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Creating Sense Of Calm And Well Being During The Pandemic

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart Real Estate AZ Broker BR030809000

 

 

 

The other day Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® e-Pro CRS RCS-D Vets wrote a post which really resonates with me for a reason. Take Action Get Scared, 

 

I shared the above photo in a comment on his post. Sharing the photo kept  me thinking about my experiece of being part of an intensive leadership program of which I went on to being a staff member for quite some time. And that experience  25 years ago is partly why going through this pandemic hasn't been stressful for me.  I simply do what I need to do to be 'safe' and don't do anything stupid. Not like I do stupid stuff anyway!! 

 

I wrote the post below several years or so ago, but it is equally as important, and  maybe even more so now during the pandemic and more shut downs popping up.  You too can create a sense of calm and well being during the pandemic.

 

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Years ago I was involved in an intensive leadership course that went on for weeks. One of my favorite experiences was the High Ropes Course.  It scared  the living bajeebers out of me! They roped us up and then one by one we had to lean over a cliff - kind of like we were going to take off like a bird. I didn't handle it well on the first try but by my 2nd try I realized that we were totally safe. What a freeing feeling looking out over a gorgeous valley 'flying'. Well not really flying but it felt like time was suspended.

 

A few years later when I was on staff one of the guys who was roped up had this idea that he was supposed to jump off and climb back up. OMG you can imagine our surprise when we saw him go over the cliff! Thankfully he was just fine. He came up smiling thinking that was the best thing ever! From then on we gave better directions about how High Ropes Course was all about Balancing Oneself and Life.

 

The 50 foot telephone pole was my favorite. We had to climb up the pole and then stand up on both feet, all the while the pole was swaying (seemed like a LOT of swaying) due to nerves!  At the bottom of the pole I could hear everybody cheering me on and saying stuff like - you can do it Anna, go for it Anna.  So I did. Once I got balanced I stood up tall looking out over the valley and thought WOW this is amazing!  What I forgot to do was reach out for the golden ring which was a couple of feet away. Instead at some point I lost my balance, tried to regain it but alas I could not. I remember thinking at the time that I had failed the exercise but I knew I really didn't.

 

I got many more chances to climb the pole over the years and it was a blast. What I learned was the more I stayed balanced throughout the entire process, and kept my mind calm, I could accomplish anything. That was a big awareness for me back then. I've brought it forward to this moment and from time to time when I need a little balance in my life I look at this picture  - and remember the lesson. 

 

It's all about Balance and Staying Calm in every situation!

 

 

Creating Sense Of Calm And Well Being During The Pandemic

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Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Chris Ann Cleland you're another one I know would get up to the top.  This exercise is on day 4  which means there are plenty of other exercises to prepare you for this day.  And there is a ton of support and people cheering the climbers on.  Again, it doesn't really matter how far up one goes......just that they keep giving their best.

Nov 22, 2020 11:43 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

HaHa Good one Roy Kelley . That made me smile.....it's so easy being cocooned at home, isn't it.

Nov 22, 2020 11:45 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Hannah Williams she does keep us on our toes!  Or is that a 50 ft pole!  LOL

Nov 22, 2020 11:47 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I remember this story, Anna, and LOVE it!

You're so right, there are so many ways to better approach a pandemic than fear. Fear is a 'wasted' emotion, in my book - mind-over-matter, right?!

Nov 22, 2020 07:32 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker - I know exactly how you felt. I graduated in the Flower Mound's Chamber of Commerce 2004-2005 Leadership Program. I also did the high ropes and I couldn't believe how high up it was! I was scared too. I might have been the shortest member but I wasn't the oldest. At that time, the oldest member was in her 70's and she jumped before me. As I got closer and closer to take my turn, I thought, if she can do it at her age without fear, so can I. And I soared like bird!

Nov 22, 2020 09:59 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

It’s probably the most important thing to have a sense of normal life in a time where I can’t be normal for probably another year and a half. Thank you for keeping us sane, Anna. :)

Nov 22, 2020 10:02 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Anna I agree I met George Souto  in the Boston MA meet-up a few years ago he is the real deal the only problem he has is being a Yankers fan:))Endre

Nov 22, 2020 11:44 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Mr. Roger's mother said it best in trying times. Look for the helpers. Stay calm and carry on. Tonight the start of the traditional 65th Rotary auction but remotely, everything online #togetherfromhomeThe show goes on just stepping back and away from the usual public setting. Set back experiences  early in life benefit us all when we stay calm and pour the energy into work arounds. Also realize not everyone is so calm, cool and collected and be extra sensitive to those folks to keep everyone working together. 

Nov 23, 2020 03:25 AM
Chris Ivy
Ivy Vine Investments - Memphis, TN
Sell Your House Fast For Cash In Memphis Tennessee

Good Morning Anna,

 

The important thing was that you weren't scared to get back up there after failing.

Nov 23, 2020 08:11 AM
Kyle Floyd
Sage Street Realty - Plano, TX
Your professional key locator !

A challenge of mental fortitude! Success!

Nov 23, 2020 08:24 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Staying focused while controlling fear and anxiety are important parts of life Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker That must have been quite the experience.

Nov 23, 2020 11:53 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Great topic for these times. Balance certainly is the key.

Nov 23, 2020 12:54 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

HI Debe Maxwell, CRS love the way you said it....fear is a waster emotion.  So, so true. And there is so much going on right now as the fear mongering continues.  Finding ones balance is the key to finding peace.

Nov 23, 2020 08:28 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker ,

Love this post! Perfect message in our challenging times, one of the reasons I refuse to listen to the news..always stirring everyone up..need to stay calm and not approach this pandemic with fear..its useless and will do nothing but harm your well being.

Nov 24, 2020 08:34 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

I am glad you're finding your balance.

Nov 24, 2020 09:34 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Wow Anna you have guts to do that!  Not for me--but I appreciate the lesson here. I get nervous flying in planes--and my daughter lives in Birmingham England!!  So I have to force myself to stay calm flying over that big ocean

Nov 24, 2020 10:06 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Anna:

I remember you sharing this before! There are some powerful lessons here! Not sure I could do what you did but who knows!

There's no need to panic with what's going on - just do what's right for you and others, and be smart!

Jeff

Nov 24, 2020 11:30 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

I realize that the poem "If" by Rudyard Kipling was advice to his son...yet it is applicable to anyone:

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you…

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,

And — which is more — you’ll be a Man, my son!

Rudyard Kipling, “If”

Nov 26, 2020 10:32 AM
Thom Abbott
MyMidtownMojo.com |770.713.1505 | Intown Atlanta GA Condo Living - Atlanta, GA
Midtown Atlanta GA Condos For Sale

Well I certainly did not have any of those kinds of experiences to guide me. I'm just thankful, the business came in, and I've got some extra savings restored. 

At the beginning I got some "projects" done, but not as many. I still have things to do, both around my house and for real estate...(like blogging and working on my websites!) 

Thanks for the words of encouragement!

Nov 27, 2020 06:05 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Anna Banana Kruchten CRS CRB, Phoenix Broker I didn't take that exact "high ropes course,"  but I do have that same sense of calm and well-being from going through life.

 

Nov 28, 2020 01:33 PM