Thankfulness is appreciating everyday.

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119
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For me, thankfulness is appreciating everyday. Some days are tough and some days are full of fluff and fun. Nobody would choose life if they knew they would only have bad days. Good days make the bad ones seem less important, but we all know life is made up of all kinds of days.

I look at tough times like exercise. Resistance training makes damages muscle fibers. When those fibers heal, they become larger and stronger. The same is true of people. When your life gives you challenges, you can face them and become stronger, or you can run away and always be subject to them. If you face them, the ultimate outcome may be a victory or it may be a defeat. But, I would rather look at it like this, you will either win, or you will learn. 

I would never want to endure another recession like the recession of 2008 and beyond, but it made me a better investor, a better Realtor, a better contractor, a better employer and quite frankly a better person. It was as ugly as I've seen in my lifetime, but like I said, you either win or you learn. I learned. Ultimately, I won, but it wasn't without a lot of extreme struggles.

It caused me to be a lot more compassionate toward people who have faced financial collapse. They're not all deadbeats who over-extended themselves and lost everything. Sometimes, they're smart people who ran up against a wall of circumstances and were overwhelmed.

In January 2008, my contracting business was booked seven months in advance. My receivables were an inch think in August of 2008. In January 2009, those receivables were still an inch think and more than half of those companies and individuals who owed me money had declared bankruptcy or fled the area. A high percentage of the others were using my money to keep their lives and companies afloat. It squeezed me tighter than I had ever experienced. Was it my fault? Not at all. Did I suffer for it. You bet. Other people caused a great deal of pain in my life and business. Like a lot of the people I mentioned a moment ago, not all who suffer financial collapse did so by their bad choices. Sometimes, they suffer from other people's bad choices. I couldn't see that before the recession, but it became crystal clear during the downturn.

By the time the recession lifted, I was a stronger person, a better employer and a more focused business person. I have fully recovered from the recession, but what was lost during that time is lost. What was gained during that time was appreciation. I appreciate everyday. I also appreciate that you can't take knowledge away from people. What caused me to succeed prior to 2008 also has caused me to succeed since. I've grown as a person, and I've been able to correct my mistakes leading up to the recession. I didn't know they were mistakes at the time, but over time, they have become obvious. 

I make much wiser decisions today, and a lot of that is because I suffered a great deal of heartache in those years of struggle. But, like a weight-lifter, I am stronger and more determined than ever to make everyday count. I appreciate everyday; some more than others. And, I am always on the lookout for the lesson of the day. I like to win, but I also like to learn. It's even better when the both come on the same day. 

 

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Hreat thoughts! Thanks for sharing!!!

Some days are tough and some days are full of fluff and fun. Nobody would choose life if they knew they would only have bad days. Good days make the bad ones seem less important, but we all know life is made up of all kinds of days.

Nov 18, 2018 05:23 AM #1
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Mike. I am always inspired by you and this is a good example of why. Well done.

Nov 18, 2018 05:24 AM #2
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Bob "RealMan" Timm
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What doesn't kill us makes us stronger Mike Cooper .

Nov 18, 2018 02:26 PM #3
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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I gotta agree with your title line, Mike.  I appreciate everyday I wake up and don't find myself in the obituary column.

Nov 18, 2018 04:40 PM #4
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Grant Schneider
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Good morning Mike Cooper - what a magnificent post.  This is spot on.  We all get strong and learn from averse events and 2008 was one of them.

Nov 19, 2018 06:47 AM #5
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Laura Cerrano
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Each and every day can be magical if we just allow it and look for the appreciation factors, like you said, in so many words.

Nov 19, 2018 11:44 PM #6
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Laura Cerrano
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What doesn’t kill our business can make us learn from it and keep us moving forward and learning new skills. Right on! Grant Schneider

Nov 19, 2018 11:45 PM #7
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John Henry, Florida Architect
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Hi Mike, didn't realize you had a contracting business!  That 2009 recession dealt me a huge blow but like a frog in boiling water I didn't realize what was happening and the prudent thing to do until too late. And then I was whacked for spamming Google (paid backlinks), not having social media, and an out of date website!  I did not come out stronger or wiser.

Nov 20, 2018 07:31 AM #8
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A grateful heart is one big enough to love greatly. Thanks Mike.

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