Thankful for the Chemo Bell

By
Real Estate Agent with Falcon Property Solutions

CANCER SUCKS

I wouldn't wish cancer on anyone and I refuse to make a big deal out of it in my life. I don't have cancer, but for the past six months I've had chemo.

 

Every two weeks, four days the first week and then recovery time, I have been injected with poisons to kill some radical cells that were floating around my body after a massive tumor was removed. I refuse to let it get me down, but I have to admit there were weeks it kicked my ass. And the more the weeks progressed, the harder it kicked.

 

Quite appropriately, in the early morning hours of Wednesday, November 27, 2019, the day before Thanksgiving, I got to ring the chemo bell. All of my daughters were with me, a few of their friends, my grandkids, and the amazing staff at the Infusion Center at Memorial Hospital Central in Downtown Colorado Springs that have supported me throughout this journey were there to cheer me on. To me it was symbolic of the end of this season of my life.

 

It is my understanding that the next few weeks will be difficult as I readjust, as the toxins leave my body, and as my body is shocked into remembering what it was like without the poison. I've got thirty extra "steroid pounds" that I didn't have when I started, so getting rid of those will be a priority. 

 

I've had one of the busiest real estate years in my career, but I'm taking December off to regroup, refocus, realign what's important, and figure out what I want to do in the new year. In other words . . . GEL.

 

So thank you all for your unbelievable support. I'm thankful for all of the meals, the flowers, the cards, the house cleaning, the visits to just sit and talk. I'm thankful for the calls, the well wishes, the prayers, and the kind words and thoughts. 

 

The truth of the matter is, it's been a lonely journey. Although I had to do it myself, I couldn't have done it without the support of my friends and family who have been there for me. From the bottom of my heart . . . thank you. 

 

I'm ready to make 2020 my best year ever!

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Comments (35)

Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Congratulations to you for ringing the bell and for being who you are! You have been through the ringer  and I am amazed at your fortitude and attititufe.... You are a role model to be admired and looked up to! God Bless you and keep you safe and sound

Nov 29, 2019 12:15 AM
Mimi Foster

I so appreciate your kind words. Ready to be hale and hearty again!

Nov 29, 2019 06:53 AM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
Exceptional Agents, Outstanding Results

Morning Mimi.

I bet you were glad to right that bell.  Now, take a much deserved rest, we'll see you in 2020

Nov 29, 2019 01:56 AM
Mimi Foster

Thank you so very much. Rest seems like a delightful idea. :) 

Nov 29, 2019 06:55 AM
Jay Markanich
Jay Markanich Real Estate Inspections, LLC - Bristow, VA
Home Inspector - servicing all Northern Virginia

I have never heard of the chemo bell but very glad you got to ring it!

And hopefully that and the family helped make for a spectacular Thanksgiving!

Nov 29, 2019 03:05 AM
Mimi Foster

It was so much fun to have them all together. It is sometimes like herding cats, but you always know when you've been in the presence of the Foster girls. 


Hope your Thanksgiving was memorable and surrounded by those you love.

Nov 29, 2019 06:59 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, Blackstone Realty Group - brokered by eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

I am so glad to hear you rang that bell. Congratulations and I hope your Thanksgiving day was a full one. And I also hope your December is healing and peaceful.

Nov 29, 2019 06:12 AM
Mimi Foster

Thank you, Kat. I've never had a peaceful December so I'm really looking forward to finding out what that looks like! Hope you're settling in.

Nov 29, 2019 07:01 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

I thought about you yesterday Mimi, remembering you were finally done with your chemo treatments. I'm guessing Thanksgiving was filled with love, laughter, and gratitude.  Your post brought to tears to my eyes. You are a warrior goddess - much love and healing.  2020 is going to be very kind to you and your family - I just know it. 

Nov 29, 2019 07:24 AM
Mimi Foster

Thanksgiving was indeed a time of rejoicing. I am SO READY! Hope yours was wonderful, as well.

Nov 30, 2019 09:55 AM
Brian England
Vacasa - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I am so happy to hear that you are finished with chemo and it is wonderful that you have such a supportive family!  I have learned that support is what matters most when someone is going through something like that, they should not have to go through it alone.

Nov 29, 2019 07:56 AM
Mimi Foster

When I first started with chemo, the doctor looked at my motley crew and said, You're going to be just fine with this kind of support. And I am. Thank you. 

Nov 30, 2019 09:56 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Mimi, congrats for finishing the chemo. I hope and pray for a cure to cancer in our lifetime.

Nov 29, 2019 01:23 PM
Mimi Foster

Amen to that, Mike. Thank you.

Nov 30, 2019 09:56 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Mimi,

Ringing that bell surrounded by the love of your family, friends, and supporters must have been the sweetest sound you ever heard. Congratulations on achieving the honors to hear that bell ring. The love you received throughout this journey is so special. May the next couple of weeks go by swiftly to heal and clean your body of all toxins. To ring that bell the day before Thanksgiving Day 2019 must have felt triumphant! I'm glad you have the support and the love of the Village that cares. Know that we here on ActiveRain rejoice with you and wish you good health. 

Nov 29, 2019 02:42 PM
Mimi Foster

Regrouping to figure out the best way to now get rid of all of the chemicals, Patricia. I foolishly thought when I was done I'd be all better. But I'm seeing it is a process and I'm ready to get on with it. Bless you. Your sweet words meant a lot.

Nov 30, 2019 09:59 AM
faye schubert
Branson, MO
Living the Branson Lake Life

So thankful that you beat cancer and rang that bell! What a joyous bell ringing that is!

Nov 30, 2019 07:03 AM
Mimi Foster

It was a delight! Thank you!

Nov 30, 2019 09:59 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Mimi, it's a wonderful feeling to be done with all the treatments, isn't it? Focusing on regaining strength and taking steps to boost the immune system is powerful. One thing I learned is how wonderful a nap is! 

Nov 30, 2019 07:20 AM
Mimi Foster

Thank you, Lottie! I resisted naps for a long time. Then my doctor said to me one day, What do dogs do when they don't feel well? They're smart enough to nap and regain their strength. I've been a believer ever since. LOL Want to study ways to boost the immune system. Shocked at how weak I am.

Nov 30, 2019 10:01 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

Congratulations, I rang the radiation bell earlier this year and know some of what you are feeling, although what you went through is much harder. I am taking time now to decide what next year is going to include. I wish you all the best, those next weeks take some time to get over, and glad you were warned it will take a little time, so go easy on yourself and enjoy your friends and family. 

Nov 30, 2019 07:31 AM
Mimi Foster

Congratulations, Nick! I didn't believe it, but I'm finding out that it is taking time. Are you back to normal? My husband finished radiation two weeks ago and refuses to slow down, but at least he's sleeping longer at night. Thank you for your kind words.

Nov 30, 2019 10:03 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV, MD
Cornerstone Business Group Inc - Winchester, VA
Your Neighborhood Real Estate Sales Pro

Congratulations, Mimi! I bet that was an emotional bell ringing with all you've been through. Let's trust that 2020 will be a healthier year for all of us. 

Nov 30, 2019 02:08 PM
Mimi Foster

Emotional, indeed, Mike. And so amazingly joyful. Thank you.

Dec 01, 2019 07:45 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Attitude is everything in ushering in good health and wellness and you have that covered....to a wonderful recovery !

Nov 30, 2019 11:40 PM
Mimi Foster

Thanks so much, Sally. If attitude can get it done, I have it covered! 

Dec 01, 2019 07:45 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Mimi Foster ,

I'm thrilled you were able to ring the chemo bell with your loved ones. You have this! I know 2020 will be a kick butt year for you!

Dec 01, 2019 05:41 PM
Mimi Foster

Sure looking forward to it, Dorie. Bless you.

Dec 03, 2019 06:27 PM
Jana Holmstrup
Jana Holmstrup - CCO - Kings Mortgage Services, Inc. - Visalia, CA

Heartwarming! Enjoy your chill time - and take care of You!

Dec 02, 2019 06:35 PM
Kimo Jarrett
WikiWiki Realty - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

We are Blessed everyday with a miracle, yet many don't realize the gift they have been given until they learn about the uncertainty of their daily miracle. I visited a friend in the hospital yesterday who is battling cancer, taking chemo and also battling sepsis by receiving loads of antibiotic drugs. He's been knocked down but not knocked out and his attitude of faith and determination will prevail, and like you, he too will ring the bell. Blessings to you for your tenacity because it takes more courage to fight to get up than it is to give up and be counted out. Wishing you all the best in your adventures of life. 

Dec 02, 2019 09:12 PM
Mimi Foster

Thank you so much for your kind words, Kimo. I pray a swift and positive outcome for your friend. 

Dec 03, 2019 06:27 PM
Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in German and Real Estate * M.A. ABR ASP

I am super late to the party Mimi Foster but I'm here with a grateful heart! I am so happy to see this post and wonderful picture, and to hear the strength in your voice. Enjoy your month off. Enjoy the holiday season. Enjoy your beautiful family! Everything else can wait. Love, and hugs, and all the very best wishes! 

Dec 03, 2019 10:09 AM
Mimi Foster

Thank you so much, sweet friend. Never too late. Port comes out next week. Looking forward to all of it. Hugs.

Dec 03, 2019 06:25 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Far too many people are diagnosed with cancer...what is it??  Chemicals in our food, our enviornment, DNA?  My husband has prostrate cancer, early detection, so he's getting ready to start some radiation treatments.  Mimi you have such a positive attitude and thanks for posting this blog, even more inspiring to others with cancer.

Dec 05, 2019 07:44 AM
Mimi Foster

Thanks so much, Mary. My husband just finished his prostate radiation two weeks ago. They have come a long way. I wish you nothing but positive results every step along the way. 

Dec 05, 2019 07:53 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

Popping by to wish you well. Hope you're feeling stronger day by day. D 

Dec 05, 2019 08:38 AM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Wow!  So sorry to hear you had to endure that "drama" called chemo.  UGH!  You are obvioiusly very strong, but yeah the lonely part of going it alone must have been rough.  Good for you to have so many friends and family to help you.  Kudos to you and wishes for a great 2020!  Happy Holidays!

Dec 22, 2019 11:56 AM

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