Just a Thought...Why Not Just Smile and Move On?

Reblogger Barbara Todaro
Services for Real Estate Pros with RE/MAX Executive Realty 104763
https://activerain.com/droplet/5jqL

Good advice for all.... read and heed....

Original content by Kathy Streib

Just a Thought...Why Not Just Smile and Move On?

 

When  I was a little girl, if something was served for dinner that I didn’t like, I was taught not to make a big show of not liking it.

Just don’t eat it. Don’t push it all to one side of the plate and separate it just a toughtas if it were a crime scene.

 It would have been rude to say for example “I don’t like cauliflower.” It would also have been very obvious if I’d made a point of eating everything but what was pushed all the way to one side of the plate.
What purpose would it serve?

 

This doesn’t just occur at the dinner table but in other life situations.

 

Unless specifically asked is it always necessary to let your opinion to the contrary be known?

 

We see it in social media comments (including ActiveRain) and I often wonder what is it the person is hoping to achieve.

 

Is it to show some kind of superiority? Is there some kind of narcissistic need to make everything about them?

 

We all see this in comments on Facebook or other social media platforms. And yes, nice as we are here, there is the occasional commenter who just can’t help themselves.

 

You don’t like a post? You don’t like the kitchen in the house that is featured in the member’s listing? Who asked you???

Just smile and move on!

 

Oh and if there is a typo or something like that, be kind. Send the blogger an email or text or pick up the phone and call them. It truly isn’t necessary to announce to others that this person had an “oops” moment.

 

 Kathy Streib 

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Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
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What a great choice for a repost. Just smile and move on - and keep your mouth shut

May 21, 2019 04:25 AM #1
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Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Barbara, for sharing this excellent reblog selection.

May 21, 2019 04:41 AM #2
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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Realty - Topsfield, MA - Georgetown, MA
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This a good post and it's advice is good Barbara Todaro 

May 21, 2019 04:43 AM #3
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Donald Urschalitz
One World Realty Inc. - Jupiter, FL
P.A. Realtor ABR RSPS North Palm Beach County

If a post is so negative I like to post something like this.

 

May 21, 2019 04:53 AM #4
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Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Realtors - Luxury - Divorce

The rule in our house was you had to TRY everything...at least a little...except for beets...you had to have two or only one of your cheecks would be "rosy"...and we believed it !

May 21, 2019 05:01 AM #5
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Barbara. Kathy should get kudos for this one. As a terrible typist and consistent blogger here in the Rain, my friends constantly call out my "oops" in private.

As for certain blogs. if I can nothing say something nice, I just move on! Enjoy your day!

May 21, 2019 05:27 AM #6
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of Manchester NH's Leading Agents

A great choice of re blogs Barbara Todaro . I hope things are well. It has been so busy i have missed a lot of AR time as of late. But happy i can catch up a little this morning

May 21, 2019 07:38 AM #7
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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Just  smile and move on, Barbara, Kathy came up with the way more people would be.

May 21, 2019 07:57 AM #8
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
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Barbara,

I loved this post, and so glad you re-blogged it.  And I did comment on Kathy's post. A

May 21, 2019 12:17 PM #9
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George Souto
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Barbara, Kathy provides good advice in this blog.  But unfortunately even here on AR we have those who feel it is their duty to correct others, even when it will not serve any constructive purpose.

May 21, 2019 03:14 PM #10
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Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
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Had to stop by and thank you for the reblog BarbaraT

May 21, 2019 05:48 PM #11
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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
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Morning Barbara.

Kathye does make a good point doesn't she?  I just passed on making a comment on a post a few moments ago

May 22, 2019 02:33 AM #12
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