Maybe it's time to "re-frame" New Year's resolutions

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker United Realtors® ~ 512.750.6899

One of my go-to lenders Mark Hairston with Supreme Lending always offers a different perspective for us to consider and embrace which might impact the results we receive.

On a recent email he suggested instead of setting goals and making resolutions for the New Year, try this slightly different idea. Imagine attaining that goal and ask yourself how you got there.

This twist is similar to Noah St John’sAfformations” in which he talks about turning affirmations on their head! When using this idea in goal setting, instead of affirming what we think want in the future, use the power of our inquisitive mind to picture the result and then ask the question, “How did we get there?”

Think about it...our minds naturally want to find an answer and in that answer might lie a more certain path to our goals.

By imagining goals in this way, we’re picturing more than just the goal; we’re picturing the result of the goal.

Mark has a point. Go ahead and re-frame your New Year’s resolutions. Imagine you’ve already succeeded and ask “How did I.......?”

If you’re a buyer and would like to make a home purchase than let me put my knowledge of the NW Austin communities to work for you. I have systems in place, references and am a good listener and communicator. I have referral partners like Mark to make the home buying process stream lined. Let’s talk. I would be honored to schedule time to see if we are a good match.

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Anna Banana Kruchten - Phoenix Homes Sales
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Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR love this way!  Years ago a bunch of my broker friends and I used to have a yearly 'vision' meeting in early January. We all wrote out checks in the amount we wanted to make that year. Then one of us would collect them and hand them back to us in our Dec meeting.  And low and behold just about all of us made or succeeded our vision. Been doing this ever since with other visions too. Very effective. Kind of the same thing you're suggesting - love it!

Jan 24, 2019 02:22 PM #1
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George Souto
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Dorie, interesting thought.  The suggestion does make sense to me

Jan 24, 2019 03:14 PM #2
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Susan Haughton
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So funny you mention this, because in my first year in the business, my broker asked how much money I wanted to make.  I just threw a number out there that I thought was possibly attainable but a little scary...LOL..but I hit it!  I'm a believer. 

Jan 24, 2019 05:25 PM #3
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James Dray
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Morning Dorie.

I missed my goal for last year, this year, so far, I'm way ahead of where I expected to be.  This will be my year to achieve, no exceed, my goals.  

Jan 25, 2019 02:30 AM #4
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Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR
Coldwell Banker United Realtors® ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
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Hi Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS 602-380-4886 : I love what your vision group did! How fun!!

Hi  George Souto : Made me pause and think!

Hi Susan Haughton : I can see why you are a believer!

Hi James Dray : I'm sure 2019 will be a great year for you..go get'em!

Jan 25, 2019 05:09 AM #6
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Maria Gilda Racelis
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Hi Dorie,

Our brain is powerful that it can be our enemy or foe.

Re-framing mind set sounds seems even more effective as it leads us to the result rather than the means... Envisioning success right away is a strong catalyst.

Jan 25, 2019 05:16 AM #7
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Grant Schneider
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Good morning Dorie - Mark made excellent suggestions for goal attainment.  The main thing is you to understand your why and this is just another great process.

Jan 25, 2019 07:01 AM #8
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Dorie,

It is exactly how we start working with our clients, agents, and companies.  Thank you for sharing this.  A

Jan 25, 2019 08:03 AM #9
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Hello Dorie - those "twists and turns" can create opportunities and open our eyes to a different perspective. 

Jan 25, 2019 08:32 AM #10
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I love it, Dorie! Funny but, someone asked me how my resolutions were going the other day - I explained that I don't call them resolutions but, goals instead...complete with a plan for each of them. I mean, why set goals if we don't have a plan to go along with them, right?! 

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