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Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Retired - Franklin, MA
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Good morning, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP what a dynamic post.... I loved every statement throughout this blog post.... it's super saturated with inspiration.... and it's left me with mounds of topics about which to write.... 

Oct 02, 2020 08:10 AM #1
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Nina Hollander
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
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Good morning, Patricia... I've seen so many people burn their bridges both in the corporate world and in the real estate professional simply because they don't stop and think about what they are doing or saying. And once that bridge is burned... it's hard to cross back. 

Oct 02, 2020 08:12 AM #2
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Will Hamm
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Hello Patricia and what a great blog you have written and sharing with us.  Can I reblog it some time?

 

Oct 02, 2020 08:29 AM #3
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Barbara Todaro - I really like your comment and especially the words you chose, such as "super saturated with inspiration." When it comes to staying healthy, Nature mentors and guides me to thinking clearer. I could think of no better place to go this Fall for inspiration than the Japanese Gardens in Fort Worth. It was as if, I didn't want to leave. 

I'm so glad you found inspiration in my writing. Thank you, for sharing!

Oct 02, 2020 08:31 AM #4
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Nina Hollander - I agree. And it's not just business in the Corporate World or real estate profession, it happens in families too. When someone burns a bridge, they ignite themselves. Once the flames go up, it may be too little or too late to repair. But... it could happen. Relationships can be rebuilt but it takes an enormous amount of swallowing ones pride and the willingness to overcome whatever weakend the support that kept their bond together. Overall, lessening the probability to burn a bridge begins with listening. Really, really, really listening and knowing support can't be top heavy. A bridge needs to be balanced. 

Oct 02, 2020 08:44 AM #5
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Will Hamm - I am flattered. I'm sorry I can't permit re-blogging of my blogs. I wrote a post why. If you're interested, here's the link:

https://activerain.com/blogsview/5538045/i-don-t-allow-my-blogs-to-be-re-blogged-on-ar

I really do appreciate your friendship and understanding. Thank you.

Oct 02, 2020 08:46 AM #6
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Rocky Dickerson
Realty One Group - Las Vegas, NV
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Great blog, Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP 

Oct 02, 2020 09:16 AM #7
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Thanks, Rocky Dickerson

Oct 02, 2020 09:19 AM #8
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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Keeping our own mind and body in healthy shape is primary in our stressful business.  Anyone who thinks it's easy needs to walk in our shoes for awhile.  We need to keep our clients on an even keel while we solve whatever a transaction throws our way, even a pandemic.  I go swimming every morning and it's amazing how many problems I solve during that time.  And I start every day energized from taking care of ME first. 

Oct 02, 2020 10:03 AM #9
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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Long & Foster Real Estate Inc 610-225-7400 - Devon, PA
Tredyffrin Easttown Realtor, Philly Main Line

How true, and how wonderful your photos supoport your message. Our job is so often to act as the buffer to the emotions, allowing us to take the hit, so they can rest, knowing they are being protected and looked after. I am glad you took time to look after yourself and enjoy the gardens. It looks delightfully restful

Oct 02, 2020 10:11 AM #10
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Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor® - Without good health, one can bankrupt their own careers. It is extremely important to do something good and refreshing after every closing. Stress is the invisible clothing we wear everyday and wearing it in layers over time can be debilitating or fatal.

I like the fact that you swim every morning and that you know, it's an energizing habit that always puts you in a better frame of mind, body, and soul. Thanks for sharing!

Oct 02, 2020 10:11 AM #11
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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 - Thank you for complimenting me on my photos and recognizing how I tried my best to support my message. That really means a lot to me! 

"Take the hit!" you got that right! That wasn't written in any requirements to be licensed, textbook, or course materials. I learned long ago, if I don't take care of myself, nobody else will. Emotional healing should take precedence or the whole body reacts over time. It could be immediate. Or it could happen over time. I know, you know that too!

Oct 02, 2020 10:30 AM #12
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Carol Williams
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Hi Patricia,
I find peace in gardens too and Japanese Gardens are definitely among my favorites.  Somehow gardens have the effect of making us slow down and breathe, leaving other thoughts behind us... or at least push them aside for a bit. 

When back at work... building and maintaining trust is an ongoing task. It takes time to build trust but can be lost in a second. 

The pandemic has tested us in so many ways to rise above!  You are obviously passing the test with flying colors. 

Oct 02, 2020 10:36 AM #13
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Hi Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP what a lovely,  inspirational post, packed full of truths. Going to the Japanese Gardens is a gift you gave yourself and well worth the trip. I understand that feeling of 'not wanting' to leave.  That's kind of how I always felt when I started to go down the mountain and start the day. Breath.....take in the beauty of nature and feel the goodness. Your thoughts around clients, real estate, working with all the other folks needed - is like bouncing a lot of balls at once. Sounds tiring but you've managed to so with strength. That's why people trust you. You're in this for the long road both personally and in business.  Fantastic entry for the October Challenge.  Thank you!

Oct 02, 2020 10:55 AM #14
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Raymond Henson, SRES, GRI
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Beautiful pictures and beautiful thoughts.  Thank you for the inspiration!

Oct 02, 2020 12:01 PM #15
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Hi Patricia! As I read this, I am coming in from doing a little gardening after work. Gardens offer a serenity that you simply can't find anywhere else. 

First off, I LOVE the photos and secondly, the quotes throughout this entire post are spot-on. I am all about forgiveness so, I try not to allow anyone to permanently burn that bridge with me but, sometimes there's that element of remembrance that is difficult to push past.

Hope you have an amazing weekend!

Oct 02, 2020 03:54 PM #16
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Patricia, bridges are easily burned down, but take a long time to build.

Oct 02, 2020 04:27 PM #17
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John Henry, Florida Architect
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Beautiful and wise collection of thoughts based on many years of experience and observation!  Thank you very much for writing this, Patricia.

Oct 02, 2020 04:32 PM #18
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Carol Williams - I've always found joy in a garden. I can think of no better place to feel peace than exploring what a beautiful garden has to offer. There I find the unspoken word speaks louder than voices. 

Thank you, so much for such a nice comment. May you always live in peace and happiness.

Oct 02, 2020 05:24 PM #19
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Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS AZ Top Banana! - Your positives vibes are always appreciated. The Japanese Gardens in Fort Worth are very tranquil and a special place. I can't even imagine how many hands have contributed to it's growth and continuous beauty giving us the opportunity to take back our lives at times when we need it most. I'll take a day at the Gardens any day over a day at the spa or the movies. 

I understand how exhilarated hiking and mountain climbing feels. I hope you are doing well and that when the mountain calls, you are able to do the things you love to do. There is some powerful magic up there when reaching towards the summit and an unbelievable feeling of accomplishment when you are going down hill nearing the finish line. 

In reference to "bouncing a lot of balls at once," that is an excellent analogy! That's exactly how I felt. You just can't give up or let your clients down. If there's one thing the pandemic taught us is to be humble and to help one another because people need people and no man/woman can do it all alone. But when it's over, you have to be good to yourself. Everyone in the real estate industry should try to remember we dwell not just in a home built by builders, but in all the goodness and beauty of God's green earth.  

Oct 02, 2020 05:46 PM #20
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Raymond Henson, SRES, GRI - I feel blessed that you draw inspiration from photographs and thoughts. Thank you

Oct 02, 2020 05:49 PM #21
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Debe Maxwell, CRS - I feel so lucky that you carved a little time to swing by here on ActiveRain when I know, you have so much to do at home and in business. I feel proud that we connected when we did and especially blessed we had a little bit of time at the CRS Convention when you came to Texas. 

Whether you are helping someone build or buy, pruning the hedges or planting flowers in your own garden, moving, rearranging furniture, adjusting schedules, you are simply amazing and always appreciated. 

As the sun rises and sets may you always be blessed.

Oct 02, 2020 05:54 PM #22
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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George Souto - You have a flair to getting to the truth in just a few words. Blessings to you!

Oct 02, 2020 05:56 PM #23
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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John Henry, Florida Architect - Finding a place where you find peace, quiet, and tranquility outside of the home reinforces your sense of belonging. This lock-down and the pandemic has changed me. I believe others feel the same. We need to be connected in this world; not isolated. Where you can walk outside in beauty, you renew your hope and connections to the goodness in nature. 

Thanks for your thoughtful comment.

Oct 02, 2020 06:02 PM #24
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Patricia,

Your photos beautifully illustrate your post and sure provide a soothing and peaceful backdrop for such a stressfull time.  Great post!  Kathy

Oct 02, 2020 07:06 PM #25
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Awe, thank you, Kathy Schowe! Your comment was deeply felt and appreciated. I love to take photographs and creatively express what I see and how I feel. Letting me know I gave you a 'peaceful backdrop,' is a highly paid compliment! It gave me a great big smile.

Although I always knew never to take anything for granted, I never really experienced anything like being locked down because of a pandemic. It's no longer just a word in the history books or the dictionary. 

May you have the strength and courage to breathe all the beauty you can without stress or anxiety. 

As for breathing in fresh air - well being able to get out and find a place where you can take your mask off is the greatest feeling in the world! 

Oct 02, 2020 07:18 PM #26
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Paddy Deighan JD PhD
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very true words...a dear friend - an agenbt of man yyears -  does not seem to understand this. He constantly yet seemingly unintentionally, blows up the bridges he builds. Loved the photos BTW

Oct 02, 2020 07:27 PM #27
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
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Business is about building bridges and in my experience, maintaining those bridges👍👍👍

Happy Friday Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP 

Oct 02, 2020 08:32 PM #28
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Paddy Deighan JD PhD - Blowing up bridges never champions change. In this business, we need to build bridges with our colleagues as much as we need clients. Whether they are new, repeat, or referrals, the people we work with must have confidence in our abilities to get along with others. 

I'm delighted to know you loved my pictures too! I had such a nice day. I hope you do too!

 

Oct 03, 2020 03:11 AM #29
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS - Therein lies the evidence of success - maintain and strengthen the bridges we create in life and never stop building!

Thank you for that wonderful comment! May you be blessed.   

Oct 03, 2020 03:15 AM #30
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Deb McGuire CNE, ABR, SRS
Keller Williams Capital Partners - Columbus, OH

Beautiful photos and beautiful post!

Oct 03, 2020 04:29 AM #31
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Kat Palmiotti
406-270-3667, kat@thehousekat.com, Broker, Blackstone Realty Group - brokered by eXp Realty - Kalispell, MT
The House Kat

Your photos of the gardens are beautiful!!!  And you are right, business is about building and maintaining bridges. And finding balance in life is so important. I'm glad you know enough to regroup, breath, and enjoy life in order to stay healthy.

Wishing you a fantastic weekend!

Oct 03, 2020 05:18 AM #32
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Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP ,

A very inspiring post and a perfect one for the October Challenge! Everyone has a "happy place" that rejuvenates their soul and hopefully takes time to find out what the happy place is.

Oct 03, 2020 05:24 AM #33
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Brian England
Vacasa - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That is why you are the agent to call in and around Flower Mound, you are always willing to put in the work necessary to get things done and your knowledge is second to none!

Oct 03, 2020 07:04 AM #34
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What a beautiful post and I love the photos. Yes, it is so important to build bridges, instead of burning them.  It is a challenging time for real estate transactions with all of the necessary protocols in place right now. Sounds like you handled this with grace and professionalism.  Smart you to take time to breathe and center yourself. 

Oct 03, 2020 07:14 AM #35
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 I totally  agreed with you. Very happy to see this post. Thank you for sharing and God bless you always 🥰

Oct 03, 2020 08:15 AM #36
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Michael Jacobs
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Hello Patricia - a walk through any garden or a place that delights is a great place to reflect on business and life that has been as well as yet to be earned.  

Oct 03, 2020 08:23 AM #37
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Deb McGuire CNE, ABR, SRS - Thank you for visiting me here on AR! I greatly appreciate knowing what your thoughts were about my post and photos too!

I sure hope your day is grand!

Oct 03, 2020 10:36 AM #38
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Hi, Kat Palmiotti! I love to travel and take photographs! Locally, when I need to recharge, the Japanese Gardens is one of my favorite day trips. Like many people, the government lock-down due to the pandemic took a toll on me. A body just can’t curl up and do nothing. I’m like the energy rabbit who needs to keep going, taking care of business, etc.!

I am so thankful, I finally got that property listed and then, I went full throttle! The Japanese Gardens was my recharging station, a retreat for the body, mind and soul. It was there that I filled up with positive energy. 

I am wishing you a very joyful weekend with lots of positive energy too!

Oct 03, 2020 11:01 AM #39
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Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR - Even today, it's hard to believe we are already into the month of October. As humans, we have become attuned to the rhythm's of the seasons, winter, spring, summer and fall. We align our business plans to the cycles of life and the four seasons, including family gatherings, travel, annual check-ups, car and/or home maintenance. To go dormant in business in the spring was surreal. My clients and I were so ready to go, but you know the rest of the story.

You're right about how important it is to find your "happy place!" The surest way to lose your self-worth is to not have any business, no where to go, and your only hope is to find that darn toilet paper! That's crazy!!!

I was born to serve others with my abilities to find homes for people who needed representation because they needed to sell or move! To finally have that opportunity, but still not knowing what's next? Well, that was very eerie. Once I got over the fear of COVID it eliminated and freed up my abilities to control what was within my control, and that made all the difference.

Out there in Austin, you are positively an Angel! 

Oct 03, 2020 11:16 AM #40
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Brian England - Awe.... thank you, so much! I am thankful I was raised to have structure and discipline at home and through my education. But I always had opportunities to have fun and settle down when I was exhausted. 

Having no flow, no energy because the pandemic cut me off from doing my business, was very hard on me but I just stayed focused on what I needed to accomplish. You'll never know, how grateful I was to list and sell and succeed. The Japanese Gardens was the reward I gave myself. It was such a blessing.

Oct 03, 2020 11:20 AM #41
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD 

When I was a little girl, one of the first songs I learned by heart was "You Gotta Have Faith, Hope, and Charity!" That really is the way to live successfully!!!

That darn pandemic; then what happened next with non-peaceful protests and violence was and may still be a threat to the human race. If I could find a slice of Heaven from a beautiful place like the Japanese Gardens, then I'm taking it, embracing it, snapping photos of all its beauty and vicariously I know that peace, tranquility, and joy is worth it and possible. 

What the world needs now more than ever is to build bridges and not take what doesn't belong to you or take advantage of other people.

Oct 03, 2020 11:32 AM #42
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AndreaBFerreira CRS - SRS - CLHMS - May you be blessed always! I'm very happy to know you took the time to read and enjoy all the beauty I wanted to share with others. And may there be, peace on earth, good will towards man/woman/children everywhere. 

Oct 03, 2020 11:35 AM #43
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Michael Jacobs - wise words, indeed! 

How we managed challenges, orchestrate a closing, and most of all, get along with others is the key that unlocks joy, happiness, and success. 

Oct 03, 2020 11:37 AM #44
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
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Hello Patricia,  I love your quotes and they are all so true for me.  Many of my clients over the years became friends and we remain friends today. So much trust goes into transacting real estate - a great formula for building lasting bridges. 

Oct 03, 2020 12:20 PM #45
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist  - Thank you, so much! I appreciate your comments.

The foundation of trust begins in the home. We learn quickly who can be trusted; who can't. Trust is golden and should never be taken for granted. The dynamic of trust carries over and in business it's the golden key to succeed. When clients know you are trustworthy, the greatest form of gratitude comes in repeat business or referrals. You're absolutely right, Kathleen, "so much trust goes into transacting real estate." Friendship can't be bought, it has to be earned and the rewards for "building lasting bridges," is more valuable than gold. 

Oct 03, 2020 01:07 PM #46
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Patricia, Beautiful story, lovely photos, just what we love about you. 

Nature's rejuvenation always there and wating.   When the deal was done, you found not only inspiration but also analogies to life and business.  Thanks for sharing, I was inspired too.

Oct 03, 2020 03:44 PM #47
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Real Estate Agent

That's a delightful collection of wonderful photos, Patricia.  And, a nice story to go along with them.

Oct 03, 2020 09:59 PM #48
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Myrl Jeffcoat
GreatWest Realty - Sacramento, CA
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CONGRATULATIONS Patricia, on having this blog FEATURED in the PHOTOS group!

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Oct 03, 2020 09:59 PM #49
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Debra Leisek
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Trust is earned and I am sure your clients/friends know ho much you do to earn their trust!  You are a remarkable woman!

i love your beautiful photos of the the Japenese Gardens. I can imagine the serenity and peace you find there!

Wonderful post Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP !!

Thank you for being you!!

Oct 04, 2020 01:00 AM #50
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP  I totally agree most of my clients have become friends and repeat clients. My dear friend and repeat client has moved to Florida we talk a few times a week and she has become my closed friend although we are miles apart 

Beautiful post as always 

Oct 04, 2020 10:03 AM #51
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Sondra Meyer:
Colorado Springs, CO
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I loved this post Patricia.   Friendships, real friendships, mean a lot.   It is important that we take care not to burn bridges when we encounter people and/or friends that don't agree with us.    

I am glad that you were able to help your clients get their home sold.   

Just looking at your pictures brought a sense of peace into my day.   

 

I hope that you have an awesome week.  

Oct 04, 2020 11:27 AM #52
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Tom Bailey
Margaret Rudd & Associates Inc. - Oak Island, NC

Great post, with some beautiful pictures! Representing a friend can be challenging 

Oct 04, 2020 02:48 PM #53
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Joe Jackson
Keller Williams Capital Partners Realty - Columbus, OH
Clintonville and Central Ohio Real Estate Expert

Great post! Thanks for sharing! 

Oct 05, 2020 05:25 AM #54
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Kris Collis, Associate Broker - I am humbled to tears by your beautiful comment. To know I lived a life by inspiring one human being gives me courage and strength to keep writing. 

I'm sure the founders of AR had no idea the impact the members could have on one another. 

Oct 05, 2020 07:55 AM #55
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Myrl Jeffcoat - Thank you. Please know that you and all the people in CA are nearer and dearer during this surreal time in our lives. 

I appreciate being featured in the Photos Group but I appreciate you more. 

Oct 05, 2020 07:58 AM #56
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Debra Leisek - May you find your serenity and be at peace while all the world is in the state of confusion and despair. I think you're remarkable as well! Vicariously, we can convert sadness into peace and beauty. 

Take care, my friend!

Oct 05, 2020 08:03 AM #57
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Hannah Williams - Friendship is earned. And when it's earned because of the services you provide to your clients, it's well earned! I love that you shared you are still friends with one of your repeat clients who moved to FL and that you check in on each other regularly. Now that is TRUE friendship!

Oct 05, 2020 08:06 AM #58
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Sondra Meyer: - True friends are not superficial. They know nobody is perfect but you'll have their back and they'll have yours. To earn the right to be a special friend means a lot. Sometimes, there's no rhyme or reason why people come into our life. In business, people who become friends and stay friends is a triumphant return on an investment! 

I hope you will also have an "awesome week!"  

Oct 05, 2020 08:13 AM #59
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
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Tom Bailey - Admittedly, representing (or not representing) friends can be a true test of friendship. As we know not every transaction turns out great and that can be terrifying when friends are involved. 

Oct 05, 2020 08:16 AM #60
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Joe Jackson - Thank you! 

I hope you have a wonderful day!

Oct 05, 2020 08:17 AM #61
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Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
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Working with friends is tricky--a delicate balance I think.  You handled it well, and thanks for the lovely photos!

Oct 05, 2020 09:45 AM #62
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Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR - "Tricky?"

"A delicate balance?"

Mary you are absolutely correct! I'm glad you liked my photos! It was magical day! I wish the same for you. 

Oct 05, 2020 12:10 PM #63
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Matthew O'Hare
Osterville, MA

This is a great message and a subtle nod to basic mindfulness that is both beneficial to those that practice and those that are around those that practice it.

Oct 06, 2020 08:44 AM #64
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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What an absolutely wonderful post, Patricia and I have to say, it was hard for me to get past those photos - they are spectacular! I really do believe you should put together a coffee table book - your photos are truly professional shots!

Nov 01, 2020 08:49 PM #65