Business Is About Building Bridges

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

 

 

"It's all about the people.

It's about networking and being nice

to people and not burning any bridges. Your

book is going to impress, but in the end, it is

the people that are going to hire you."

---Mike Davidson

 

 

The 2020 Corona Virus Alert to America started in March.  Inspirationally, I have been challenged to rise above the pandemic. My Sellers and I have been friends for more than 20 years. Maintaining a friendship for any length of time involves commitment and the confidence to know, this friendship could last. Between March and August we were challenged by obstacles, such as to list or not to list, keep tenant in or out.  And then there were the orders: Masks. Social Distancing. Santize, etc. To do or not to do and to follow the orders. What worked? We communicated, listened, prepared, analyzed, compared, and focused on when would be the best time to list their property for sale, after the tenants moved out. What didn't work was getting the property listed sooner because of the pandemic. The house finally went on the market on August 4. It didn't take long to get under contract but it required a lot of sacrifices to keep that house sanitized and maintained before, during, and after it went under contract. 

 

  

 

Friendship is the bridge people walk together because they trust one another, feel comfortable with each other, understand one another, and they are supportive of each others needs --- Patricia Feager

 

 

A true friend is always supportive and will have the other ones back. A vested friendship doesn't always mean that when it comes to business, the REALTOR automatically gets the listing. Like any business, trust isn't about yearning, it has to be earned ---Patricia Feager 

 

 

Business can be stressful, especially when other people enter into the picture. Potential buyers and Agent feedback can cause tension based on different people's opinions. When it comes to equality, perception is a matter of choice, price, location, and what value is determined by buyers in the market to buy. There are life-altering consequences when it's too stressful ---Patricia Feager

 

  

Waiting! Assistance! Patience! Sharing & Caring! The interactions with another real estate Agent representing their clients, in Texas the Staff at the Title Company, the Lender's Processor, Closer, and Underwriters, the compliance and regulations when there's a government loan, such as VA or FHA, the opinions of the Home Inspector, and the Value determined by the Appraiser inceases all of the emotions in a human being. Navigation through the transition weighs heavily on trust ---Patricia Feager 

 

 

The depth dimension of friendship developed over time and how we relate to others determines whether or not friendship survives. Commitment, education, and trustworthiness determines whether the seller sells or the buyer stays, knowing that if they don't pay, they can't stay. The expectation of putting a home on the market and discovering a Pandemic could lock down the economy and stop people from buying and selling real estate is largely dependent on the people involved, what their motivation is, and how they stay connected. The probability for success is higher when everyone does what they have to do ethically, and when people work through any problems that comes along. To navigate successfully, all hands must be on deck ---Patricia Feager

 

Finally, my Seller's property sold on 9/29/2020. Spring and Summer is gone. Fall is here. A Seller sold. A Buyer bought. I spent the day at the Japanese Gardens in Fort Worth two days after the closing taking my time to breathe properly. If I don't, I can't help other people. I know all parts of the body can be impacted. It isn't just the buyer or the seller, or the other people involved in the sale who goes through emotional highs and lows. A REALTOR®, like myself does too. Selling real estate isn't just about the money. It's about finding the balance to avoid high blood pressure, sleep disorders, and a host of chronic illnesses or potentially fatal diseases, such as COVID-19. The context for this post is original because that's the only way I know how to write and express my personal beliefs. My photos of the bridges were an inspiration taken yesterday at the Japanese Gardens as a reminder to keep breathing even when things get tough. Business is About Building Bridges; Life is About Breathing---Patricia Feager  

 

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Rainmaker
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist  - Thank you, so much! I appreciate your comments.

The foundation of trust begins in the home. We learn quickly who can be trusted; who can't. Trust is golden and should never be taken for granted. The dynamic of trust carries over and in business it's the golden key to succeed. When clients know you are trustworthy, the greatest form of gratitude comes in repeat business or referrals. You're absolutely right, Kathleen, "so much trust goes into transacting real estate." Friendship can't be bought, it has to be earned and the rewards for "building lasting bridges," is more valuable than gold. 

Oct 03, 2020 01:07 PM #46
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Kris Collis, Associate Broker
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Patricia, Beautiful story, lovely photos, just what we love about you. 

Nature's rejuvenation always there and wating.   When the deal was done, you found not only inspiration but also analogies to life and business.  Thanks for sharing, I was inspired too.

Oct 03, 2020 03:44 PM #47
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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That's a delightful collection of wonderful photos, Patricia.  And, a nice story to go along with them.

Oct 03, 2020 09:59 PM #48
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Myrl Jeffcoat
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CONGRATULATIONS Patricia, on having this blog FEATURED in the PHOTOS group!

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Oct 03, 2020 09:59 PM #49
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Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Trust is earned and I am sure your clients/friends know ho much you do to earn their trust!  You are a remarkable woman!

i love your beautiful photos of the the Japenese Gardens. I can imagine the serenity and peace you find there!

Wonderful post Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP !!

Thank you for being you!!

Oct 04, 2020 01:00 AM #50
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Hannah Williams
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP  I totally agree most of my clients have become friends and repeat clients. My dear friend and repeat client has moved to Florida we talk a few times a week and she has become my closed friend although we are miles apart 

Beautiful post as always 

Oct 04, 2020 10:03 AM #51
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Sondra Meyer:
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I loved this post Patricia.   Friendships, real friendships, mean a lot.   It is important that we take care not to burn bridges when we encounter people and/or friends that don't agree with us.    

I am glad that you were able to help your clients get their home sold.   

Just looking at your pictures brought a sense of peace into my day.   

 

I hope that you have an awesome week.  

Oct 04, 2020 11:27 AM #52
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Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Great post, with some beautiful pictures! Representing a friend can be challenging 

Oct 04, 2020 02:48 PM #53
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Joe Jackson
Keller Williams Capital Partners Realty - Columbus, OH
Clintonville and Central Ohio Real Estate Expert

Great post! Thanks for sharing! 

Oct 05, 2020 05:25 AM #54
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Kris Collis, Associate Broker - I am humbled to tears by your beautiful comment. To know I lived a life by inspiring one human being gives me courage and strength to keep writing. 

I'm sure the founders of AR had no idea the impact the members could have on one another. 

Oct 05, 2020 07:55 AM #55
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Myrl Jeffcoat - Thank you. Please know that you and all the people in CA are nearer and dearer during this surreal time in our lives. 

I appreciate being featured in the Photos Group but I appreciate you more. 

Oct 05, 2020 07:58 AM #56
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Debra Leisek - May you find your serenity and be at peace while all the world is in the state of confusion and despair. I think you're remarkable as well! Vicariously, we can convert sadness into peace and beauty. 

Take care, my friend!

Oct 05, 2020 08:03 AM #57
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Hannah Williams - Friendship is earned. And when it's earned because of the services you provide to your clients, it's well earned! I love that you shared you are still friends with one of your repeat clients who moved to FL and that you check in on each other regularly. Now that is TRUE friendship!

Oct 05, 2020 08:06 AM #58
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Sondra Meyer: - True friends are not superficial. They know nobody is perfect but you'll have their back and they'll have yours. To earn the right to be a special friend means a lot. Sometimes, there's no rhyme or reason why people come into our life. In business, people who become friends and stay friends is a triumphant return on an investment! 

I hope you will also have an "awesome week!"  

Oct 05, 2020 08:13 AM #59
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Tom Bailey - Admittedly, representing (or not representing) friends can be a true test of friendship. As we know not every transaction turns out great and that can be terrifying when friends are involved. 

Oct 05, 2020 08:16 AM #60
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Joe Jackson - Thank you! 

I hope you have a wonderful day!

Oct 05, 2020 08:17 AM #61
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Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
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Working with friends is tricky--a delicate balance I think.  You handled it well, and thanks for the lovely photos!

Oct 05, 2020 09:45 AM #62
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Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR - "Tricky?"

"A delicate balance?"

Mary you are absolutely correct! I'm glad you liked my photos! It was magical day! I wish the same for you. 

Oct 05, 2020 12:10 PM #63
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Matthew O'Hare
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This is a great message and a subtle nod to basic mindfulness that is both beneficial to those that practice and those that are around those that practice it.

Oct 06, 2020 08:44 AM #64
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What an absolutely wonderful post, Patricia and I have to say, it was hard for me to get past those photos - they are spectacular! I really do believe you should put together a coffee table book - your photos are truly professional shots!

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