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Your Goals. Your Priorities. My Role.

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Your Goals. Your Priorities.

My Role.

 

Pondering Goals, Priorities and My Role Old Town Pasadena

 

 

So it's January. 

A new year.  And the first month, almost half over.  

Goals. Priorities.  Maybe some resolutions too. 

My role?  Where do I fit in? If at all. 

 

 

First, I don't break resolutions these days.  I don't make them so setting up myself for failure in this task is avoided. 

If you do participate, good luck.  

Embrace it.  Live it. Be it. Ask yourself the importance of the "resolution".  

Anyway, resolutions are not my "thing".  If you subscribe and are up to the task--well, again good for you.  Now my role in your resolutions is nill.  And as far as your goals or priorities it is to say the least limited.  Don't get me wrong. I can and will be supportive.  Advice maybe.   Suggestions perhaps.   But I think YOU are responsible for this.  Not me.  Enabling as positive as it may be depending on the goal or priority is not necessarily good for achieving a goal or priority. 

I'm not your paid professional coach. Nor your private cheerleader.  Or a guru you might encounter.   I believe it is personal.

So it's all about You.  Your goals. Your priorities. Not mine. Not my role.  

It's January and you may feel bombarded.  Bombarded with information and suggestions of all kinds.  Goals and priorities seem to collide with resolutions but they are differrent.  

Pondering? 

You don't need to go it alone but  YOU need to be a part of this discussion because YOU are the "topic".   

Your Goal.  Your Priority. My Role. And Yours Too.  Most Importantly. 

 

Photo by Michael Jacobs. Pondering possibilities in Old Pasadena, California.  Pondering of Goals, Priorities and of  my Role.   

 

Your Goals. Your Priorities. 

My Role.

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Michael Jacobs

 

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Pasadena, CA 91102

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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Michael, I am self motivated no coach needed....  as to Goal I am a big picture guy and visual so I see my goals and just try to reach it without a written recipe, Endre

Jan 14, 2019 10:11 PM
Michael Jacobs

So, Endre Barath, Jr. you're more from the scratch side of the world versus froma recipe.  

Jan 15, 2019 11:13 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.

Michael a long as I can see it, I can reach it, it might take time:)Endre

Jan 15, 2019 10:19 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Everyone can benefit from a different perspective...only seeing ourselves in the mirror can be shallow...and i sooo disagree...politely...we have always thought of you are one of our beloved cheerleaders !

Jan 15, 2019 02:51 AM
Michael Jacobs

Sally K. & David L. Hanson -- I believe we can benefit from a different perspective and as far as cheerleading goes you make it easy to rally behind.  

Jan 15, 2019 11:16 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Michael... in this regard we are two birds of a feather!

Jan 15, 2019 04:16 AM
Michael Jacobs

Birds of a feather and no ruffling of feathers Nina Hollander 

Jan 15, 2019 01:53 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Michael, We each do our "own thing". That's good. That's whatever works for each of us. That's a start...

Jan 15, 2019 04:24 AM
Michael Jacobs

And a good start too Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 

Jan 15, 2019 01:54 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Michael.  I've already broken my resolution for this year.  It was not to have any resolutions and then one popped up out of nowhere.

Jan 15, 2019 04:45 AM
Michael Jacobs

Popping resolutions?  Gabe Sanders 

Jan 15, 2019 01:56 PM
Gabe Sanders

Yep, like a pimple.

Jan 16, 2019 05:47 AM
Michael Jacobs

Eww.  Thanks for the example, Gabe Sanders 

Jan 16, 2019 11:54 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

So far this month, I have met my goal to lose a few pounds.

Jan 15, 2019 04:49 AM
Michael Jacobs

Good for you Roy Kelley 

Jan 15, 2019 01:57 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good mornign Michael. My goals are personal so only I know the score. Like Endre Barath, Jr. it works for me! Enjoy your day!

Jan 15, 2019 05:00 AM
Michael Jacobs

Wayne Martin -- staying on top of your game helps in scorekeeping too. 

Jan 15, 2019 11:17 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Michael, have never made resolutions, as have always believed if there needs to be change, do it then, don't want until the first of the year! 

Jan 15, 2019 06:41 AM
Michael Jacobs

Joan Cox - January 1 or January 15/March 8 really doesn't matter.  Just Doing It matters. 

Jan 15, 2019 11:19 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

 Good morning Michael. Thank you for the timely reminder of how time waits for no man or woman ....

Jan 15, 2019 06:43 AM
Michael Jacobs

So true Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS 

Jan 15, 2019 11:20 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Hmm, not your problem huh?  I was really counting on you to make my resolutions come to fruition, haha.  Making resolutions is not my thing either, so no need to worry.

Jan 15, 2019 06:59 AM
Michael Jacobs

Brian England -- sorry, I can't make that happen.  You will do fine without any intervention from me.  

Jan 15, 2019 11:23 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Michael - goals belong to the person who makes them, or should.  Resolutions tend to be a joke because they are really not what you want.

Jan 15, 2019 07:56 AM
Michael Jacobs

And possession is important too Grant Schneider 

Jan 15, 2019 11:23 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

I used to make them but not in a long time.  I have made a major decision for my life this year.  It is different than my original plan but for me rather a necessary one for a couple of reasons.   I am sure a friend of mine didn't really like it. It really didn't have anything to do with her. It what was best for me. 

Jan 15, 2019 08:59 AM
Michael Jacobs

Plans change. Revisions are made. Things are sometimes removed.  There are detours at times, Sharon Lee 

Jan 15, 2019 11:26 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I also try to never set myself up for failure. I go to the gym most every day, Jan 1-15 is filled with resolutions. On about Jan 16 I can find a parking spot again.

Jan 15, 2019 09:17 AM
Michael Jacobs

Those gyms are just about ready to see a much different census level than they experienced in early January.  I agree, Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty 

Jan 15, 2019 11:28 AM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Michael Jacobs - When I started in the business of real estate and it was mandatory to sit through their goal-setting sessions, I thought it was all phony, fake, and designed for the bigger picture of the Company as a whole and not the individual. After all those years, I discovered it never was about me and that's when I decided to stand on my own and separate myself from the pack. 

"Your goals. Your priorities. Not mine."

It really is personal and misfortune to anyone who sets and prioritizes based upon what others believe is best for you. After all, it IS personal. 

Jan 15, 2019 09:25 AM
Michael Jacobs

Real goal setting needs to be genuine Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP 

Jan 15, 2019 11:30 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Michael- I don't break resolutions either, and for the very same reason...I don't make them. No one can dictate what someone else's goals or resolutions should be. They have to be your own and you have to own them. 

Jan 15, 2019 12:16 PM
Michael Jacobs

Kinda like you break it, you've bought it, huh, Kathy Streib 

Jan 15, 2019 01:59 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

I do not make resolutions. Primarily because everybody expects you to, like it's a custom, but it is not my custom. I don't like doing what everybody else is doing. Never had a business plan, either. When I spot business, I simply pursue relentlessly.

Jan 15, 2019 12:57 PM
Michael Jacobs

I wonder how this resolution tradition started Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Real Estate Agent, Top 1% of Lyon Agents. Standing out is one thing.  Fitting in another.  Doing what fits for you:  ideal.  

Jan 15, 2019 02:03 PM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By Real - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Good morning Michael, no resolutions here either. I like to do my own thing and this year I'll be doing that more than I have in years. Change, on my terms but, I'm sure they'll be some detours.

Jan 16, 2019 06:08 AM
Michael Jacobs

Change on my terms - the timing, the mission --- I understand that Amanda S. Davidson 

Jan 17, 2019 08:55 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

No resolutions here either. Goals, sure, but not resolutions.

Your post reminds me of a post I wrote quite awhile ago about not being a parole officer for my clients. I advise.... the rest is their responsibility.

Jan 16, 2019 06:55 AM
Michael Jacobs

Hmm..a parole officer for your clients...that's a good visual to remember Sharon Tara 

Jan 16, 2019 11:57 AM
Sharon Tara

As long as you remember I'm NOT their parole officer. I'm not their mother or their babysitter either. LOL

Jan 16, 2019 01:27 PM
Michael Jacobs

At least Not Yet Sharon Tara 

Jan 17, 2019 08:57 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Michael,
As far as other people are concerned, it's never about us is it?  They are responsible for themselves, their decisions and choices. We are responsible for ourselves.  If we can help them in a guidance way, I'm all for that (if they want it).

As for resolutions... nah!  I do like to choose an area of focus each year.  Even though I am, essentially, retired I chose "education" or "learning" this year.  Expanding my horizons.

Jan 16, 2019 08:48 AM
Michael Jacobs

Carol Williams -- education is a focus.  i can see/understand the thought process. 

Jan 16, 2019 11:59 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Hello Pondering one and good morning. Nope, no resolutions, just the ususal goals and refresh to see what's working well, and what's not. I"m with you though, if one decides to make a big change, we can support, but we sure aren't the one responsible for the outcome.  

Jan 17, 2019 07:42 AM
Michael Jacobs

efreshing or Refining works for me too. No need for invnention or re-invention Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD 

Jan 17, 2019 08:59 AM