You Need A Will - Trust Is Not Enough

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

 

If you are in a marriage and own a home...make sure you have a will.  You need to see, understand and possibly change the previous will.

Lately, I've had two situations that could have been prevented by a simple will...as opposed to these words...

''Don't worry honey, you'll be taken care of."

 

For both of these...please seek legal advice.

 

First example:

A couple was married for 15 years when the spouse died leaving the wife as personal representative. Sounds OK right...nope. The heirs from a previous marriage now want the house. Hmmm, let's see the will. It was not enough to have the present widow as PR. The will has the previous wife listed. OOPS. The second wife is probably screwed except for survivor benefits.

 

 

Second Example:

A couple married over 20 years bought and paid for their home. There was no mortgage.  It was in the wife's name and they both agreed to put the daughter's name so that it would remain in the family.

 Husband died and in a very short time, the daughter is forcing the sale of the house demanding half of the proceeds. Is this what her father had intended? Probably not.

It is always good to seek legal advice and check your will.

Does it really say what you want? 

Trust is not enough. 

 

Margaret Rome

 

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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Margaret. This is very unfortunate and sad. Preparation does matter big time.

Dec 04, 2018 06:24 AM #8
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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I have found that folks who have been married before and had children by those marriages need good legal advice with wills and trusts to take care of their wishes.

Dec 04, 2018 08:22 AM #9
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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CONGRATULATIONS Margaret, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Dec 04, 2018 08:25 AM #10
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Such an important post Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland . Over the years I have heard some nightmare stories that could have been avoided entirely if there had been a trust or will in place. Just get it done folks.

Dec 04, 2018 03:39 PM #11
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We have wills, driectives, and trust. I will say that getting a trust set up is something that you can get bad advice on. Make sure your attorney understands all the details.

Dec 04, 2018 05:59 PM #12
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Most of the time deeds are written in my state to prevent a will being needed when it comes to real estate.  In my personal life my house is in our joint names with the deed reading "with survivorship rights" meaning that the real estate is 100% vested to the other spouse upon the death of one of us. 

Of course that doesn't mean I don't have a will.  But it covers real estate in the event my husband has preceeded me in death or the unlikely event we die at the same time.  

Dec 04, 2018 06:56 PM #13
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My comment is that to update your Will and even have a second attorney look it over. 

Dec 04, 2018 07:36 PM #14
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
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What you don't want...is a trust and a will....and then let the battles begin very extensively and expensively says she from too much experience.

Dec 05, 2018 06:20 AM #15
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Robert Rauf
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I have had a few recent deals where the seller passed away durring the process.  In the past I have had a few of these die because there was no will, the most recent one was unbelievably easy and only delayed things about a week, the seller was prepared with a will and the executor knew what they were doing... Be Prepared!

Dec 05, 2018 06:39 AM #16
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I hope others will read this post. I am glad it is featured.

Dec 05, 2018 12:39 PM #17
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Richie Alan Naggar
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Do not treat this as teenagers do when their parents are trying to help i.e. in one ear and out the other without any stopover. Listen to Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland 

Dec 05, 2018 02:19 PM #18
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Margaret, you have brought up a serious topic that we all need to address.  Thanks very much.

Dec 06, 2018 04:45 AM #19
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Hi Margaret

You’ve shared some wise advice about having a will. And also updating it when needed since things can and do change. No doubt there are plenty of other sad endings because people did not make sure their wishes were in writing, and enforceable.

Jeff

Dec 06, 2018 01:33 PM #20
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John Henry It is a very serious topic. We, as RE professionals, are able to help others with our advice.

Dec 06, 2018 01:50 PM #21
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Jeff Dowler, CRS  So true..."No doubt there are plenty of other sad endings because people with not make sure their wishes were in writing and enforceable.

Dec 06, 2018 01:52 PM #22
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I have begged and pleaded with my husband to write a will and he just won't do it. I have a will and have amended it just for that reason. How selfish to leave your wife in a predicament of having to figure out what to do with all of your shit? Excuse my French.

Dec 06, 2018 08:48 PM #23
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Great words of wisdom from Margaret Rome as usual!!!

It is always good to seek legal advice and check your will.

Does it really say what you want? 

Trust is not enough. 

Dec 07, 2018 03:47 AM #25
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Good advice and something that we all need to take care of.  Congratulations on the feature post.

Dec 07, 2018 07:02 AM #26
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Sham Reddy Always good to see you my friend.

Dec 07, 2018 12:29 PM #27
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Thanks Joyce Marsh, Daytona Beach Florida Real Estate We need to share this with our clients. For agents, make sure the person selling has the legal right to do so.

Dec 07, 2018 12:30 PM #28
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