated upon their return to the states. 

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Visit Rick's World Sedona -

Veterans & Military Commemoration

On this web page, see the video of Kate Smith singing "God Bless America" for the 1st time on Armistice Day November 10th, 1938. 

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  "Remember Me" (top of this post) - Warning! Have tissues ready!

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Gene Simmons presenting a rendition of all the Armed Forces Fight Songs

at a USO performance in Iraq. 

 


 

Please also visit these other blogs commemorating Veteran's Day

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We are ALL thankful for Veterans - Sally K. and David L. Hanson 

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Veterans Day Parade and Festival - Joan Cox 

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2018 Annual Veterans Day Military Review in Carlsbad - Jeff Dowler  

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Veterans & The PoppyDoug Dawes 

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Thankful for Free Meals on Veterans Day Sunday, and on Monday! Fred Griffin 

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Tell a Veteran Thank YouDebbie Reynolds 

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Reflections On Veteran's Day And The 100th Anniversary Of Armistice DayNina Hollander  

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2018 Veterans Day Dallas Parage And Celebrations - Grateful For Our Veterans - Lisa Von Domek 

 I am Thankful for Veterans DayRebecca Gaujot, Realtor® 

(Read about 2 family Medal of Honor receipients!) 

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Thankful For My ParentsCarol Williams 

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Thankful For Those Who Served!Myrl Jeffcoat  

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Veteran's Day 2018, A Day To Honor Our VeteransGeorge Souto

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Comments (23)

Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

Semper Fi

  Our son-in-law is a United States Marine.   We salute your son!

Nov 10, 2018 11:06 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

HI Fred Griffin - Thank you - and also to your son-in-law. 

Nov 10, 2018 02:29 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheri,

What a wonderful post, and I can totally understand and applaud you for raising a wonderful son.  And, we too, thank him.  A

Nov 10, 2018 11:53 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Hi Ron and Alexandra Seigel - Thank you so much.  I am hoping one day he may decide to transfer to the Prescott Veteran's Hospital. We will keep our fingers crossed.

Nov 10, 2018 02:31 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sheri- I love your very touching post. Please thank Ryan for choosing to serve his country. I cannot imagine what it was like for you to wake up each day worried about your son being in harm's way. We can never ever give enough thanks to those who serve. 

Nov 10, 2018 02:26 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Thank you Kathy Streib - When you live it every day, you have a heightened appreciation of our military and veterans. 

Nov 11, 2018 05:24 AM
Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

Hi Sheri - what a beautifully written sentiment about your son and being a military mom.  As Kathy Streib says, "we can never give enough thanks to those who serve."

Nov 10, 2018 03:55 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

HI Francine Viola - I am glad we have a day of celebration for our veterans. 

Nov 11, 2018 05:26 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

                     

                                  Thank you, Sheri!

Nov 10, 2018 05:53 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Thank you Kathy Streib for the honor.

Nov 11, 2018 05:26 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Sheri.

Thank Ryan for his service please, from one that now looks back almost every day, wishing they had joined.

Nov 11, 2018 02:44 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

James Dray - you put yourself in harms way for many, many years.  Do not think it goes unnoticed. That to me, is what being a hero is all about. 

Nov 11, 2018 05:28 AM
John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Best wishes and sincere gratitude to military mothers and fathers everywhere.

Nov 11, 2018 04:36 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Thank you so much John Henry .

Nov 11, 2018 05:28 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Sheri.  We need a day to celebrate the families of our veterans as well.

Nov 11, 2018 04:38 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Hi Gabe Sanders - I could get behind a day to celebrate Gold Star families. Their loved ones gave the ultimate sacrifice. 

Nov 11, 2018 05:29 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I can't even imagine how hard that would be on a parent to have their child overseas fighting in a war or even near something like that.

Nov 11, 2018 05:22 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Hi Brian England - Indeed! Especially back then. There was very little communication. 

Nov 11, 2018 07:04 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Sheri - especially appropriate and always on target.  Thanks to Ryan along with others who have served or are serving.

Nov 11, 2018 06:47 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Thank you Michael Jacobs - There are some amazing posts with family history out today. 

Nov 11, 2018 07:05 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Sheri Sperry - MCNE® - reading this  is very emotional for me and in particular that video.  Our vets are our heros and we all have them.  Our men and women have served us well and we salute them not just today but every day.

Nov 11, 2018 09:32 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Absolutely Grant Schneider - It is quite an emotional video also.

Nov 11, 2018 02:11 PM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Sheri, wonderful story you shared about you and your son. Thanks to Ryan and all of the Veterans for serving and protecting us.

Nov 11, 2018 11:12 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Thank you Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor® - Ryan works for the Veteran's Administration as a sprinkler pipe specialist.  He just transferred from Riverside National Cemetery where he had to work every holiday. He is now at the Veteran's Hospital in Loma Linda and has a 3 day weekend. I am so happy for him.

Nov 11, 2018 02:15 PM
Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Great post Sheri. I spent 7 years living between Camp Lejeune and Marine Corp. Air Station Cherry Point. I have many friends in the Marines that have been back and forth between Afghanistan and Iraq. If you don’t live around a base, you can not fully appreciate the sacrifices these men and there families make.

Nov 11, 2018 02:54 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

HI Tom Bailey - Thank you for stopping by. My son, spent time in Camp Pendelton during training and was assigned to Camp Lejeune upon his return to the states. 

Nov 12, 2018 03:49 AM
Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

An especially wonderful post Sheri Sperry - MCNE® as we can never say "Thank You" or do enough for our Heroes.  Please let Ryan know that I thank him for his service.  And I thank you for including my post along with the others here in the Rain - we are all so proud of our Veterans!

Nov 11, 2018 04:26 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

Ryan will be visiting after the Thanksgiving rush and I will be sure to let him know Lisa Von Domek. Thank you for your post for our Veterans.

Nov 12, 2018 03:51 AM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Hi Sheri, Thank you for sharing your heart felt life story and for shaping Ryan into the Hero he has become.  Thank him for us here, for his service.

Nov 11, 2018 05:52 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

When I see him soon Bob Crane - I will convey these thoughts in person. 

Nov 12, 2018 03:52 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Sheri, I cannot even imagine sending a child overseas and risking their lives, but hear of this every day.   Some don't come home, just excruciating.  Thank you for including my post on Veterans Day.

Nov 11, 2018 06:02 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®

You are welcome Joan Cox . My heart goes out to Gold Star families. I only understand a little bit of what they go through.

Nov 12, 2018 03:54 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

You have very good reasons to be proud.

One of my nephews is a career Marine now stationed in Quantico.

Nov 15, 2018 10:01 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

What a heart felt tribute and legacy for you and your family.  My hat's off to Ryan and your family.  Great post Sheri!

Nov 15, 2018 03:34 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

It is hard to see our children go serve but how proud we are of them too. Thanks for sharing your story with us.

Nov 16, 2018 06:23 PM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

I'd like to think that I'd be proud and happy to have a child want to serve in the military, but I am sure my heart would also sink with worry and fear. Parents of those in the service should have a special honor and respect as well. It's not easy being any family member of someone serving, but a parent would be especially difficult. Your son sounds like an amazing man. Well done raising him, mom :-) Kasey

Dec 01, 2018 09:27 PM