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Be open to surprises . . .

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

I am the worst at surprises. Like my wife, I tend to like planned spontaneity, but life doesn't always cooperate. Sometimes, it just surprises you, and you just have to roll with it. When you do, some amazing things can happen.

I've been on a trip for the past two weeks. The day before I left, my computer decided it didn't want to accompany me on the trip. Sadly, I needed it, and in spite of it not working, it came along for the ride. Thank God I live in the time in history that I live in. I was able to use my phone and my tablet to do business for the first eight days.

My younger son, and 4 year old granddaughter, joined me on day 7 and we started discussing the possibilities for repairing the computer. After a trip to Best Buy, and a solid-state drive and a new operating system, life is back to normal. I taught my son to build computers 19 years ago, and he taught me to repair my laptop this week. That was a nice surprise. Oh, and it cost 1/3 of a new computer. That was a nice surprise too!

While I was standing on my balcony at the beach, I saw what looked like a family of 7 taking beach pictures. They were all dressed in like-outfits and it was fun watching them. There were four daughters, one son and mom and dad. There was also one extra fellow who was shooting pictures. From my balcony, I assumed he was the photographer. He wasn't dressed the same.

After a number of group shots, the girls went out on the beach for individual shots. They were hilarious. You would thought Vogue had just dropped by and saw this handsome family and decided to do a beach photo-shoot. Each daughter posed a few different ways and then the next one ran to that spot and the process started over. It was very entertaining.

When the final individual shots were taken, one daughter walked backed out to the beach followed by the young man who had been taking photos. It didn't take long to realize they were a couple. Mom started shooting pictures of them as a couple, and then, the young man knelt down and proposed to the daughter. She did the typical shocked look and accepted the proposal, which was followed by lots of hugs, photos and cheering from the condos surrounding the area. It was funny, a corporate cheer went up when the young man knelt and the daughter shook her head in agreement. The three condo buildings who were watching became a part of the surprise. 

The third surprise on my journey happened in Walmart. No, it didn't involve shoppers in their pajamas, an Elvis impersonator or a great deal on flip flops, but it did involve shoppers. I was in a long line of shoppers who were waiting for their turn at the self-check-out. I noticed the young woman behind me had one item. I turned to her and encouraged her to go ahead of me because I had at least a dozen things to scan. She decline, and I insisted and she moved ahead. 

The young shopper turned around and placed a ten dollar bill on top of my items. I said, "Oh no, you don't need to do that," but she wouldn't relent. I just laughed and checked out. I was thinking, I could stand in that line all day for $10 a piece. I was running the numbers in my head and realized at three to four dozen and hour, I'd be rocking. I'd make a nice profit for my efforts. I could start a seminar teaching people how to make a living shopping at Walmart. 

Of course I'm just being factious, but here is what I want to show you in that event. I went back to my hotel with my fresh $10 bill in my pocket. When I exited the elevator, I saw a young housekeeper just beyond my room and I felt the Lord tell me to give her the money. I walked over to her and told her how the money ended up in my hand and I told her that God wanted me to give it to her. She looked dumbfounded, but she quickly grabbed the money and said, "Thank you." That was a nice surprise for her and me.

Always be open to surprises because some are loaded with good things. Even if you're like me, and you don't like to be surprised, there is a reason they happen. Some days, you may be the surprise giver and somedays you may be on the receiving end, but be open. Have a great day, and I hope life surprises you today.

 

Comments(17)

Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good afternoon Mike Cooper, GRI -  when you get a nice surpise pass it on.  I love it.

Jun 11, 2019 12:36 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good afternoon Mike. This is wonderful and I really enjoyed reading it. Surprises are nice.

Jun 11, 2019 12:54 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Thanks for the surprise story Mike Cooper, GRI and as Golmer Pyle use to say, "Surprise, Surprise, Surprise!"  Jeff 

Jun 11, 2019 01:00 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Mike,

What a wonderful story, and what a great example of passing the surprise on.  I enjoyed your story.  A

Jun 11, 2019 01:05 PM
Leif Price
Chirpy Home - Portland, OR
Blogger at Chirpy Home

It put a smile on my face as I was reading it. Nice, little surprises and passing it comes a long way.

Jun 11, 2019 06:42 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Mike what a roller coaster ride of a story on a side note loved it and how it all ended... nice to see good come our way when the least we expect it, Endre

Jun 11, 2019 11:24 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Mike.

What a delightful story you shared with us today.  I'm looking forward to the surprises that will great me today

Jun 12, 2019 02:24 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

How wonderful! Thank you for sharing your surprises!

Jun 12, 2019 03:45 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Mike - not everyone likes surprises but your experience certainly had a happy twist.  PS  I hear there is a new seminar how to turn your Walmart shopping trip into a bag of riches.  The cost:  Priceless.  

Jun 12, 2019 08:20 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Mike- I so love your post. I do love surprises and these are the kind that are the cherries on the hot fudge sundae of life. 

Jun 12, 2019 08:13 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

                            

                            Thank you, Mike. 

Jun 15, 2019 06:44 PM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Aww, this is a sweet post, Mike. I love everything about it and will be open to any surprise today. We are out showing houses, so you never know. D 

Jun 16, 2019 07:48 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Mike, this is a great post, and I'm happy Kathy Streib featured it in her "What I learned this week...." post. We should be open to surprises, the good and not-so-great, celebrate the good and share the happiness.

Jun 16, 2019 08:14 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Congrats on the feature by Kathy this week!  Terrific post!

Jun 17, 2019 07:06 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Mike, this post brought tears to my eyes. I don't like surprises but love to bless others, clearly, you did that at Walmart. Have a wonderful week!

Jun 17, 2019 07:32 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thank you, we should all be open for surprises as you never know what might happen.

Jun 17, 2019 08:12 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

LOVE LOVE LOVE this!!!!

I'm happy you had some really nice surprises...some can be quite horrible.

I do that "go ahead of me" thing at the store all the time and have yet to be paid for it. I must be doing it wrong. LOL

Jun 19, 2019 06:54 AM