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The Mortgage Advice & Options Un-Married Couples Need to Know

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Mortgage and Lending with NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 IL Lic 031.0006220/WI

 

 

The Mortgage Advice & Options
Un-Married Couples Need to Know

 

 

It probably comes as no big surprise, when it comes to the housing market, the younger generations make up the largest percentage of home buyers.

 

The following statistics from the National Association of REALTORS® Research Group April 2019 Report proves that to be true ...

  • Millennials made up the largest share of home buyers at 37%. (Breakdown:  Older Millennials (Ages 29 yrs to 38 yrs) made up 26%.  Younger Millennials (Ages 21 yrs to 28 yrs) made up 11% of the shares reported)
  • 86% of Younger Millennials and 52% of Older Millennials were first-time homebuyers


But the info that caught my eye, in particular, is the significant percentage of homes reported as being purchased by buyers that are unmarried couples.

 

  • 8% of those homebuyers reported in the NAR Report were unmarried couples.  The highest share of unmarried couples being found in the 28 years of age and younger age group.
  • Supporting statistics from a recent Coldwell Banker Marriage and Homebuying Study show that 25% of Millennials purchased their home with their current spouse prior to being married.  (That number has grown rapidly, as in 2015 only 1 in 5 buyers were unmarried couples) 

 

My own client database backs-up these reported statistics.  The number of calls and inquiries I've received from unmarried couples (and single homebuyers) has grown over the last few years.  I have found ... that despite the additional concerns sometimes confronting young unmarried couples when buying a home ... they are choosing to buy homes together in larger and larger numbers.  

 

What advantages found in homebuying are compelling young unmarried couples to take this action in larger number?

  • Buying with someone, regardless of marital status, improves home affordability
  • With rent costs on the rise, 2 incomes expand the opportunity to buy a home
  • 2 incomes expand the opportunity to save a downpayment
  • 2 Credit Reports and 2 sets of Credit Scores can be considered for Mortgage Application
  • The likelihood of being approved for a mortgage and a larger monthly payment is typically greater
  • There is a joint responsibility for expenses such as utilities, etc.
 

But there are some challenges to buying in this manner too ...  

 

There are differences in HOW un-married couples must complete a mortgage application versus those of their married counterparts.  While simply addressed, those differences must be thoroughly explained by a lender and then equally considered by un-married mortgage applicants.  

 

But beyond those more "mechanical" differences in application and process, there are other considerations it is wise to proactively address by those considering purchasing and financing in this manner.

 

With so much on the line, it's vitally important that all those considering this type of home purchase fully educate and protect themselves.  A long honest conversation between all parties involved is called for prior to taking any action, prior to signing any contract to buy or applying for mortgage financing. 

 

It is my recommendation to my clients hoping to buy in this manner, that they secure the services of a real estate attorney at this time.  It is a sound decision and action to take. 

 

An experienced knowledgable real estate attorney will help the buyers navigate all the issues specific to this type of home purchase.  Then they will assist them in taking actions to protect themselves.

 

What should be discussed at this time?  

 

It is suggested that these issues should be discussed and/or resolved ahead of time:

 

  • Credit and Financial Health  (Credit Scores directly influence mortgage options, interest rates, borrowing capabilities, etc.  Be upfront and completely honest, as all will be revealed at the time of mortgage application. Go to:  www.annualcreditreport.com to receive a free credit report)
  • What percentage of the house each party owns
  • What happens if the friendship/relationship dissolves?
  • What happens if the couple marries?
  • What if someone dies? (Who receives their share of the home?) 
  • What if someone becomes disabled?
  • What if one of the parties wants "out"? 
  • Who and how is mortgage financing applied for?  
  • How are monthly costs and responsibilities to be split?
  • Who claims real estate tax benefits?
  • How are needed repairs covered?  And by whom?
  • Who sees that the monthly mortgage payment is made?
  • How are disputes resolved?
  • How and Who will you hold title to the property?  (Options may vary depending on the state you live, but options are typically:  Joint TenancyTenants in Common)  
  • More ...


As uncomfortable as broaching the topic may seem, it's wise to consider undertaking a legal contract between parties ... a "prenup" if you will ... before starting the home buying or financing process.  Rules and actions for all parties involved in the purchase are resolved ahead of time this way and everyone involved is protected. 

 

Then after these actions have been taken you can begin your home buying journey with peace of mind and knowing you are well-protected.  Your lender will be able to review and find your best financing options.

 

If you are ready to take these home buying steps anywhere in the Chicagoland area - or Illinois and Wisconsin, reach out to me today @ www.genemundt.com.  

 

Together, we'll research all your mortgage options and decide which serves your needs best moving forward. And, as always, I suggest that my customers consult legal advice for all matters real estate related (understanding that NOT ALL transactions or states require or involve attorneys). 

 

 

* Hoping to buy or refinance a home or investment property in New Lenox - Will County or elsewhere in the Chicagoland - IL - WI area?

Contact me today. 

 

I'll put my 40+ years of mortgage experience hard to work on your behalf.
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Comments(34)

Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

Perhaps my largest segment of new buyers are unmarried couples. I can also tell you an increasing flow of listings comes from unmarried couples who bought a home, had no plan, no agreement an dthen broke up. 

Jan 16, 2020 06:12 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

I appreciate your commenting on that fact, Scott Godzyk ... as this issue rears its head for professionals in many different ways.  You see another facet of it than I.  Plus you provide concrete evidence proving exactly why taking proactive measures are so important.  Thank you ...


Gene


 
Jan 16, 2020 07:51 AM
Diana Dahlberg

Sad but true.

Jan 16, 2020 06:10 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Gene - understanding the different segments of the buyer pool and the financing that is available to all helps make a better real estate professional.  Nicely done.  

Jan 16, 2020 06:30 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Often we are called upon to be advisors, Michael Jacobs ... we may not know the specifics, but we can speak to the need to seek answers and additional professional guidance and service ...


Gene


 
Jan 16, 2020 07:53 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

This posting is like having a magic mortgage lamp and you rub it and out comes Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi ...giving you 3 loan options all good

Jan 16, 2020 01:47 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

This humble genie thanks you, Richie Alan Naggar  ...


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 09:53 AM
Jerry Thomas-Construction Loans
Cranbrook Loans - Farmington Hills, MI
Construction Loans in MI, OH, PA, VA, GA and FL.

Great information, espcially how to hold title.

Jan 16, 2020 05:42 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

All considerations to be discussed, Jerry Thomas-Construction Loans ... thank you for your thumbs up ...


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 09:54 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Gene:

This is such an informative post for unmarried couples and one they should read before they get too far along. Title is a big issue that needs to be addressed, your list of other issues to be addressed is a terrific help.

Jeff

Jan 16, 2020 05:55 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Thank you so much, Jeff Dowler, CRS ... appreciate your kind words ...


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 09:55 AM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

Thank you for writing this informative post geared toward Millennials and especially unmarried couples.  The main message is to do your research and have the "hard" conversations "before" you start shopping for as home.

Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi since you work Wisconsin and Illinois we should get together for a cup of coffee sometime.  I already work with a number of lenders but I always appreciate your informative blogs and want to "think of you" when I am working with a buyer needing expert advise. Let me know if you are ever in the Kenosha area and we will meet-up for coffee!

Jan 16, 2020 06:13 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Consider it done, Diana Dahlberg ... greatly appreciate the opportunity to meet and talk.  Thank you ... I will be in touch ... or feel free to call me when you have some time for that coffee!


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 09:56 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Such good advice - Any time unmarried people make any kind of purchase together they should think through all of those questions, and have a written agreement to address them.

I think it's especially important in a love relationship - even more emotions are involved.

Jan 16, 2020 08:29 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

What you say is so very true, Marte Cliff.  You're right ... emotions can run high.  Best to hammer everything out in concrete when that is not the case ...


Gene


 


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:00 AM
Eva B. Liland Century 21 Doug Anderson
Century 21 Doug Anderson - Lancaster, CA
Glad to be of Service 661-714-1643

With home prices going up and up, I can see more people trying to find a way to share expenses with someone in a similar situation. Those are some serious questions for the buyers to answer before getting in too deep Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi .

Jan 16, 2020 08:33 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

I don't mean to scare anyone off of buying in this manner, Eva B. Liland Century 21 Doug Anderson ... as this can be a very solid solution for those looking to become homeowners.  But I want them to slow down just long enough to take precautions that will protect them should things change in the future.  I think you're right, it's a growing percentage of the market ...


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:03 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

There's no commitment with unmarried couples so I advise against any large purchase  especially real estate and to remain in control of your assets without odious terms and conditions. 

Jan 16, 2020 11:16 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Whether married or unmarried, ownership of property holds some terms and conditions, to borrow your terminology Kimo Jarrett.  I would suggest that all couples, no matter their legal standing, have preliminary talks prior to buying.  


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:06 AM
Ron Aguilar
Gateway Mortgage Group - Saint George, UT
Mortgage & Real Estate Advisor since 1995

Excellent topic to discuss and very timely in our present. Since 1995 as a Mortgage Loan officer I have offered all my first time home buyers which are usually younger buyer way before the Millenials were born, free tax preparation. This allows me to have that conversation with them about getting your finances etc in position to buy a home. 

Jan 17, 2020 06:57 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

I like that approach to building towards a purchase, Ron Aguilar ... true assistance.  True advisor.  And certainly the earlier your help/intervention is implemented, the better.  Applause!


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:08 AM
Laura Filip
Laura Filip Broker , Opening doors for All Seasons of Life - Whitesboro, TX
What can we do for you today?

This is a wonderful topic to discuss. One must think about all the options to obtain a mortgage on a home. What works best for each group. Visiting with an experienced loan officer is very important. I highly recommend speaking to someone trusted. 

Jan 17, 2020 07:33 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

The old saying, "where there's a will, there's a way" certainly applies to homebuying, Laura Filip.  There's more than one way to achieve success ...


Thanks for commenting!


Gene 


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:09 AM
Greg Mona
West USA Realty - Scottsdale, AZ
Professional Real Estate Representation for YOU!

 This is great information the have, Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi.  I honestly was surprised at these numbers, but then when I stopped to think about it, it does seem to reflect the current market among millenials. Thank you for sharing these interesting statistics and the recommendations to go along with them.  

Jan 17, 2020 08:56 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

I, like you, appreciate the info shared via the surveys and reports, Greg Mona ... in this case, and others.  Every once in a while you can have a real "Ah-HA" revelation ...


Appreciate the comment,


Gene  


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:11 AM
M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

This is such a great blog post Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi        

May I reblog this? 

Out here in California, average home prices in Santa Cruz, the Silicon Valley and San Francisco are between $1 million and $1.75 million,   I have a LOT of buyers who aren't married and I bring up these same points for them to figure out together.

 

Jan 17, 2020 09:05 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Thank you for your kind comments ... and certainly feel free to re-blog, M.C. Dwyer.  I hope it proves beneficial to your readers and clients ...


Gene  


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:14 AM
M.C. Dwyer

Thanks Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi 

Jan 17, 2020 10:38 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi ,

Congratulations on a well deserved feature post! An informative post to help buyers who are thinking of making a home purchase and all the options one available.

Jan 17, 2020 10:15 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Thanks, Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR ... you're always so kind.  I appreciate your support ...


Gene


 
Jan 17, 2020 10:40 AM
Rob Spinosa
US Bank - Larkspur, CA
Mortgage Loan Originator, Marin County

Great post.  We see a lot of this too in CA, so my experience echoes yours.  With the high cost of living in many coastal areas, it's really a challenge for a single, younger buyer to go it alone. 

Jan 18, 2020 05:03 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Different times ... differing challenges mean different solutions must be forged, Rob Spinosa.  Buying in this manner can be the perfect solution, if proper protections are in place.  I hope that our phones are ringing with those considering this method all year long ...


Gene 


 
Jan 20, 2020 08:02 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi - Great article and so worthy of a feature!  I really do not think that most people would think of all the scenarios that you have covered with your questions.  

Another reason why an experienced mortgage professional such as yourself is needed to help guide people who do not fit into a conventional relationship for the purpose of a mortgage or homeownership. 

Jan 18, 2020 07:16 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

You speak to why it's so very important to speak with a Mortgage Lender early in the homebuying process ... really once you've decided to buy is the best place to start, Sheri Sperry - MCNE®.   There are so many solutions that now exist for buyers.  Time to explore them, then properly work towards them, is important ...


Gene


 
Jan 20, 2020 08:04 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

We often see this type of scenario with our multi-gen homes. How to protect all parties, who is going to be on title? It's complicated and so important to get the questions of "what if" hammered out prior to the purchase. Most of the millennial we deal with in our business are purchasing with a mom, or dad, or both.  This segment of the population is a huge demographic and we all need to better understand how to service them. 

Jan 18, 2020 07:45 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

I love that you mention this segment of the population buying in this manner, Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD ... as it's not always the stereotypical "couples" that face these challenges.  Thank you!  A wonderful addition to the comment thread and our education ...


Gene


 
Jan 20, 2020 08:06 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

Unmarried couples NEED to read this post. So many pitfalls that can make the best relationship go south. Everything is "all'' good until the relationship sours and one or the other parties wants out OR they want their money back. It's not that easy. Great post.

Jan 20, 2020 04:41 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

You nailed it, Robert L. Brown ... while initially an uncomfortable undertaking, it remains far less so in comparison to the troubles, should everything "go south".  Appreciate the assessment ...


Gene


 
Jan 21, 2020 11:34 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Excellent information for anyone new to the home buying market.  I get to have these conversations and regularly refer them to annualcreditreport.com to view their credit.  Managing expectations helps them to understand the process.  

Jan 23, 2020 03:11 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is excellent advice to share with prospective home buyers.

Feb 09, 2020 09:54 AM