I have experimented with this subject over the decades and I have found what works consistently over time and in every-ones favor too. It is simply this. I TRUST YOU whoever you are and BELIEVE YOU whatever the circumstance is until I have a reason not to. You see, YOU control these dynamics. I only observe you when you do. I don't doubt what I see or hear either. That's why it works!
Being able to enter a situation, event, relationship or scenario without bias or prejudice and relying on the experience in the moment is one of the purest ways to experience life as intended. It allows one to be light-hearted and care free freeing up energy for other purposes. Others see it as a chance to prey!
Q & A
Should something present itself to me that is not clear or borderline, then I consider it a invitation to explore further and test the situation for its purpose if I am interested. Here is where it gets interesting. If we are dealing with a pure newness and innocence, then Q & A will clear it up in no time
If there is some shenanigans afoot, a hidden agenda or dishonesty being presented, the follow-up reveals the song and dance, the whats beyond the first impression or contact and the person who is driving or trying to make the point is now causing their own outcome or is outed. Game over
Trust and belief is something that we humans use more than we realize. It is never not working, but instead doing its job and prompting us as we go from person to place not knowing what to expect until we get there. If one keeps an eye open and allows for awareness, they are equipped and able to carry on well providing they have confidence in themselves
CHOOSE AND HOLD
The thing is not to doubt what one sees and hears. NO EXCEPTIONS. You must learn to trust in that small, gentle still voice that when it speaks from within you to the self, you obey, take heed and choose that side and hold no matter what takes place. Choose and hold. Do not doubt. Practice refines this too
Watch regrets too! If you are needy, have guilt or a vulnerability that is not being handled, a shrew can trigger your halting mechanisms using your own weakness for their gain. Hesitation is what people look for to begin the pitch regret. Be choosy with whom you open up to. Not all are worthy to receive
Women are so gifted to have that highly developed sense that we call intuition kick in automatically while they are developing and only increases with usage and proper handling. Every woman will share that they knew but didn't go with that knowing after the fact of something not turning out well
QUICK AND IN A HURRY?
That brings us to another dynamic to consider. Doing anything in a hurry or impulse living. Why? What is so pressing that it would drive you out of your own common sense? I listen and observe what is presented but without having to do anything. Then, at some point, I respond if I choose too
Never react! That means the situation has got one foot in the door and is trying to get their whole body in. Relax, be calm and either state firmly your Yes or No or silence works wonders for responding to hucksters and people who deal in dark issues. Develop this with practice
TALK IS CHEAP
Trust & belief cannot be won or earned with talk! No persuasion or attempt to dominate should be given the respect that it is demanding. Instead, this attempt should be ignored for it is not worth spending any more time on. People throw away their own trust when they are dishonest with others. They think they can win it back with a few words.....No way
I trust you and I believe you until I have a reason not too. YOU control your dynamic. I control mine