Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

It is nice to have a safe haven from the storms of life. Love the quotes especially the one from Barry Spud.

Mar 18, 2020 07:38 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Sharon Lee good morning, Sharon... I liked that quote as well... it was just so "real."

Mar 18, 2020 07:40 AM
Rose Mary Justice
Synergy Realty Pros - Dandridge, TN
Synergy Realty Pros

Home is where our hearts are.  Now more than ever we realize that our homes are our safe place to be and thankful for that.

We will Do what we can to stay safe and not be a carrier to harm someone else.

Mar 18, 2020 07:45 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Los Angeles Pasadena 818.516.4393

Hello Nina - "Back To  Nasics" is always in style...it's a solid foundation.  For home and for so much more.  

Mar 18, 2020 07:45 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nina,

Like you we have always looked at our various home as a sanctuary and a safe place.  Wishing you. a great day.  A

Mar 18, 2020 07:47 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Rose Mary Justice good morning, Rosemay. You and I think alike in this regard. I'm more concerned about people who might be thinking they don't need to do what's needed to keep themselves and everyone around them safe.

Mar 18, 2020 07:47 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Michael Jacobs good morning, Michael... if the current situation isn't teaching us all about what a back to basics life/home is about, I don't know what would.

Mar 18, 2020 07:48 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Ron and Alexandra Seigel hi Alexandra... my home has always been my sanctuary and I can't say I've ever lived in a dangerous place... but my own perspective of my home being a safe haven is more refined than it was even one week ago. Happy Wednesday!

Mar 18, 2020 07:50 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Nina, I see more people that cars are not leaving their homes and working from home.  Other then the grocery store I have only left to show homes on Sunday!

 

Mar 18, 2020 10:04 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Home is also my sanctuary Nina. In that we are more fortunate than many.

Mar 18, 2020 10:31 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Will Hamm hi Will... for now, I think it's better not to even show homes. My concern is that there are so many people out there that are asymptomatic that they don't even know they are spreading the virus... and we can't tell either.

Mar 18, 2020 11:57 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Lottie Kendall hi Lottie... an awful lot of people treat their homes like a roof with four walls. It does the job of being their shelter... but they don't think of it as a sanctuary.

Mar 18, 2020 11:58 AM
Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

Beautifully written.  I echo those same sentiments.

Mar 18, 2020 12:16 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Francine Viola hi Francine... I suspect many of us are "reassessing" our relationships with our homes during this time of "quarantine."

Mar 18, 2020 12:38 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Nina I have always felt safe in my home, and continue to feel that way.  My home is what I make it.

Mar 18, 2020 01:01 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

George Souto for sure, George... as in many aspects of life... it's what we make of it. My home has always been my safety net from an emotional standpoint, but I've grown to appreciate its safety from a physical standpoint in a way I hadn't done previously.

Mar 18, 2020 01:08 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Nina - at this time especially you can say our home is safe have.  It is our most important asset.

Mar 18, 2020 01:17 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Grant Schneider hi Grant... the concept of our homes as a safe haven has taken on a whole new meaning in the past week or so.

Mar 18, 2020 01:21 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Nina Hollander - in regards to home ownership, this is in my opinion the best post to date! And of course, it couldn't be more timely!!!

Mar 18, 2020 01:23 PM
Mimi Foster
Falcon Property Solutions - Colorado Springs, CO
Voted Colorado Springs Best Realtor

I love this post, Nina. And I'm so thankful for this place of refuge. I just wish all my chicks could be here with me so we could play games and snuggle like we did when they were kids and the electricity went out. Thanks for this encouraging post.

Mar 18, 2020 06:59 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Hi Nina- love this post, and I can relate. I know the feeling I get when I walk into my home, whether it's after being gone all day, on a trip, or just when I need a place that is away from what's going on. 

Mar 18, 2020 07:04 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
Exceptional Agents, Outstanding Results

Morning Nina.

I made a long comment on this one, just to find out when I clicked (post) I received a notification of (Bad Gateway).  Oh Well!

Mar 19, 2020 01:51 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP thank you, Patricia. I would hope this post was "timely" as it was written specifically for the situation we are all living in right now. Be safe, my friend.

Mar 19, 2020 04:22 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Mimi Foster thank you so much, Mimi... I suspect after this pandemic is over, we will all be looking at our homes a bit differently than we have in the past. And, hopefully, appreciating our families and loved ones more than ever. 

Mar 19, 2020 04:23 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Kathy Streib thanks, Kathy. Your comments reminded me of what I say to clients who are on the fence over several houses and ask me which one I'd pick... I always tell them to go into their mind's eye and see which house they see themselves coming home to after a long day at work or a trip. 

Mar 19, 2020 04:24 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

James Dray now that's bummer, James... and now you'll have me wondering all morning what you wrote! :)

Mar 19, 2020 04:25 AM
Roy Kelley
Realty Group Referrals - Gaithersburg, MD

Dolores and I are staying at home and are in the social distancing mode. 

Mar 19, 2020 06:11 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216,www.JeremiahNewman.com - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Nina. Yes, I completely agree with your thoughts and sayings about our home being a safe haven during this whole pandemic, I haven't gone out much except to go buy something from the stores. As seniors we certainly have to be safe and concern with where we go these days.

Mar 19, 2020 06:52 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Roy Kelley we are also staying at home for the most part. Chris still takes the dog for a walk each day. I go out as needed for groceries.

Mar 19, 2020 07:07 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Jerry Newman hi Jerry... as a septuagenarian I certainly fall into the senior category... and I'm staying cautious, but I'm not hiding and not taking silly chances. Be safe, Jerry.

Mar 19, 2020 07:08 AM
Jerry Newman

Yes, Nina. At age 74, I am concerned with health and safety too. I am working from home mostly these days with limited showings for buyers.

Mar 19, 2020 07:13 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Nina:

I suspect many more people are thinking of their homes in very different ways now, emotionally and otherwise. We are certainly spending more time there, and many with others surrounding them for long periods. No doubt many are experiencing a dramatic shift in the lifestyles they may have been accustomed to.

Enjoy your weekend at home!!

Jeff

Mar 20, 2020 03:50 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Jeff Dowler, CRS good morning, Jeff... I've always been a bit of a "home body" and loved to stay in... but now even I am getting a little frustrated by the enforced need to stay at home.

Mar 21, 2020 04:10 AM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Mar 21, 2020 06:45 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Nina. This is awonderful take on home and I agree with you.

Mar 22, 2020 04:56 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Kathy Streib thank you so much, Kathy... always humbled when someone thinks something I've written is worthy of more attention.

Mar 22, 2020 05:13 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Sheila Anderson thank you, Sheila... I think it's easy to forget how each of us has a very personal relationship with our own home.

Mar 22, 2020 05:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

Yes, our homes are our safe havens, or at least they should be. Coming home should evoke an "ahhhhh." 

Have a great day!

Mar 22, 2020 07:56 AM
Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD
ViewHomes of Clark County - Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
REALTORS® in Clark County, WA

It's like a big hug when we walk through the door. Home is our safe haven, and reflects a lot about us too. I know we both give daily thanks for our wonderful home right now.  Like Mimi Foster, I just wish my kids and grandkids were here with us. That would be paradise.

Mar 22, 2020 08:18 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Kat Palmiotti hi Kat... I, for one, miss my home when I'm away for any longer period of time. Happy Sunday!

Mar 22, 2020 08:37 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD hi Debb... that's a great way of putting it... that home is like a big hug when we walk through the door. It's how I feel each time I walk through my door.

Mar 22, 2020 08:38 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

We in our industry talk and repeat things in almost a rote manner at times, Nina Hollander ... we speak the language so much.  But it's true ... at times such as these ... our home is and should be our safe place and a haven.  Sometimes we must be reminded.  I think that's been done ...

Gene

Mar 22, 2020 10:21 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

Great post and way to look at things right now. Have always considered my home to be a place of safety and refuge, a place to decompress from the world. Living in rented accomodation this year, i see nature as my go to place to decompress right now and a good book as well.

Mar 22, 2020 11:13 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Yes, I'm so glad to own my home (and glad they are giving a grace period for mortgage payments for those that need it).

Mar 22, 2020 11:22 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi hi Gene... sometimes it takes a crisis like the one we are living through to remind us of what's important in our lives and why.

Mar 22, 2020 11:29 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

Very true, Nina Hollander ...

Mar 23, 2020 10:09 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 hi NIck... our homes as our safe places and sanctuaries are ever more important these days. I suspect many of us will not forget this for a long time.

Mar 22, 2020 11:30 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Debbie Gartner hi Debbie... I'm deighted that our government is stepping in in this regard... it will avoid the kind of crash we had in 2008/2009.

Mar 22, 2020 11:31 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Nina Hollander - I have a work office but I spend a lot of time conducting business in my home.  What makes me relate to your blog is when I come home from a vacation of any kind. Whether it is 2 days or 30 days,  I am always so glad to be home!

Mar 22, 2020 12:04 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Sheri Sperry - MCNE® hi Sheri... I only ever run into the office to deliver checks, make copies, go to a meeting. I meet clients there in one of our conference rooms... but otherwise, it all happens in my office at home.

Mar 22, 2020 12:19 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Nina Hollander ,

So glad that Kathy Streib featured your post on her "Ah-ha" moments for the week post. I've always looked our home as a refuge, a safe harbor. At first when my Geno passed away I found it difficult to be here as it reminded me of "Our place" and was so difficult to walk through the door and not see him. Now I'm grateful beyond words to have the lovely home I have as a safe refuge..he is still here just not in the physical sense.

Mar 22, 2020 04:29 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR hi Dorie... I am so happy that your home has again become more of refuge than a place of sorrow. After my mother died and I was going back and forth to NYC to clear out her home, it always felt strange to walk through her door and not find her there. So I can relate to how you may have been feeling those first weeks after Geno died.

Mar 23, 2020 05:06 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Property Manager

The emotional value of owning a home has become even more evident in the last few weeks, hasn't it Nina?  Even though there seems to be a grace period coming for those with mortgages, owning a home free and clear is one huge security blanket. It's something for everyone to strive for as one more layer of comfort and security in life. 

Mar 23, 2020 11:44 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Carol Williams hi Carol... for sure, the last few weeks have clearly shown that one's home is more than four walls and a roof.

Mar 23, 2020 12:02 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

Words well spoken (or written)!  I am so thankful to have a safe haven well away from any large population centers, with our own supply of water and power as well.  It's going to be a long and tough course we're on.

Mar 25, 2020 09:08 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089 thank you, Georgie. Strange times we are living in right now... nothing much we can do but live day by day and look forward to a better tomorrow. Stay well and safe.

Mar 26, 2020 05:24 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

What a thoughtful, eloquent post Nina!  Let's hope that pesky virus isn't in any of our homes--scary to know it can live on surfaces for so long.

Mar 26, 2020 05:26 PM
Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

My home is definitely a Safe Spot ... a place of peace, safety, comfort, privacy, and a place to bring my family and friends for special times together.

Thank you for this blog.  Very insightful.

Love and say often ...

"It is better to be safe than sorry."

... America Proverb

Mar 26, 2020 08:06 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR thanks, Mary, for stopping by and the kind comment. Right now, I won't even go there in my thoughts as to the virus coming into my house... can't live being paranoid! :)

Mar 27, 2020 04:54 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Diana Dahlberg good morning, Diana. Thanks for the nice comment and for popping by. How often did we hear from parents and teachers when we were growing up that it's better to be safe than sorry? Those words can't be truer than they are today. Stay well!

Mar 27, 2020 04:56 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Nina, we have observed a trend for people wanting to get out of apartments due to the virus and into single family homes as a safe place.

Mar 28, 2020 10:40 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Joe Pryor hi Joe... I was thinking about that kind of living just a few days ago after talking with my former partner in NYC... his coop on Fifth Avenue had just had its first corona virus diagnosis. Of course, I lived in buildings like that all my life until we moved to Charlotte in 1998. And I never gave it a second's thought about living so close to other people, taking elevators, pushing elevator buttons, etc.

Mar 28, 2020 11:09 AM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Great post!  Being at home so much I definitely have been making changes, doing projects, and finishing other projects.  I'm happy to be where I am and hope others have a safe place to be! 

Apr 01, 2020 07:17 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Jan Green good morning, Jan... thank you. I've been at home, but can't say I've focused much on home projects... more on work projects.

Apr 02, 2020 05:33 AM