What You Write Ends Up Who Knows Where?

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Elite 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com SAL.2002007747

One of the things you learn working in corporate America is you never know where what you write will end up. 

Emails get forwarded, then forwarded again, and again, and again.  The domino push has started.

Suddenly your "private" audience of one is now an entire department and subject to a Reply All cloudburst, and there's no walking it back!

Things written as a joke or in confidence can easily wind up as Exhibit A in a lawsuit against the company.

So needless to say, that mindset transfers over to me in real estate.

I've seen agents forward things to their clients that kick the proverbial beehive.

An agent provides showing feedback that the "master bathroom is WEIRD!".  That's NOT the kind of stuff I want going straight to my seller.

Is the master bathroom unusual in that it has a door from the bathroom straight into the living room?  You bet.  But considering the change was made for someone with medical issues and it cut about 45 feet of walking to get to the nearest bathroom and the home is in a 55+ community, the modification actually makes sense.

And of course we've all heard stories of agents posting things on their "personal" or "business" Facebook pages that have gone viral, and NOT in a good way.  It usually doesn't take long for a broker to decide the agent should be "seeking other job opportunities" to borrow a phrase from my corporate life.

Real estate or corporate America, it's critical to use discretion.  Who knows where your next comment, blog post, email or Facebook post or comment just might wind up?

Bill

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  1. Ginger Harper 07/27/2020 07:20 AM
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Rainmaker
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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

Discretion, a word many people have forgotten the meaning of, and the supposed annonymity the internet offers has allowed people to have a major lack of discretion.

Jul 27, 2020 05:54 AM #10
Rainmaker
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Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Serving Buyers & Sellers in NW Austin Real Estate

Good morning,

You are so right..once you push the send button don't expect to retrieve it! Think before you let loose in the heat of the moment something you might feel passionate about but haven't thought it all through.

Jul 27, 2020 06:38 AM #11
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faye schubert
Branson, MO
Living the Branson Lake Life

The overuse of social media, especially for those college age looking for jobs, will hurt them. Companies check social media to see what kind of person they are going to interview.

Jul 27, 2020 06:58 AM #12
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Dan Hopper
Dan Hopper - Gold Way RE - Westminster, CO
Denver Realtor / Author / Advocate/Short Sale

Great information about "pushing" feedback to the Seller.  How foolish it is to believe that ANYTHING you push will not be read or interpreted with wrong feelings.  Best to always have the choice of reviewing prior to sending to the Seller... if ANY of the feedback is so ridiculous (weird, stupid, goofy) ... just indicate that there is NO constructive feedback.  I try my best to prepare the Seller(s) that any feedback may not help us correct any deficiencies brought to our attention... and really the best feedback is... Buyer's Broker is submitting a signed offer.

Jul 27, 2020 06:59 AM #13
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Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
There's no place like home.

... and once you've put it in writing, you have no control over where it goes. 

Jul 27, 2020 08:44 AM #14
Rainmaker
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Ricki Eichler McCallum
CastNet Realty - Corpus Christi, TX
Broker,GRI,ABR, e-Pro, TAHS

What a great post!  Never write something you don't want the whole world to see!  It is easy to get wrapped up in social media and respond to something that will hurt your business.  On the other hand, we must stand for some things even if it means severe consequences will occur.  Just be sure, you are ready to face them.

Jul 27, 2020 08:55 AM #15
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Joan Valverde
HomeSmart Realty - Colorado Springs, CO
GRI,CDPE,CNE,MRP,SRES Colo Sprgs, Blk Forest, Monu

Very good post, and good reminders.  And in our business it is also so true with what we write, and don't write on our contracts!!  It can be the difference of something staying, or something in need of replacement because of the way it was written!!  

Jul 27, 2020 11:24 AM #16
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Hannah Williams
Re/Max Eastern inc. - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-953-8818

Liz and Bill Spear  Caution is the word when putting anything in print I wear a tee-shirt that says  Bee Kind  and I sincerely mean it.  Yes, we all slip but  I am sorry sometimes works sometimes does not but an apology never hurts. The best is to stop and think before you put something nasty in writing.

Jul 27, 2020 11:36 AM #17
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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Especially in these troubled times it is important, I believe, to keep ones personal beliefs to oneself.  Even here on AR, I have read comments that have vastly influenced my opinion about members. This is not a "Facebook" type of community, but a business one.

Jul 27, 2020 11:51 AM #18
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Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

All you have to do is look at the news to see how the things people write come back to bite them. If you happen to be a criminal of some sort, it's probably a good idea to shut up about it.

 

Jul 27, 2020 02:04 PM #19
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Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I try to NOT WRITE it if I wouldn't want the world to see it.  I wasn't ALWAYS this smart, but I am a very fast learner.

Jul 27, 2020 05:14 PM #20
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Brian DeYoung
also affiliated with Howard Hanna - Ithaca, NY
The Realtor with personal investment background

Great advice and comments.

Jul 27, 2020 07:02 PM #21
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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets
Big Block Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
& Host of Postcards From Success Podcast

A great reminder.
My emails, my posts, and my comments... I assume all go viral and get seen by all and I’m willing to stand by anything I post publicly because nothing is private online.

Jul 27, 2020 10:03 PM #22
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Richard V. Foster, Esq.
Nevada Perfect Homes - Henderson, NV
Broker (58356) - ABR/M, CREN, CRS, GRI, RRG, SFR

Speaking as an attorney . . . NEVER write anything down, by hand, computer, text, on by voice mail (yes, I know that is not written, but same rule), that you do not want to haunt you. I use a simple policy, I write it, then I wait a period f time, and go back and read it... If I can see it potentially going bad, I fit it!!!

Jul 27, 2020 10:59 PM #23
Rainmaker
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Dennis J. Zisa & Associates, Inc.
Dennis J. Zisa & Associates, Inc. - Camden, NJ
29 years in So. Jersey and the Greater Camden area

Great post! We've all felt the negative repercussions of an email sent to an agent that inadvertently gets copied to all the wrong parties.

Jul 28, 2020 05:00 AM #24
Rainmaker
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Lyn Sims
RE/MAX Suburban - Schaumburg, IL
Schaumburg Real Estate

How about starting a political newsletter? 

We've said that a gazillion times over the years. Where your stuff ends up is always amazing.

I remember when I sent my X a joke & he had to go to 2 weeks 'sensitivity' training just from that joke! Needless to say, no more emails from me.

 

Jul 28, 2020 07:33 AM #25
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Kim Peasley-Parker
AgentOwned Realty, Heritage Group, Inc. - Sumter, SC

I am careful what I post on social media. I had an agent cringing (good friend) when I called her one morning and asked what she was up to the night before. She asked what I meant. I told her the photos someone posted from the builder event, it looked like quite a party and you were buddy buddy with some agents. She was very upset. 

Jul 29, 2020 05:43 AM #26
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Sham Reddy CRS
H E R Realty, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

You are so right!

Real estate or corporate America, it's critical to use discretion.  Who knows where your next comment, blog post, email or Facebook post or comment just might wind up?

Jul 29, 2020 06:29 AM #27
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Greg Mona
eXp Realty - Chandler, AZ
Professional Real Estate Representation for YOU!

 You are spot-on, Liz and Bill Spear! One good mantra to remember prior to hitting the "send" button is; You can't put the genie back in the bottle.  Another in regard to what you write and publish on social media, blog, etc. is Like a red wine stain, it may fade over time but it is always there.

Jul 29, 2020 09:52 AM #28
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Lynn B. Friedman
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty Call/Text 404-939-2727 Buckhead - Midtown - Westside -- and more ... - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Liz and Bill Spear 
So true! All the examples you shared and more!
The other detail people forget about is those three little dots at the end of the email that carry EVERYTHING that was written before! If an interim email contained comments you don't want to share -- too bad! Unless you took the time to delete those, you just shared those too!

Thanks for your excellent advice as always! Lynn

Jul 30, 2020 07:24 AM #29
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