Motivational Monday - Conquering Life's Setbacks, One Tire at a Time

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Real Estate Agent with www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 228209

Motivational Monday - Conquering Life's Setbacks, One Tire at a Time

If you follow my motivational posts each Monday, you probably think I'm hung up on attitude and not allowing set-backs or diagnoses, etc. to keep you from your ultimate goal. Well, I try to focus each week on one person in my life who needs a little motivation - and as it happens, attitude has a lot to do with much of what we deal with in life!

Today we needed a little hospital room humor after the doctor's visit and how appropriate is this?...

 

Conquering life's setbacks, one tire at a time

 

We often get hung up on one little negative and it can truly set us back exponentially, if we allow it to do so. One negative story in the newspaper doesn't mean that all of the news is negative - read it and move on to the positive stories! Life is much the same when our goals are being impacted by that one little nagging negative.

 

Yes, we need to know what that one negative is (oftentimes, simply not to repeat history) but, dwelling on it has a huge impact on our overall well-being, our overall attitude and ultimately, the achievement of our goals.

 

Happy Monday - Stay Motivated!

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | Motivational Monday - Conquering Life's Setbacks, One Tire at a Time

Comments (52)

Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

You're so right - it IS a choice, Michael Jacobs. It would be nice if everyone honed in on the positives, for sure! 

Aug 21, 2019 07:06 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

You're so welcome, Leanne Smith! Thank you for stopping by and for the kind comment!

Aug 21, 2019 07:07 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Thank you, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP - I left comment #17 for you yesterday or day before and didn't realize I didn't tag you! 

Aug 21, 2019 07:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Hi James Dray! Most days it is so much easier on us to just grin and move on - you're so right!

Aug 21, 2019 07:09 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Today was even better, Will Hamm! He was actually making us (his sister and me) laugh this morning as we were video-conferencing with him! ❤️ 💕 

Aug 21, 2019 07:10 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Ouch! I absolutely hate getting flats and it seems that we get them so much more often these day - especially in the new construction communities, Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland

Aug 21, 2019 07:11 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Aren't you sweet, Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate! I'm so happy to see that you've added a new post. I totally understand how we get so busy and wrapped up in the moment, we forget to post. I typically wind up posting most of my blogs for the week on Sundays - the only day that I take off...most of the time!

Aug 21, 2019 07:13 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate

I have had to spread my time out because I handle numerous sites (two of my own websites, Google My Business, two Facebook pages, my own photos for listings, my own fliers...you get the drift). I noticed that I wasn't really getting business from my AR blogs, but I've learned a tremendous amount about SEO, so time here in the past wasn't wasted.


It became a bit more social than anything else. So...had to find some balance. That and a new puppy, my hubby's career shifting completely and a new 100' garden--all this year!! 

Aug 21, 2019 08:06 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Thank you so much for your sweet comment, Christine O'Shea! I really do try to stay positive. Life is just too short not to, right?!

Aug 21, 2019 07:13 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

I remember learning about having an attitude of gratitude years ago, Nick. I thought, "Oh, that'll be super easy - I'm always grateful..." As positive as I am, it took some thinking some days to truly focus on that mindset. Now, it's second nature but, boy, who knew it could be challenging?!

We live such fast-paced lives that we forget to take time to focus on our gratutities. And, boy, you're SO right, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543, some days, it's a little too overwhelming but, we DO push through!

Aug 21, 2019 07:17 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Oh, I am so sorry, Tammy Lankford, I had no idea you were going through that. You know you can always pick up the phone and call me. I do know that there are times like that - you really just want to get through it on your own! Just know - call if you need me! ❤️ 

Aug 21, 2019 07:18 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Everything we do after a negative event can be changed. I just don't think that everyone realizes that sometimes it's best just to step back and think rationally - realistically! I remember my Dad's lesson - more often than I care to mention - "If it's not going to matter in 5 years, put it out of your mind!

So far, that has served me quite well in life, Jeff Dowler, CRS!

Aug 21, 2019 07:20 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Oh thank you, George Souto! You know, most of the time it takes me longer to create the graphic than to write the post! LOL So, it means a lot that you noticed!

Aug 21, 2019 07:22 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Holy guacamole, Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate - and I thought my life was full! You are amazing to get all you get done, DONE! I need some of your energy, please?!!

Aug 21, 2019 08:14 PM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate

You have a TON of energy, missy! One of the reasons why we understand each other. We just get'er done, don't we?? I miss talking with you. 

Aug 21, 2019 08:16 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Love this quote at the top, it's a keeper.

Aug 21, 2019 08:54 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

LOL I know - we need to resume! Ray started his Denver stint and it's exhausting going back and forth. I am living by my calandar but, not sticking to our calls and I feel horrible. Hopefully someone will take the baton and allow me to be a participant for a few months...or permanently! 

Hugs, Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate!

Aug 21, 2019 09:08 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Well, thank you, Kris Collis! It was fitting for a situation someone near and dear to me is going through...and he's notorious for honing in on the negative...no matter how small! 😝 

Aug 21, 2019 09:09 PM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Debe Maxwell, CRS , it is so true that there is so much life and power in the attitude.  A setback should not make you want to slash the three good tires...'  nor want you to take a huge paint brush and make a big 'X' on your newly painted large canvas.  Setbacks, obstacles, challenges are all part of the lesson we are learning.  Great post, Debe!

Aug 23, 2019 09:48 AM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

A little late to this party but a day ahead of Monday!  So agree.  If one person or article sets you back, get back up and focus on the next goal, the next positive thing.  You of all people do a great job at subscribing to this advice!  Happy Monday a day early!

Aug 25, 2019 05:38 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

Thank you so much, Jane! I am in total agreement with you - "Setbacks, obstacles, challenges are all part of the lesson we are learning."

Sep 01, 2019 07:56 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
www.iCharlotteHomes.com | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The right Charlotte REALTOR!

You're never too late to my party, Jan Green! And, indeed I do - I am guilty of being the eternal optimist - always! 

Have a great week ahead!

Sep 01, 2019 08:01 PM
Jan Green

You too!  Best of luck to you and Ray!

Sep 02, 2019 10:30 AM

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