Level With Me.

Commercial Real Estate Agent with Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker AZ BR 528507000

I LOVE to watch comedy and my new favorite is DEON COLE. Ha!


Cole Hearted is a new Netflix addition. Excellent!

And the shoes. You gotta see it.


One of the points Deon made during his standup was that we are all at 'levels'. And people make connections at one level, then get stuck there when they're really meant to ascend higher in life. 

We all should be continually growing, leveling up!

Hopefully our life mate, our tribe, our families will level up as well.


Our businesses.


Of course of course of course, this is vibrational alignment.


One of my counseling clients, a beautiful, bright, talented young'un who is IMO WAYYYYYY too YOUNG to even CONSIDER 'divinely coupling' but is dead set on 'getting married and having a family STAT'


has set her sights on a young gentleman LEVELS below her. They are great together as friends, companions, romantically.


But, as my eternal flame Harvey Reginald Specter used to say . . .



She wants it 'up here' and he's perfectly content . . . haha . . . being a dumb, simple YOUNG guy.


Okay sister, you can either wait, stuck, or you can spread your wings and level up to where what you want REALLY resides!


Every experience develops the soul.

We encounter folks in our business who clearly are not aligned with us. Some are potentially lucrative clients. But the weight of their resistance could (doesn't have to, but could) ultimately leak energy that could be allocated to more positive alliances.


What do you do when you FEEL that 'resistance' from a prospective, and interview and evaluation indicate they cannot be 'developed' productively during the time you will share together?

3 choices:


  • Accept, and take on the risk.
  • Bless and release.
  • Refer to someone more suited.


 You can't level with me? You don't have to.

But if you are underfoot, that interferes with my dancing!




Choose wisely and win big!



🎶I am focused on what I am after

The key to the next open chapter

Cause I found a way to steal the sun from the sky

Long live that day that I decided to fly

from the inside🎶



Comments (6)

Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Solutions - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

I love and adore the line . . . but if you are underfoot that interferes with my dancing. Wouldn't it be nice if young'uns could see with the wisdome of age? With five daughters, there aren't many days I don't wish that they could.

Oct 14, 2019 10:53 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

NOT getting married in my early twenties was the best decision I ever made.

Oct 16, 2019 01:26 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy


We definitely practice catch and realease... Wishing you a wonderful week ahead. A

Oct 14, 2019 11:53 AM
Candice A. Donofrio
You as well!
Oct 14, 2019 12:10 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Hi Candice-absolutely love your last line too ...you can hang at your level all you want but don't get in my way of reaching the level I want. 

Oct 15, 2019 05:25 PM
Candice A. Donofrio

Right. Easier to dance without someone else's resistance. 

Oct 16, 2019 01:24 PM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Great piece of writing, - excellent post.  Your clients are so fortunate to have you as a counselor, better still as a spiritual life coach.  Also loved the humor and fun in the post,   Candice A. Donofrio.

Oct 16, 2019 01:22 PM
Candice A. Donofrio

Thank you! <3

Oct 16, 2019 01:24 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Candice, I am love stand up comedy as well and watched Deon's special--have always liked him on Blackish and Conan show.  So many comics I like...Bill Burr, Sebastian Manascalco, Neal Brennan, Ali Wong, ...I could go on and on!

Oct 19, 2019 08:18 PM
Candice A. Donofrio
I love to laugh, our jobs are serious enough.
I saw Dave Chappelle's latest, brilliant.
And I really miss John Leguizamo and Carlos Mencia.
Ali Wong! Hilarious!
Oct 20, 2019 05:41 AM