Dorte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
ABC - Annapolis, Bowie, Crofton & rest of Maryland

Dear Sondra,

This sounds like a very good policy. Whenever possible, I try to meet in the office first, so we can form a strategy for looking for homes. Often, people want something very different from what they think they do to start.

Jan 08, 2019 11:35 PM
Sondra Meyer:

Hello Dorte.   I agree, meeting in the office first to develop a strategy is a great idea - for both the buyer prospects and yourself.   It will save a lot of time when looking for homes.   

Jan 09, 2019 06:36 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There are plenty of fish in the sea and there are plenty of sales on your lead sheet! Don’t sweat the small stuff! :)

Jan 08, 2019 11:49 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Always try to meet first before any emotions get involved to have a way on one side or the other. That’s what what I say, anyway.



Dörte Engel

Jan 08, 2019 11:52 PM
Sondra Meyer:

Laura, that is extremely true.   With the guy that has been "harrassing" the Realtors in Colorado, it sounds like he was a jerk.   


Even if he wasn't dangerous or a liar, we will have a much more productive day is we CHOOSE  to let someone else deal with the less desirable fish.  


I agree, it is best to try to meet first before actually looking at properties.   I hope you have a great day.  

Jan 09, 2019 06:43 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Sondra. Point well made. Sometimes people including agents do stupid things without even thinking about it. On a side note please use a bigger font for those of us with old eyes.

Jan 09, 2019 07:15 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

This is a good reminder for all of us that personal safety should always be a priority consideration.

Jan 09, 2019 07:54 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Sondra, it was nice to receive this notice, but again had a bad feeling about sign calls.  Had one last week, she sounded normal, but still called a friend to let her know who and where I would be.  Always a good idea.

Jan 09, 2019 08:05 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

This is a great policy. Sad that realtors have to worry about that but it nonetheless true. Have a great week. 

Jan 09, 2019 09:45 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-755-2905

Sondra, that's pretty indepth. Wow. And of course, based on your history it's only fitting. I can usually tell over the phone how I feel about someone. I have never been put in a position of feeling threatened, but I do pay attention (very strongly) to my gut instinct. I am thankfully in a remote community where I know everyone. I show up in my own vehicle and meet them, but have them come in mine so as to give them the chance to sit back and relax. Very VERY rarely have I had that "hinky" feeling. 

Good to always be on alert, especially as a single woman out there! 

Jan 16, 2019 06:38 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Sondra,  On sign calls I would suggest if you never met the buyer to call and have another agent go with you.

Jan 16, 2019 06:50 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Suggesting this for Carol Williams SCS. Good reminder for everyone!!

Feb 07, 2019 06:28 PM
Carol Williams

Thank you, Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland !


 

Feb 07, 2019 07:48 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Sondra Meyer: Being cautious is a good thing.  I meet new buyers at the office. I have on ocassion gone to a showing with my husband. There are some crazies out there. I got a crazy caller once that insisted I show him my listing that was ready to close. He was willing to offer $100,000 less and wanted to meet me at the property.  The icing was, he gave me a bad review on yelp!  We can't be too careful.

Feb 16, 2019 06:36 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Sondra:

I'm so glad Carol featured this post and all the valuable advice and suggestions you have shared! You can't be too careful these days!

Jeff

Feb 16, 2019 07:56 PM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, Blackstone Realty Group - brokered by eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

We've got to be as careful as possible; it's great that you have something written up. Thanks for sharing!

Feb 17, 2019 04:29 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Sondra Meyer: ,

Glad to find your post in Carol Williams Second Chance Saturday series. Its in our best interest to have a showing policy in place and let buyers know how we work. Like your policy you give to prospective clients.

Feb 17, 2019 12:54 PM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

Really scary topic Sondra, but necessary. We are very cautious - in fact, I worry about Bernie too. D 

Feb 25, 2019 09:43 AM