What Would You Do Over? Mulligan Day is October 17

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What Would You Do Over? Mulligan Day is October 17

 

What if someone gave you a do-over in your life?  Better yet...what about 3 or even more?  

 

We’ve all thought about it.  Maybe you would have pushed harder for a high-just a thoughtend listing or started developing your niche earlier in your Real Estate career. 

 

The thing about mulligans or do-overs is that it makes us think about our choices.  Why is it that we made that choice?

Or, maybe we didn’t. By not choosing, it was made for us. 

 

There are some things we’ve done or choices we’ve made that cannot be taken back.  Only the Higher Being could do that.  

 

What we can do is learn and move on. Wishing for what might have been can be counterproductive.  

 

 When I was younger, I had 3 things I would have done differently if given the chance. 

 

However, the older I get the more I realize that sometimes the things we think we’d do over are the very things that made us who we are. We experienced things that we may not otherwise have. We met people that we wouldn’t give up for anything. 

 

And you?  What would you do differently?




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Nina Hollander
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Hi Kathy... I can think of one big thing I'd have done differently in my life, which I'd rather not discuss in public, but that being said, at the end of the day I believe my life turned out the way it was meant to do.

Oct 17, 2019 04:42 AM #2
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Donald Urschalitz
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I am not sure what is wrong with me but I never look back since you can not change history. However, I will keep my mulligans for the future.

Oct 17, 2019 05:09 AM #3
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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
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I don't think I would change anything, but I might change how I prepared or reacted to situations that arose and that most likely would have changed the outcome and the direction of my life. But, I believe I am where I am meant to be right now.

Oct 17, 2019 05:14 AM #4
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Wayne Martin
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Good morning Kathy. As I get older some of my wrong decisions lead to wonderful opportunities. So, yes a mulligan would be nice but not necessary. Enjoy your day!

Oct 17, 2019 05:31 AM #5
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Sheila Anderson
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Good morning Kathy. I think this is interesting. I have thought about this too and ultimately tend to agree. I wouldn't change anything.

Oct 17, 2019 05:47 AM #6
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Michael Jacobs
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Hello Kathy - many of us, me included, could spend a lot of time playing a game of woulda - shoulda - coulda but it's more productive to be doin and ponderin.  

Oct 17, 2019 06:21 AM #7
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Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
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Hi Kathy Streib

I bought in on the ground floor of Starbuck's. I would never have sold that stock as early as I did! 

Oct 17, 2019 07:17 AM #8
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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
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I am not sure I would change anything. If you did, many other aspects of your life would change as well, some not for the better. I say concentrate on tomorrow...not yesterday.

Oct 17, 2019 07:18 AM #9
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Krystin Mitchell, CPA CFE
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"What we can do is learn and move on. Wishing for what might have been can be counterproductive."

I've pondered a lot about times when I would like a do-over, but I've come to realize that those critical moments are the one that has molded me into the person I am today. 

Oct 17, 2019 07:42 AM #10
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Good morning! Not sure there is anything I would want to do over again. I will have to think a little more about it. But I do like the name "Mulligan Day!" 

Oct 17, 2019 07:42 AM #11
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Brian England
Arizona Focus Realty - Gilbert, AZ
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Geez, the list sure would be long, haha.  It would take me days to compile, so I think I will just forget about all of my sins of the past and rejoice in how wonderful the future is!!!

Oct 17, 2019 07:53 AM #12
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Candice A. Donofrio
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NOTHING. Nothing.

And bad mistakes, I've made a few

I've had my share of sand kicked in my face, but I've come through!

Oct 17, 2019 08:44 AM #13
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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This seems to be a question that so many coaches ask - what would you do over, given the chance? I know there are times that we wish we could take something back, times that we say, "Oh, if I could do that all over again!" but, honestly, I can't think of a time that didn't wind up having some sort of silver lining. 

The icing on the cake is always that we learn something from it. I believe that accepting our decisions in life also helps us be more adaptable to change as well as being more attentive and careful with our decisions. 

Oct 17, 2019 08:45 AM #14
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Grant Schneider
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Good morning Kathy Streib - exactly right regarding thinking if we had done something different.  We would not be who we are and in some cases might not have the spouse or family we have now.

Oct 17, 2019 08:45 AM #15
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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Kathy,

A very interesting thought, and I would not change a thing, neither one of us would.  It brought us to where we are today...no regrets. A

Oct 17, 2019 10:50 AM #16
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George Souto
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Kathy this would be a VERY long comment if I was to list all of the mulligans I need ...... LOL

Oct 17, 2019 12:19 PM #17
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Well  sure I've made mistakes but so what, I either had more fun than ever or it was really just stupid. Everyone does, right.  I think of everything as water under the bridge - let it move out and onward.

Oct 17, 2019 12:42 PM #18
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
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I wouldn't change much, even though there have been many missteps along life's journey.  It's all about the lessons.  You can't grow without 'em.

Oct 17, 2019 04:47 PM #19
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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CONGRATULATIONS Kathy, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!  

Oct 17, 2019 04:49 PM #20
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James Dray
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Morning Kathy.

I would have went to college sooner than I did, would have went into the military and would have gone into the real estate bis sooner

Oct 18, 2019 01:21 AM #21
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