Reflections

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I have found that for me reflecting doesn't do me any good. I know folks that don't agree but I can't change the past and I am doing my best to move forward. Life is complicated and so am I. Today I have simple tasks to complete and I expect to get them done. That's all I can handle now. Have a good day.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

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Sheila Anderson
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hi Chris Ann. Very well said. TY        Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 08:44 AM #15
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Sheila Anderson
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Hi Nick. For me, it is all I have. TY       Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 08:45 AM #16
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Bob "RealMan" Timm
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When I catch myself reflecting on something negative in my past I quickly change my thoughts to praise and the promise that I am forgiven and my sins forgotten by the one who holds me accountable Sheila Anderson .

Feb 19, 2019 09:11 AM #17
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Sheila Anderson
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Good day Bob. Not always easy but certainly prudent. TY      Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 09:17 AM #18
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
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 I  use my reflections as my type of learning tool so I don’t stumble into the same mistake twice. I do enjoy my memories however that they are more recreational Sheila Anderson ....

Feb 19, 2019 09:59 AM #19
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Sheila Anderson
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Hi Paul. I am glad that works for you but doesn't for me. TY       Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 10:02 AM #20
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Kathy Streib
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Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Hi Sheila- I'm in the middle on that. I try not to dwell in the past but it's important to spend some time there to learn from it. 

Feb 19, 2019 10:37 AM #21
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Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS 602-380-4886
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Sheila going back and re-living what one didn't like or what didn't work out as planned is a waste of time to me too. Happy thoughts create a happy now and that's how I live my life.

Feb 19, 2019 10:39 AM #22
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Sheila Anderson
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Hi Kathy. Not for me. TY     Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 10:51 AM #23
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Sheila Anderson
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Thanks ever so much Anna.     Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 10:52 AM #24
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Nina Hollander
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HI Sheila... I'm very much of the same school of thought as you... I don't spend too much time reflecting on what's been... it's a good way to miss what is and what will be.

Feb 19, 2019 11:32 AM #25
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Nina. I really appreciate your support.       Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 11:35 AM #26
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

It is only rarely that we can change anything about the past.  However, we can learn from it.  And, it's important to realize there are far fewer mistakes in life, but far more lessons.

Feb 19, 2019 12:14 PM #27
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Sheila Anderson
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Thanks Myrl.      Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 12:16 PM #28
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Sheila,

I am in agreement with you.  One of the most boring books I had to read in college in French in my French literature class was Marcel Proust's epic novel, called in "Search of Lost time."  He took ten pages to describe madeleine cookies!  A

Feb 19, 2019 12:59 PM #29
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Sheila Anderson
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Thanks Alexandra. I appreciate that. :)      Sheila

Feb 19, 2019 01:02 PM #30
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Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Realtor Top 1%
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Hey, Sheila, I'm on board with that too. Rarely do I look in the rear view mirror, there is no point in it. I don't spend much time thinking about the future, either. Although I do have a trip planned for next February that could very well morph into a motth long adventure, but I'm not planning anything other than making deposits. Not yet time to plan much.

Feb 19, 2019 07:31 PM #31
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Sheila Anderson
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Hi Elizabeth. I wonder where you are going? I think you referenced it but I forgot. Thanks for stopping by.        Sheila

Feb 20, 2019 09:14 AM #32
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Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
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What works for one doesn't necessarily work for others. Me, personally...past, future whatever... I remember, I reflect, I anticipate, plan and worry. I cover all bases. Not saying it's a good thing or even that "it works" for me. I just don't know any other way of being.

Feb 20, 2019 11:21 AM #33
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Sheila Anderson
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Thanks again Sharon. For me it was an evolution. TY           Sheila

Feb 20, 2019 11:47 AM #34
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