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How to Choose the Right Senior Living Option

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Real Estate Agent with Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, TREC #0492321

Where to live when you need care is a decision that seniors need to think about sooner than later. Both aging in place and moving to a care facility require careful planning, and seniors who wait to think about senior living might not be happy with where they end up. If you’re recently retired, use this guide to start planning for your senior living needs.

Senior Living

Planning for Senior Living: 3 Questions to Ask

1. Is your home safe for aging in place?

It’s natural to want to stay home as you age, but your home might not be the safest living environment. Homes with staircases, narrow hallways, and closed-off floor plans present barriers for wheelchair and walker users and seniors with other mobility problems.

2. Do you have access to family care-giving?

Family care-giving makes aging in place far more affordable, but not all seniors have access to family care. Seniors should discuss family care-giving before the need arises and prepare to make alternate arrangements if relatives are unable to provide care. Unfortunately, the high personal and financial costs of being a family caregiver are too high for some loved ones.

3. Can you afford the costs of in-home care?

If family can’t meet your care-giving needs, you will need to arrange for in-home help. While you might not need in-home care today, the majority of seniors require long-term care services at some point. In-home care can be costly; whether it costs more or less than assisted living depends on how much care you need.

Remodeling vs. Moving to Age in Place

If you’re committed to aging in place but your home has safety hazards, you have two options:

 

  1. Remodel your existing home.
  2. Buy a home that’s already accessible.

 

Before deciding to remodel, consider the size of your home. Are the house and property small enough that you’re able to maintain them yourself, or will your home become a burden as you age? If your current home is unmanageable, moving is the best option.

 

If you stay put, determine the home modifications needed to make your home safe for aging. Common aging-in-place renovations include:

 

  •      Installing a wheelchair ramp.
  •      Installing grab bars and a walk-in shower in the bathroom.
  •      Replacing door knobs with lever-style handles.
  •      Widening doorways.
  •      Installing slip-resistant flooring.

 

Your home may require additional modifications depending on its design. As such, make sure you have an accurate understanding of what aging-in-place remodeling will cost by getting estimates from local contractors.

 

If remodeling isn’t affordable or practical, research the cost of downsized homes and discuss selling your current home with a real estate agent. Even if a new home costs more than your existing home, it may be worth it to avoid the hassle of remodeling.

When Assisted Living Is the Better Choice

If you’ve done the math and the costs of aging in place are greater than you can afford, consider assisted living instead. While assisted living isn’t cheap — assisted living ranges from $1,500 to $7,778 a month in San Antonio — it’s more cost-effective than remodeling your home and paying for full-time in-home care. Assisted living also simplifies life for seniors who require caregiving. For instance, instead of coordinating caregivers yourself, staff is readily available to help with personal care, medication management, and meal preparation. However, assisted living isn’t for seniors who need around-the-clock care — seniors with advanced care needs are best served in nursing homes, whereas assisted living caters to seniors who want to maintain some self-sufficiency and live in a private home-like environment.

 

Many people have a negative view of assisted living, but with a wide range of assisted living communities in the Naples area, most seniors can find a community where they feel content, secure, and comfortable. The best way to choose an assisted living facility is to tour several and get a feel for what you want in a living environment.

 

Aging in place is a worthy goal, but for some seniors, it’s simply not practical. Rather than choosing your living environment based on preference alone, consider which senior living option best fits your care needs and your budget. While it’s hard to leave home, the most important thing is making sure you’re cared for as you grow older.

 

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Comments(13)

Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Jerry, Great blog and has a lot of lots of great points to have for seriors.  Make it  a great day!

Jul 30, 2019 09:22 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Jerry... great post. As a senior, myself, all I can say is thank God I have no forseeable need to worry about adapting my house or in-home care or moving to assisted living.

Jul 30, 2019 09:35 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Thanks, Will Hamm Wishing You the Same. Go sell more homes!

Jul 30, 2019 11:04 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Nina Hollander I am also a senior in my 70's now, and we are looking at living in place, and making some adjustments in at least one of our bathrooms. It's a decision with all have to consider as seniors.

Jul 30, 2019 11:07 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Jerry - having options is a good thing for everyone and especially seniors as they consider different living situations.  Good advice and a terrific conversation starter for an important topic.   

Jul 30, 2019 11:36 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Yes, Michael, This is a topic that come up when assisting seniors with their housing needs. It's nice to prepare for the future. 

Jul 30, 2019 11:42 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Jerry Newman - I just sold a home to two  85-years-old who are buying a bigger home....to house a live-in when the time comes. Both are very healthy right now. 

Jul 30, 2019 12:08 PM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

That's wonderful, Sheri Sperry - MCNE® I imagine they needed more space for all their grandchildren and family. Seniors needs will vary. 

Jul 30, 2019 04:53 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Jerry... I too am a septuagenarian... but in my head I only 35 and I live as much as I can as if I'm only 35. I'm a big believer in mind over matter!

Jul 31, 2019 06:46 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Great way to approach life, Nina Hollander You certainly look like 35! We have all aged gracefully. 

Aug 01, 2019 09:57 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

It is good to see your continued commitment to assist seniors with their housing needs.

Aug 03, 2019 02:11 PM
Jerry Newman

Thanks, Roy. As a senior myself this was very helpful information.

Sep 18, 2019 12:26 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

Having looked around at some places for my dad, I can say that some are very desirable and make me want to move in!  We all need to start thinking about it sooner or later.

Sep 17, 2019 08:41 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089 Yes, so true! I will certainly have to start thinking about them myself soon too. 

Sep 18, 2019 12:27 PM