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Well, bless your heart.

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Real Estate Agent with Jameson Sotheby's International Realty

I showed property to a lovely young couple.

They were from out of town, and very unfamiliar with the home-buying process. Exactly the reason why buyer's agents have a job.  This is a confusing process, and it's handy to have help from someone who can guide you through the process.

We spent the weekend looking at a lot of properties.  Many different prices, many different communities and many different styles.

The were cute as the dickens, and asked insightful an piercing questions about each property.  In short, they were a delight.

As we finished our last showing on the last day, and they were ready to head back to their home town... they thanked me generously for my time and guidance... it's always nice to know that what you do is appreciated.... and then she asked if it was appropriate to tip me.

For those of you who know me, I am rarely speechless, but this one gave me pause.

I told her "No... you don't need to tip me, but aren't you sweet to ask."

"So," she asked "What's the appropriate protocol?"

I told her that the protocol was that we find the house that best suits you, you purchase that house, and I earn a commission.

She understood, but I was so touched. This was another first in my career. I'd never been offered a tip since my days waiting tables. It's been a long time.

Posted by

 ALAN MAY, Realtor®   
Specializing in Evanston Real Estate and North Shore Real Estate

Jameson Sotheby's International Realty, 2934 Central Street, Evanston, IL 60201
Office: 847.869.7300      Cell: 847.924.3313      Email: Almay@aol.com

Evanston Real Estate & North Shore Real Estate
Licensed in Illinois

   

Comments(5)

Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

Now that is sweet! I wasn't sure where you might go with a title like that.  I lived in Tennessee for 5 years and that phrase had many meanings depending on the tone of the voice and how it's said.

Jun 03, 2019 05:04 PM
Alan May

yep... my in-laws were from Savannah, and my ex-wife was from Nashville... I've spent a lot of time below the Mason-Dixon line, and know exactly what that means...

Jun 03, 2019 07:04 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

TRULY A FIRST, Alan May!

They are blessed to have such an excellent agent on their side. 

Jun 03, 2019 05:31 PM
Alan May

It was a lovely sentiment... I truly appreciated it.

Jun 03, 2019 07:04 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Alan now the question is will the remember to be loyal to you and buy with you? Seriously loved to story and glad it was nice... I have heard horror stories before...Endre

Jun 03, 2019 11:15 PM
Alan May

we all have horror stories we could tell

Jun 04, 2019 05:39 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Alan - homebuying protocol doesn't require tipping but it's often interesting what moments like this teach us about "thinking fast".  Good job.  

Jun 04, 2019 09:10 AM
Alan May

My thinking has seriously slowed down over the years... uh... what were we talking about?

Jun 06, 2019 07:15 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

In 30 years nothing like that has happened to me and I think this is very cool.

Jun 05, 2019 01:09 PM
Alan May

It was a first for me, too.

Jun 06, 2019 07:16 AM