Take control of your phone

Real Estate Broker/Owner with Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside

Dear Readers -

Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR, from Austin Texas, offers posts that benefit readers and challenge conventional thinking. You will find this post about phones meets her high standards. 

Her suggestions about using cell phones (or NOT using them!) reminded me of an anecdote I heard.  A group of men and women met for a business lunch every couple of weeks. After a few meetings,    they discussed the interruptions a plethora of electronics can cause. Their idea was simple: put all of  their devices in a big bowl in the middle of the table when lunch started. Whomever answered first had to pay the lunch bill for everyone! 

Let me recommend other posts Dorie contributed to the ActiveRain community. Her topics announce business goals, describe Listings and paint a general view of Northwest Austin.

All the best - Lynn


From Dorie's Blog --- a few suggestions:

 ***   Video of Austin in the Spring   ***  Open House Cancelled    ***  Too Late         

 ***  Home Ownership - It's an Adreneline Rush          ***  Repeat Clients


PS  If I haven't had the opportunity to thank you personally for your reading my posts, let me do so now. I enjoy writing and am delighted you stopped by. Love reading your comments as well. L.


Original content by Dorie Dillard Austin TX

We've all become addicted to our phones and need to take back control! We can find anything on them..look up words, find out what time your favorite football team is playing, what restaurants are close by, use Google maps to find your destination, answer calls, texts, emails from family, friends and clients, check social media sites, its never ending!! We can choose so many different covers to change our look! The list continues to grow with each shiny new app that is sure to make life easier.  But has it really made our life easier or become a crutch we can't live without and distracts us from life?

A friend sent me this link to a list of common sense ways to keep our phone from taking over our life! Productivity coach Chris Bailey shared 7 strategies to help us take back control of our dependence on our smart phones!

  • #1. Use airplane mode even when not in the air. Brilliant! Put those calls on hold when trying to give our total attention to someone or something we are trying to concentrate on. # 2. Do a phone swap. When you are trying to enjoy time with friends swap your phone with a friend and monitor texts and calls. Only allow an important communication to be handed to your friend.
  • #3. Designate a "distraction" device. I love this one..put all your social media, games and apps you use for fun on one device like your  i-pad. You will consciously have to determine if you want to be distracted!
  • #4. Create a "mindless" folder. If you just can't make yourself designate a distraction device then at least create one folder for all your distractions on your phone.
  • #5. Prune your apps.  Never hurts to clean house.
  • #6. Mind the gaps. Stop checking your phone constantly! Enjoy your downtime and use little breaks to reflect and recharge.
  • #7. Think twice before adding a new device to your life. Are you just "hiring" another device to do something for you? Just another redundant app? Stop,  evaluate and add only those into your life with thoughtful intention.

Excerpted with permission from the new book Hyperfocus: How to Be More Productive in a World of Distraction by Chris Bailey, published by Viking, an imprint of Penguin Publishing Group, a division of Penguin Random House, LLC. Copyright © 2018 by Chris Bailey.

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Comments (2)

John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Yes, this was worth reblogging.  Thanks, Lynn.  Phones are very important for communications, especially in emergency situations.  But having them available to watch movies, scan YouTube, etc. is a real distraction from essential tasks we need to do every day.  Love the story about the lunch bowl.  Thank you!

Oct 01, 2019 04:27 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-939-2727

John Henry 
Yes, the perfect tool for procrastination! Enjoy your day - Lynn

Oct 01, 2019 09:06 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Lynn I don't go anywhere without my phone, but I guarantee I would not be the one picking up the food bill ..... LOL

Oct 01, 2019 02:12 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-939-2727

George Souto 
That probably only happens to a member of the group one time - Right? Take care - Lynn

Oct 01, 2019 09:04 PM