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And it Works.............

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I have been rolling along for the last several years: doing what I do and being who I am. Things were pretty good and I was content. Last year however I made a couple of subtle changes, mostly in my thinking and as a result of these things have for the most part really been a lot better.

I turned the big seven zero and decided that I was good enough and completely whole as I am. I am easier now and pay a lot more attention to the world around me. I actively decided to travel more, to make new friends and I welcomed a new dog to my pack to honor the one I lost.

I remember a long time ago hearing "that nothing is so good or bad that thinking won't make it so." I always thought this was true but last year I dedicated myself to it and viola.......it works.

I made two trips last year: Mongolia and Egypt. I normally travel once a year. Both of these trips were terrific and I made new friends on each. This year I already have two trips booked and I am planning at least one more.

I consciously made a couple of more friends where I live as well, and one is traveling with me in June. Was I just lucky? I don't think so. I believe that my thinking made all the difference and things definitely come to those who believe they will and decide to be open to them. Yes I decided to be open to much more, and believe that made the difference. When I look back to my life in the past I think I may have been closed to the future. No more.........and you know what? It works.

I took this yesterday. This lovely flower bloomed inside: just like me.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Comments(120)

Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Sheila Anderson - good for you!  I can't wait to see your posts on your different travels this year.

Jan 13, 2020 12:07 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Sheri. Stay tuned.      Sheila

Jan 13, 2020 12:09 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Sheila:

Wishing you another wonderful year of travel, new friends, happiness and further discovery of who you are.

Jeff

Jan 13, 2020 08:10 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I had the "decision" to open myself to joy in the world again in 1998. 1997 was a terrible year and left me bitter and sad.  1998 was the best fall ever... Donald came into my life and made it complete.

Jan 13, 2020 09:28 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you very much Jeff. That is the plan.      Sheila

Jan 14, 2020 05:00 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Tammy. I am ever so happy for you.      Sheila

Jan 14, 2020 05:03 AM
Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

Hi Sheila,  What a lovely post, just like the flower and just like you! :)

Jan 14, 2020 09:19 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Ricki. You are very kind.      Sheila

Jan 14, 2020 09:30 AM
Laura S. Baker
First Weber Inc - Lake Mills, WI
Realtor (920) 728-4118, First Weber Inc

 Sheila Anderson, you were already such a treasure!  I definitely like the way you think.  Here's to a most amazing new year!  Happy Birthday!

Jan 14, 2020 10:10 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you so much Laura. i appreciate your support. My birthday is in April but I will always take a present. TY     Sheila

Jan 14, 2020 10:41 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Sheila Anderson - just stopped back again to congratulate you on recognition for your wonderful post.

Jan 18, 2020 06:34 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you very much Grant. I so appreciate your support.     Sheila

Jan 18, 2020 06:38 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Sheila Anderson ,

I'm so glad that Carol Williams featured your post in her Second Chance Saturday series! A very inspiring post...good for you...age is just a number it doesn't define us.

Jan 18, 2020 02:23 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Dorie. Carol is very special and I couldn't ever even buy a feature. This is better because it is sincere.     Sheila

Jan 18, 2020 02:33 PM
Ray Henson
eXp Realty of California, Inc. (lic. #01878277) - Elk Grove, CA
Realtor

My wife just retired last year and wants to do more traveling.  It has really been hard for me to let go and join her.  Just this morning she is flying to Florida to scout out retirement areas and I am boarding a flight to go home and work.  A couple more years, though, and we will be on the same page. 

Jan 21, 2020 04:07 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Raymond. Don't wait too long, life is short. TY    Sheila

Jan 21, 2020 04:59 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Wonderulf!  I"m so happy for you Sheila!  It's amazing when you open yourself up to those around you, life around you.  And you've grown and bloomed because of it!  Good for you! 

Jan 23, 2020 12:08 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Jan. I am in a good place.       Sheila

Jan 23, 2020 12:12 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

A positive attitude and openness to new experiences and new acquaintances is working well for your, Sheila Anderson 

Mar 09, 2020 04:58 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

It is John. TY     Sheila

Mar 09, 2020 06:38 PM