Memory of My Mother Through the Foods She Cooked - Early Mother's Day

By
Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Capital Properties DC AB15253

Cooking at home every night is getting challenging.  What to cook? Do you have the ingredients? Are you tired of that food yet? I have been turning to cook books, tried and true standbys, and the foods my mother cooked.

My mother was a very good cook - and she was adventurous in her culinary efforts.  I remember the time she made biscuit tortoni, a delicious Italian ice cream dessert with amaretti cookies and cherries on top, and the time she made sauerbraten and red cabbage - all delicious accomplishments for a young woman from Lynchburg Virginia.  Her mother was an adventurous cook too who made souffled omelets and cooked squirrel too.  The memories of my mother's culinary adventures into other cuisines are great, but the foods I remember and cherish are not the ones from cookbooks but the every day foods - the stuffed peppers and Spanish spaghetti casserole made of ground beef, cheddar cheese, onions, celery and Chef Boyardee canned spaghetti.  At least four or five times a year I make her baked chicken with mushroom soup and white wine that she served my dad as a newly wed four or five nights in a row - because he said he liked it the first night!  Her chili is some of the best I ever have had and using her recipe for spaghetti sauce gets me rave compliments - even though I have no Italian genes in me.  

Then there are the recipes that I didn't get from her because I thought she would always be there to share them with me.  I still am trying to reproduce her macaroni and cheese which was a delicious custard consistency that held together beautifully - and her chopped steak with pan gravy and biscuits on top.  I dreaded dinner when she cooked that because the steak wasn't really steak but some piece of beef that was so hard to chew that my jaw hurt before dinner was over - but the truth is - it was REALLY good.  I would love to recreate that meal - with a slightly better piece of beef. 

So..... Will you share a recipe of your mother's with me? I will put them together and send them all to whoever sends me a recipe.  If you want to include your memory of the dish, a little about your mother or whatever you would like to share, including pictures, that would be grand.  I look forward to hearing from you -  You can post it and then include a link here in the comments!  I can't wait to read your recipes and start cooking!  Happy Mother's Day to all our mothers!  We are lucky to have been at your tables!

Comments (42)

Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Kathy Streib - I loved reading your story of your grandmother's cooking and that Spanish Rice and pork chops will be on my table next week - maybe with some cornbread from Kat Palmiotti!

May 07, 2020 07:56 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Carol Williams - I am really sorry that you lost your mother when you were so young. That must have been very hard.  You lost a lot more than learning to cook.

May 07, 2020 08:11 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Lottie Kendall - will you share a baking recipe from your mother? your favorite cookie recipe perhaps?

May 07, 2020 08:12 PM
Anna Banana Kruchten CRS, CRB, Phoenix Broker
HomeSmart Real Estate BR030809000 - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Lise what a great idea!  I remember many things that my Mom cooked but not sure I have her recipes.  She made a really fabulous desert that everyone loved....might be able to find that one.  Back later....

May 08, 2020 09:38 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Lise - thanks for triggering such nice memories of my mother and her cooking

May 08, 2020 10:35 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

What a wonderful story, Lise, and such fond memories.

I don't have a particular recipes from my Mom other than the saffron bread she always made at Christmas - a Swedish tradition - until the last few years when it's just been too much for her now that's she's in her 90s. We need to carry on that tradition this coming year.

Jeff

May 09, 2020 11:52 AM
Margaret Goss
Baird & Warner Real Estate - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

In general, my mother disliked cooking - but she did  it every single night. She put together some doozies but she was  trying to learn how to cook American food.

What she could do was prepare feasts from her Polish homeland. Pierogis, stuffed cabbage, potato pancakes, soups, and many wonderful desserts. I don't have her recipes because they were in Polish of which I have limited knowledge unfortunately. 

But I do remember her teaching me how  to make stuffed cabbage which I loved. It was not written down so I'll see if my memory can conjure it up.

 

May 09, 2020 03:01 PM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

May 09, 2020 06:58 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Lise Howe what a wonderful story to share for today.... Happy Mother's Day to you.... 

May 10, 2020 05:49 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Lise Howe ,

I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post in her "Ah-ha" moments for the week. My mom was a Home Economics teacher and she was a wonderful look and baker..ahh the sweet smell of her breads, pies, cakes, cookies, friend chicken etc...all wonderful memories! Happy Mother's day!

May 10, 2020 09:08 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR - what is your favorite go to dish that your mother made?

May 10, 2020 09:21 AM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
NMLS #216987, IL Lic. 031.0006220, WI Licensed. APMC NMLS #175656 - New Lenox, IL
708.921.6331 - 40+ yrs experience

What a wonderful thing you're doing, Lise Howe.  Ironically, just the other day I overheard my wife talking to her brother about their mom's cooking and baking.  It's not the first time.  They tiptoe down those memories fairly often.  Rightfully so, as she was wonderful in the kitchen.  My mom (at 94) is still cooking and baking away, thankfully.  I'll gather a recipe from both moms and send it off to you ASAP ...

So glad I saw this post via  Kathy Streib  ...

Gene

May 11, 2020 08:31 AM
Sam Shueh
(408) 425-1601 - San Jose, CA
mba, cdpe, reopro, pe

My wife always critized my mother's cooking. As it turned out that was what her mother taught her. Went over there food tastes like home cookings with sweet flavor in most dishes. 

All of them are now gone. 

May 11, 2020 09:28 AM
Michael J. Perry
KW Elite - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

Wow it’s almost 5:30 and I’m starving! All of these sound great !!!!!!!!!! 

May 11, 2020 02:51 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Lise, all sound delish!! hope you figure out the mac and cheese, the stuff in the stores is so deterriorated from the real deal. " baked chicken with mushroom soup and white wine," now that's a fall back classic that works most anyone can enjoy, can swap mushroom soup for cream of celery or french onion to mix it up.

May 11, 2020 04:17 PM
Kathy Schowe
California Lifestyle Realty - La Quinta, CA
La Quinta, California 760-333-8886

Lisa,

My Mom was not the best cook- but I love cooking and have written 2 cookbooks!  Many of my Mom's friends and our family wonder where my passion for cooking came from!   I also have a a cooking website with lots of my recipes... KathysKitchenRecipes.com!  I think my Mom would be surprised and proud to know that I love to cook!

May 11, 2020 08:03 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Deciding what to cook every night has been a challenge for me for more years than I care to remember. Even if I wanted to drive all the way in to town to eat out, there's nowhere here I'd want to go.

My Mom was a wonderful cook and baker, and she like doing it. In spite of that, she was skinny as a rail. She like to cook, just not to eat.

I don't have her recipes. They were all in her head.

May 11, 2020 08:13 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

My Italian father recently passed away and although my mom was  a pretty good cook, all our treasured recipes are from my father's side of the family.  He and my uncle ran a fine dining Italian restaurant for many years--tuxes on the waiters, tableside salad prep, my aunt's special strawbeerry pie for dessert along with grandma's cookies.  Thanks for the memories!

May 13, 2020 08:44 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR - I am so sorry that you have lost your father.  My dad died when I was still in law school in 1975- and I miss him very much still.  Your aunt's strawberry pie sounds delicious with your grandmother's cookies!  I hope you have the recipes still! Is the restaurant still open?

May 13, 2020 08:54 AM
Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

You are lucky to have some of the recipes your mother made. I"m sure it's heart warming to make them!

May 14, 2020 11:24 AM

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