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Lazy Lane or Dead End. Your choice!

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart Real Estate AZ Broker BR030809000

 

Imagine my laughter when I just happened upon this street sign, Lazy Lane OR Dead End, while looking at homes. So let's pretend you live on Lazy Lane but if you take a wrong turn it will turn into a Dead End!  That's was an intriguing thought to me in that moment!  I knew I had to snap a photo and the perfect opportunity to use it would appear! 

 

Lazy Lane OR Dead End sounded like situations that pop up a lot in life.....and especially this past few months with all the challenges going on in the world. And let's not forget the ranters on social media that is speeding fast towards Dead End, at some point. Lost friends, lost respect, lost authority, lost business, lost happiness and much more. A big price to pay..

 

 

Lazy Lane VS Dead End

 

I have long believed it's ALL a CHOICE. Everything in life is a CHOICE. Choose your thoughts and actions VERY wisely.  And if you find yourself going towards a DEAD END - for Pete's sake CHOOSE AGAIN!  Stop talking or ranting or whatever crazy thing you  are creating  in your mind! Close your eyes and breathe to 10 until you calm down.  Repeat that as long as is needed to get your sanity back.  You know it won't work out well in the long run to continue on  Dead End path!

 

And yes, you really do know in your gut that you are fast approaching a DEAD END. There is another way...and it takes practice! A lot of practice...or not if you 'get it' quickly.

 

CHOSE AGAIN!

 

The other day I received a nasty text from a business affiliate who I've talked with at business events but am not particularly close to. This happened pretty late in the evening, after he had clearly been sipping a few too many. Just plain stupid. Never a wise thing to do.... please just step away from the computer, phone, text, email..... STOP and CALM DOWN.   His rant was so off base and rude that I simply wasn't going to 'play' this nutso game with him or anyone else for that matter. I responded back for a second time rationally and then BAM another nasty text came flying in blaming me for his problems.  Right, sure, you bet. Not. Some folks just don't get that enough is enough. I was done. That is a DEAD END.

 

Everything in life is a CHOICE

 

 

Choose your thoughts and actions....VERY wisely

 

CHOSE AGAIN!

 

CHOSE AGAIN!

 

CHOSE AGAIN!

 

 

Lazy Lane or Dead End. Your choice!

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Comments(59)

Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Anna, I do hope you sent him a copy of the photo you took for this post.  

And yeah, sending any kind of communication while loopy is never a smart idea, although I gotta say, a lot of my friends seem to be doing it.  They are not so drunk that they send rants, however.  

Sep 03, 2020 10:37 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
CEO of Vision Drive Realty - Coastal San Diego

I love my street name: Vision Drive

3,000,000 here you come!

 

Sep 03, 2020 05:22 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Agreed  to believe is to see.....Vision! Hold the vision and magic happens!  Thanks Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets 

Sep 03, 2020 05:50 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hi, Anna.

OK, I made my choice.  I included your post in today's Last Week's Favorites post.  Thanks for writing it!

Cheers!

Pat

 

Sep 06, 2020 06:38 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Anna Banana Kruchten Arizona's Top Banana! ,

i was sure this post would get featured when I wrote when you first posted. So glad to see..well deserved! With our instant communication capabilities and less face to face interactions it's amazing what people are willing to spout out!

Sep 06, 2020 06:47 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Anna Banana Kruchten Arizona's Top Banana! -  somehow when you run into a rather impolite person to say the least your response will probably lead to a dead end.

Sep 06, 2020 10:15 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Liz and Bill Spear I think it's been happening more this past 6 months then ever before. At least that's my experience. I've racked up 2 so far!  It's a go nowhere game they're playing.  It can kill relationships in a heart beat. Seems incredible stupid to me.

Sep 06, 2020 01:14 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Roy Kelley August was a good month. And here we are already in September!  Enjoy!

Sep 06, 2020 01:15 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Exactly John Juarez  Deadend is a DeadEnd!  Lazy could mean a lazy Sunday afternoon swimming around the pool or taking a nap in the hammock!

Sep 06, 2020 01:17 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Patricia Kennedy a few of my friends enjoy a little red but going over the top nasty - never!  We're ususally joking and laughing!  As for the few folks that just don't know when to quit - that's their problem to solve, if they want to.

Sep 06, 2020 01:18 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets while you're driving around look for the unusual street names.  This one was pretty odd!  I've never seen a Vision street.  Vision Board - of course!

Sep 06, 2020 01:20 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hey Patricia Kennedy thanks for the feature!  And again, it's so nice to have you back in the rain.  You've been missed!!

Sep 06, 2020 01:20 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR it surprises me lately too.  Somehow some folks have lost a total lack of rationality and civility.  No thanks!

Sep 06, 2020 01:21 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Totally agreed Grant Schneider there's not talking to folks that are seeing RED and/or had too much to drink and in a rant.  Walk the other way - fast!!  Or just end the communication!!

Sep 06, 2020 01:23 PM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

I had a couple of tipsy texters in my life and in the last year both resulted in a buhhh-bye! Dead end! One, was abusive to me for years and always had to have the last word in a rant. Unfortunately, we were business affiliates via a contract until I found a loophole. I finally decided, I didn't need to set the record straight in the end, who needs the last word, when you can simply walk away from a toxic person. 

Sep 07, 2020 07:30 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Good choice Carol Culkin, ReeceNichols - not a good thing to allow toxic people spewing craziness.  They'll all find someone else to blame for why they're not happy.  You'll be much more happy and productive without that _______ in your life or business.

Sep 07, 2020 10:04 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Stop and think again - or think a better thought. Especially if your thoughts are taking you off to blame someone else for whtever troubles you've brought upon yourself.

I'd love to see a return to personal responsibility, price in achievement, and civil discussions. But... don't guess it will happen.

Sep 08, 2020 08:29 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Marte Cliff hold the faith!  Some folks will come back around to civility and owning up to making a mistake. Others never have and probably never will.

Sep 08, 2020 09:15 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Love this one Anna!  So very true.  Stop, reform your thoughts and start again.  But going on and on late at night - a dead end! 

Sep 10, 2020 09:14 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Thanks Jan Green !  Choose again! Choose again! Choose Again! When I was teaching leadership we went over this concept over and over and over until the litebulbs went on and stayed on.  Only a few kept choosing the dead end. Wonder if they ever got it?   Cheers!

Oct 18, 2020 04:09 PM