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A fear-driven life which is no life at all. Fear as a motivator has advantages while it visits here on earth with mankind but know it was never meant to be. Using fear however can profit you if you use it to find "good", liberty, freedom, TRUTH, error, and FAITH. It wants to exist for its own purposes. Do not honor that but deny it instead and live for your own purposes

SHOCK (something new)

Shock is a mysterious dynamic too. It can cure you and help you come to your senses, center and focus or cripple you into limbo, complacency and despair. It is powerful when first introduced and diminishes with time as it is a pass-through experience. We were never meant to live in a state of shock. Learn from it


Since no one has ever been here before (first-hand) then we all are on a learning curve of experience, discovery, adventure & exploration. Sure, if someone before us mapped the subject out we can benefit from that but what happens to us personally after that is our learning lesson. No two are alike & we all differ here


Imagine not having or using what we call common sense or sense in common. The ability to reason, be rational & seek truth learning as we go is intended for us to survive as we journey to become better & more informed, mature & seasoned. Not using this sense is sad, costly and we are quick to realize the loss of it


How eager and willing people can be either through ignorance, fear or emotional disorder to outsource their common sense to another and rely on a third party to guide them in their daily life. Turning over ourselves to another should be thought through and done under the supervision of the SELF at all times. It's your life!


We are explorers by default. Every day is a different adventure that may appear familiar but it is still the first time-out in the moment you are in. Every moment is untainted, fresh & is contaminated by what we bring into it or allow others to contribute toward it. This fresh start is given to all. Some throw or trade it away even handling it unwisely by mis-spending the opportunity for various "poor" reasons. Stop that!


 These systems allow the self to steward and handle what comes their way as to what they cannot see or cannot know but others do. When we listen to others share, we can accept or reject their comments but hearing them out is profitable. Choose after that as to your welfare, direction and care. 


The herd mentality! The "everyone is doing it" or going along to get along while convenient is a disguised comfort zone, lack of growth dynamic that is better referred to as temptation. You are tempted away from what you know is right in your heart. Hesitation, confusion & doubt help this along. Instead, find your answer while data, opinions & prospects make themselves known. Reserve the final decision. Make sense


Living a life of hindsight is not living at all either. Who wants to constantly know what they should have done or not done over & over again? Where is the pay-off? Imagine if you could learn in the moment what profits you or doesn't and act on that? Hindsight would not exist! Use hindsight to learn from not repeat


You got sick? Flu? Cold? Measles" Cough? Etc? It visited with us usually at a young and tender age and others were there to help us through it all. When you got older, you took charge. Now, we get treatments, medicines and even become pro-active while going through these intruding episodes on our well-being


When a human smells something not right, hears, sees or feels something out of place we respond to it instinctively. We counter the intruding episode with a reaction by us. We know to step back, be cautious, inquire & summon help & then even prevention. Self-evidency and self-preservation are close cousins in us


Some remedy or action may be better than none at all. However over-time (from 1 sec to ?) we do know & then we should trust in that knowing and act accordingly. There is no medicine that fits all. What works for one may not make the rounds successfully. We have the ability to find this out & act on it while in action


At some point anyone who has spent years learning about anything should be heard and respected. But they are not Gods, know it alls or the end-result for your situation. They help, treat and assist but guarantee nothing. This is not surprising but to those that think otherwise it is. Our answers remain exclusive to us


Doctors fault patients for not listening. It is their biggest pet peeve. However there is the paradox. There is something in us that is greater whether we know it or not that is in conflict with outside sources. Amazing how what cures you may not cure me and vise verse. However, general treatment is a good place to start


Your default in life is a simple one designed to protect, preserve and compliment you as you explore and experience all life has to offer. When we stray too far in any direction, we risk getting ill causing us to stop, assess and seek recovery. This is not complex in the dynamic but in the carrying out of it. Less is more and the simpler the better prevails...if we let it

Comments (10)

Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

My aim is to be aware, to make considered choices, without being fearful. A balancing act, but worth the effort.

May 27, 2020 11:25 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Lottie Kendall ...when one gives all they have...what else can they do? Best to U

May 27, 2020 12:11 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co. Notary Services, retired Realtor

Very well said Richie Alan Naggar  (Then again you always state things perfectly).

May 27, 2020 02:20 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Bob "RealMan" Timm ...you tend to track very well

May 27, 2020 03:36 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
RE/MAX Elite 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
RE/MAX Elite Warren County OH (Cincinnati/Dayton)

I've got Faith in a higher power and my life is not to be lived in fear.  If it's my time to check out, I'll be checking out and I'm okay with that.  Statistically the rational engineer brain I have says the odds are significantly in my favor.  I hate seeing all the lives being destroyed for the sake of "controlling" something we're not ultimately going to control.  Bill

May 27, 2020 09:04 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello Liz and Bill Spear ...most excellent commenting & sharing thank you Bill

May 28, 2020 05:55 AM
Kathy Streib
Room Service Home Staging - Delray Beach, FL
Home Stager - Palm Beach County,FL -561-914-6224

Hi Richie- sadly common sense left the building with Elvis.  What we are experiencing is not like what we've faced before...similar maybe. I wear a mask in stores out of respect for others. I maintain my distance. I wash my hands all of the time. I'm doing what in my mind, is reasonable. 

May 29, 2020 08:46 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Kathy Streib anyone who does what they beleive is reasonable....IS

May 29, 2020 08:49 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Richie, my take is that the majority  of people got pushed into "Fear mode" by many culprits....  It takes common sense and leadership to get out of the fear mode when all the information that you are bombarded with is to create more Fear.... now with that said sadly there is a huge Herd Mentality.... and the ones that are pushing the herd could care less about them... They are what I call collateral damage for their selfish goals, Endre

Jul 12, 2020 03:37 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

My friend Endre Barath, Jr. ...your decent comment stands tall and thank you

Jul 12, 2020 04:51 PM

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