Simple Isn't always easy.......

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

It happens every day. Someone represents one thing but their agenda is different. Jealousy is a dirty word but even a worse reaction to success. I thought this only happened at work but I was wrong. I saw this recently in another arena. At my stage of the game, I am not interested in playing games. I guess that means counting only myself. I can handle that and will. Simple isn't always easy.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

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Rainmaker
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I will Michael. TY      Sheila

Apr 16, 2019 01:11 PM #5
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Sheila Anderson
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The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Me too Myrl. Thanks so much.       Sheila

Apr 16, 2019 01:12 PM #6
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Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
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Hi Sheila: I think you are wise to  move on--in our world today there seem to be variables on communication...and direct, face to face communication is avoided in most cases--That leaves all involved subject to assumption and since assumption begets something else entirely, it is really best to move on! I personally think we are all falling victim to the new-age, lack of direct human contact (i.e. the internet and it's intrusion into our personal lives!) phenomenon. It leaves us feelng like we don't matter to ANYBODY!

Apr 16, 2019 01:15 PM #7
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Paula. Someone told me something and then changed their mind which is OK butthey denied what they initially said and we made eye contact. TY   Sheila

Apr 16, 2019 02:58 PM #8
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Leif Price
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Keep it simple and easy.  Words that bear a heavy weight on a person, depending on the perspective.  We move on, towards a new chapter of a journey. 

Apr 16, 2019 07:11 PM #9
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Sheila it is unfortunate but many operate with different ethics and morals... I just ignore them as much as I can or grouse to Diane:)Endre

Apr 16, 2019 11:55 PM #10
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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Realty - Topsfield, MA - Georgetown, MA
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I have learned that when people are involved life is not simple Sheila Anderson 

Apr 17, 2019 01:46 AM #11
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James Dray
Fathom Realty AR LLC - Bentonville, AR
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Morning again Sheila.

What seems simple to us in the past was a difficult if not down right impossible task.  Jealously is just a part of life, sad to say

Apr 17, 2019 02:16 AM #12
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Leif.       Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 05:00 AM #13
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Endre. That's good advice.     Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 05:02 AM #14
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good observation Doug. TY        Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 05:03 AM #15
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I guess James. TY     Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 05:04 AM #16
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Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
New Hampshire Home Stager

Simple isn't always easy.

I've used that in staging many times. "It's simple in concept, but not easy to accomplish for most sellers."

Apr 17, 2019 06:01 AM #17
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Sheila Anderson
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The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi again Sharon. Well said. TY     Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 06:14 AM #18
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Joe Pryor
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I have just encoutnered that with issues with a Florida HOA. People never cease to surprise me.

Apr 17, 2019 07:28 AM #19
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Joe. Ain't that the truth.      Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 07:34 AM #20
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Liz and Bill Spear
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Life's too short and I don't have the patience to be jerked around.  More and more I'm willing to cut the toxic out of my life as quickly as possible.  Bad clients, bad people on Facebook, whatever, time to go bye.  Bill

Apr 17, 2019 11:54 AM #21
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Well said Bill. I think you are smart. TY       Sheila

Apr 17, 2019 01:50 PM #22
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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Out with the toxic, in with the kind, supportive relationships, Sheila! Life's just too short to have to deal with drama! 

And, I totally agree - jealousy is THE most wasted emotion one can have - it serves NO purpose and it only makes one seem immature...and not someone we want to be around either!

Apr 22, 2019 08:56 AM #23
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Sheila Anderson
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Thanks very much Debe.       Sheila

Apr 22, 2019 09:27 AM #24
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