"Why wait for the holidays to celebrate? Every day is special."
Pictured from left to right:
Aunt Norma, paternal Grandmother, me, my Dad, and my brother in front.
This picture and the others I have from those early days are some of my most valued possessions.
When I was a young child, I got really excited about Christmas just like every other kid. I remember leafing through every page of the Sears catalog and making a list for Santa. I also remember sleeping on the couch sure that I would catch Santa when he came to deliver presents. Unfortunately, I was a sound sleeper and never got to meet Santa.
Many of you know my Mother died when I was 7 years old and on Christmas Day in 1963 (when I was 11), my Dad was taken to the hospital and never came home again. He was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer that had metastasized into his brain. It was a long 5 months that spanned through New Years, my brothers birthday and my birthday the following Spring.
I've learned lessons from just about everything in life and these tragedies are no different. I learned early on that you shouldn't wait to celebrate. I learned at a young age that every day is special and worth celebrating.
I do love Christmas music and the decorations, but I like to think of every day as if it is worth celebrating. For that, I am very grateful.
Give a gift, send a card, make a special meal. Why wait?
This is my first entry into Debe Maxwell, CRS's November Gratitude Challenge.
What a story you have shared and it is a great lesson you learned young. Life is short. Savor each day.
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
Hi Carol Williams,
It appears we are the same age. I also remember thumbing through the Sears catalog. The Winter or Christmas print was very thick as I recall.
Don't wait to celebrate, it may be too late!
Losing parents at a young age, especially during the time of an important holiday has got to be really tough. I'm glad that from the tragedy you developed a belief that every day given us is reason to celebrate.
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Roy Kelley
Gaithersburg, MD
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
CONGRATULATIONS Carol, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Club group!
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
Morning Carol.
I remember those Sears catalogs. Can't agree more, why wait.
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Roy Kelley
Gaithersburg, MD
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
You are so right, every day is worth celebrating, even if it was a bad day. There is always something to be thankful for and to celebrate!
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Roy Kelley
Gaithersburg, MD
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
Hi Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
If we're the same you're aging way better than I am! Maybe I need more of that Sedona air.
Hi Myrl Jeffcoat
Gosh... thank you so much for the Feature in the Old Fart's Club. We aren't guaranteed any tomorrow's. There's no time like NOW.
Hi James Dray
I still enjoy leafing through catalogs but they're not like the good old Sears catalog, are they?
Hi Brian England
There's no time like now, eh Brian?
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Brian England
Gilbert, AZ
Thank you very much for sharing some of your personal story.
Have a very special weekend.
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
Hello Carol - you shared the importance why each day/each moment is so important to share our thankfulness. Yes, why wait? Indeed.
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Carol Williams
Wenatchee, WA
Hi Carol:
I think this is the right attitude to have each and every day!
Jeff
Good morning Carol Williams - that is something that certainly stays with you. Every day tell someone you love them or how much you care.
Carol,
Thank you for reminding us of your story-and to be grateful every day.
You're welcome Roy Kelley . Thank you for stopping by to read my little story.
Hi Michael Jacobs
Every day is as special as we make it, isn't it?
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Love seeing the photo of your sweet young face. You are such a resilient and positive woman, Carol. I'm so lucky to know you.
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