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It's A Real Estate Deal - NOT LITIGATION!

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Commercial Real Estate Agent with Next Wave RE Investments LLC Bullhead City AZ Commercial RE Broker AZ BR 528507000

Talkin' about agency, an eternal point of contention from my first year in this blessed, infernal biz. 

 

A respected colleague said, "Do you really want to hire the same lawyer the other guy's using to sue you?"

 

Well . . . wait a minute.

 

Reminded me of one of many clients we've fired over the years. A litigation paralegal. Felt that if the other guy wasn't in agony, the deal just wasn't good enough.

 

This is real estate. This is not litigation. 

 

We are not attorneys. We don't need an adversarial climate to win.

In fact, it's counterproductive.

 

I prefer my mindset on what constitutes a successful RE transaction.

 

If everyone's HAPPY . . . we made a great deal.

 

Sure, we want the best and most for our people, whether we are working for one or both sides. Usually quite doable, when folks realize that in real estate and in life . . .YOU DON'T GET IT ALL.

 

But you do get what's right, if you're doing it properly.

 

So focus on happy, fair, decent. Not destruction of 'the enemy' who is in actuality 99.999% of the time a good human being trying to do the best they can.

 

They won't sue you. They will, however, remember you. And send their trusted friends.

 

No matter which 'side' you were on. 

 

 

 

🎶 Beautiful loser

Read it on the wall

and realize

You just don't need it all 🎶

Comments(8)

Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Company - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

Boy, howdy, does this resonate. This should be drilled in to the brain of every new agent who think they know what they're doing. THIS IS NOT A FIGHT. Good post, my friend!

Nov 09, 2019 05:32 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

Thanks, pretty woman! I get exhausted at the pitbulls. Just present something clean and be cool. We all want to do this!

Nov 09, 2019 05:37 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Candice - I wonder if there is some type of a connection to "winning"?   Buyers sometimes think "we won" in a multiple offer situation or a certain phase of the negotiation that is taking place.  Today's feather duster could have been yesterday's peacock.  Who won?  

Nov 09, 2019 05:50 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

LMFAOOO


Today's feather duster could have been yesterday's peacock.

Nov 09, 2019 05:58 AM
Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

I loved Mimis" response.  Can't get no better than that.

Nov 09, 2019 06:46 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

She's a lovely mellow woman who gets it done!

Nov 09, 2019 07:14 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Candice,

We live in a world that praises winners of all types. So many go out and win without regards to ethics or common decency.  And I love Michael Jacobs statement, Today's feather duster could have been yesterday's peacock.  A

Nov 09, 2019 07:09 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

I know right? Lots of wisdom in these comments! I personally am drawn the the quiet feather duster. Maybe a feather boa! LOL

Nov 09, 2019 07:15 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Candice- first of all I too loved Michael Jacobs feather duster/peacock comment. Buying or selling a house is not a game where only one person can win, although, I'm sure that it's turned out that way sometimes. Set out to do what you can to help the seller get their home sold and for the buyer to find their home. 

Nov 09, 2019 03:34 PM
Candice A. Donofrio

Right. And try to avoid acting like Trump meets Leona Helmsley on steroids! LOLLLL!

Nov 09, 2019 03:42 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Candice A. Donofrio - I hate the adversarial relationship.  I like to build concensis.  You never know however like Michael Jacobs comment.

Nov 10, 2019 07:42 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

IKR! LOL
Consensus is always the goal . . . 

Nov 10, 2019 08:02 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Candice.... this is a great post and I hope it gets FEATURED. There are many new agents flocking into the business in my area too who promote win-win in their advertising but they are really practicing win-lose and arm-wrestling with the other agent without putting the needs of the their clients first and being cooperative. 

Thank you, for writing such a great blog post!

Nov 11, 2019 08:01 AM
Candice A. Donofrio

Aww, thank you! I hate real estate nazis! And I've had the other side come to me for their next deal bc I was the cool one . . . LOL 

Nov 11, 2019 09:21 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP

Candice A. Donofrio IS the COOL one!!!!


 

Nov 11, 2019 09:43 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

People seem to confuse the two a lot these days! You’re not the only one who goes through this by a longshot.

Nov 12, 2019 09:33 PM