At a Loss......

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I can remember the overwhelming sadness I felt when I lost my parents and my best friend. Now I am feeling something new and it is something that I can not fully explain, but am experiencing deeply. I have never been afraid before, but I am now. I am afraid that life as we knew it may be gone for good. Oh no.......it isn't healthy and I know it, but I am at a loss. Stay well all.

 

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

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Rainmaker
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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
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Hi Sheila,
Life as we know it is constantly changing. It's just not usually forced upon us quite so quickly.  Life is changing dramatically but I am a person of strong faith and I know there will be good to come of this... lots of good.

I lost my parents at a very young age.  It was very tragic and sad, thrusting upon my brother and me many uncomfortable and difficult changes.  As I look back, I can see many blessings that have come about because of it.  I still miss my parents, of course, but I feel so blessed for the many silver linings that came about as a result. 

So, I am focusing on what I can control for now and the reveal of the future... whatever that is. 

Sending you virtual hugs of comfort. 

Apr 01, 2020 08:03 AM #21
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you so much Carol. Stay well.     Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 08:05 AM #22
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Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

This year the world is changing Sheila, I am sure your concerts will be close for awhile ask basemall games are not on the list for weeks if not month.  Stay in and stay well.

 

Apr 01, 2020 09:33 AM #23
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Will. You be well too.    Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 09:35 AM #24
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

Be careful my friend. Depression is no laughing matter. Seek help.

Find that positive thought and have a happy Wednesday Sheila Anderson 

 

Apr 01, 2020 10:36 AM #25
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Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
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Sheila Anderson - I know that it is scary but try to focus on something positive.

Apr 01, 2020 10:39 AM #26
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
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Sheila Anderson - The most effective thing I ever did in life when I was in the dumps is to face the fear headstrong and do something for others. I found I could do a lot of good and I didn't have to be traveling far to do it. I could do a lot by means in which were right at my feet and at my disposal. Please, Sheila, dig deep. Find your strength. Brush your dogs. Pick up the phone. Talk to someone. Be not a afraid. You are a courageous woman who has traveled to places I would never go. I believe in you. 

Apr 01, 2020 10:51 AM #27
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Paul. I have been there and done that, and if this continues muchhhhhh longer I will revisit it. That said it is just a prevailing feeling for now and the gardening will help once the weather warms a bit. TY     Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 11:01 AM #28
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I agree Grant. Thank you.     Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 11:02 AM #29
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Patricia. I have done all of those things and will continue to do so. Iknowabout getting out of my own way. It is just a feeling I can't shake and I allow myself the gift of reality speak.     Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 11:06 AM #30
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

I think when we are isolated like so many of us are, it is easy to feel a little anxiety not normally felt.  I've made a list of activities I can do to pass time.  For the most part I am doing well.

Apr 01, 2020 02:48 PM #31
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Myrl./ I am glad you are doing well. I spent most of my day today getting miles backinto my account from a canceled trip in June. TY    Sheila

Apr 01, 2020 02:50 PM #32
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Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
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I feel like lots of people felt that way in 1918 when the Spanish flu was around and perhaps even in when so many people died from Hong Kong flu in the early 70s.  I believe in vaccines and heard immunity and I think this too shall pass.  I just hope all the ones I love and care about... are here to see the other side.  I mostly have turned the news off and I wasn't on facebook all day.  I needed a little break myself.

Apr 01, 2020 10:04 PM #33
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Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
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Sheila you need to change your perspective, I keep telling Diane the same thing, enjoy what you have and live every day to the fullest... I  never thought traffic would ever be light in my  life time in Los Angeles...I never thought that living next to LAX there would be peace and quiet at by few planes flying.... well it is all true and I am enjoying it while it lasts, Endre

Apr 01, 2020 10:45 PM #34
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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR
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Morning Sheila.

This too shall pass.  Look at the bright side, The sun will come up soon, life goes on.

Apr 02, 2020 01:32 AM #35
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Tammy. It is really scary and I am having a hard time. I pray for you and yours too.    Sheila

Apr 02, 2020 05:31 AM #36
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Endre. I get that but find it hard to recognize the upside in any of this.   Sheila

Apr 02, 2020 05:41 AM #37
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you James.     Sheila

Apr 02, 2020 05:41 AM #38
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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California - Carlsbad, CA
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Hi Sheila:

So sorry you are feeling the way you are but understand with all that is going on, and the forced isolation. Thinking of you and sending lots of positive thoughts.

Jeff

Apr 04, 2020 11:48 AM #39
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Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Jeff.     Sheila

Apr 04, 2020 12:17 PM #40
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